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Is Lord of the Rings ok for an 8 year old?

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Greenpeanutsnail · 17/11/2025 10:03

My DD is reading the Hobbit and so far thinks it is the best book she has ever read. She wants to read Lord of the Rings next. Despite loving reading, I’ve never managed to get into Lord of the Rings. I’ve heard it’s a bit more grown up than the Hobbit. Is there anything unsuitable about Lord of the Rings for an 8 year old? I thought here would be a good place to ask! Thank you.

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DistractMe · 18/11/2025 07:21

Agree with PP that there's nothing inappropriate in LOTR for an 8 year OLD (other than lots of death) , but she is likely to enjoy it more if she waits a couple of years.

Tolkien wrote the Hobbit for his own children, which is why 8 is probably the perfect age to read it for the first time. It's themes are on a much smaller scale then LOTR.

Personally I would try and avoid watching the movies beforehand. They are fantastic, but I think it's better to read the book first and visualise it with your own imagination without the assistance of Peter Jackson.

hattymattie · 18/11/2025 07:34

I think there is an evolution in the language - the first book - focusing on hobbits is easily readable but by the third book the language has become quite lofty representing the men of Gondor. It is a totally different book which is why it’s easier to read at about age 13-15. I loved the Alan Garner books and my children loved the Susan Cooper series.
Agree with the others - Phil Pullman is mid to late teens as adult themes.

ThisWiseBiscuit · 18/11/2025 07:46

She might like Terry Pratchett (the Tiffany series or the carpet people or truckers series)

BarnacleBeasley · 18/11/2025 09:33

namechange92873636 · 17/11/2025 21:47

OMG not the Deptford Mice it’s fucking terrifying, really horrific. Cute animals murdering their siblings, diseased creatures who eating off their own fingers :-0 absolutely horrible.

how about some Diana Wynne Jones instead?!

A fair point - I think the only one I found genuinely horrifying was the one in the countryside with the spooky corn circles and things. But I was probably more like 9 or 10.

OP - on a completely different note, I read all of Judy Blume's books somewhere between 8-10 and liked those. Except Forever, because all the sex stuff was boring to me at that point.

nightmarepickle2025 · 18/11/2025 09:40

The black riders at the start are quite scary

C8H10N4O2 · 18/11/2025 09:48

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/11/2025 22:33

The Box of Delights might be good. I didn't read that until I was an adult - can't now remember whether I saw the classic BBC adaptation first, or read the book, but they're both great.

I don't know if they're still in print but when my son was about 8 or 9 he and many of his friends were very into The Edge Chronicles by Paul Stewart and Chris Riddell. Beautiful illustrations which are an essential part of the books, not just an add on.

My DC all loved the Edge Chronicles and they are beautiful books. They also loved the Bone series of graphic novels (which tend to be massively overlooked, especially in the YA area)

BasiliskStare · 18/11/2025 10:39

Not the point , but for those who read Alan Garner , did you pronounce it Bri-sing -ga-men in your head ( ie equal emphasis ) or BRISING- a - men . My uncle used to use the latter. I've probably explained that very badly 😊

FenceBooksCycle · 18/11/2025 10:53

briSING - gəmən where the ə represents the not-really-a-vowel-at-all neutral sound that squeezes in there if I run the hard-g, m and n together quickly without much enounciation.

BarnacleBeasley · 18/11/2025 11:05

In my head the first bit rhymed with 'rising', and the other two syllables were more of an afterthought.

Cyclistmumgrandma · 18/11/2025 11:18

It depends what you regard as inappropriate. No sex but parts can be frightening. The bits with "the watcher in the water" by The Mines of Moria and the encounter with the balrog are quite scary. Best not read just before bed!

FlatErica · 18/11/2025 11:24

I read it at 10 but I hadn’t read the Hobbit, so I had nothing to compare it to. I loved it, still do!

CrystalSingerFan · 18/11/2025 20:07

C8H10N4O2 · 17/11/2025 16:25

I just didn’t and it passed over their heads😀

Tuppeny upright, too!

CrystalSingerFan · 18/11/2025 20:10

Apologies if I've missed it, but has anyone mentioned the Narnia series yet? I'm guessing the religious symbolism is less welcome than when I was a kid, but it all went straight over my head.

Dappy777 · 19/11/2025 16:56

I didn't read LotRs until I was in my 40s and can honestly say that the Shelob chapter was the scariest thing I have ever read. It scared the living daylights out of me. I thought Cormac McCarthy and Thomas Hardy were dark, but Tolkien's Mordor goes darker even than them. Tolkien had a strong sense of the nature of evil, and it's the closest I have ever got to a description of Hell.

That said, I am a total wimp and can't sit through a horror film. Plus, children do like to be a little scared.

If your daughter liked The Hobbit, why not encourage her to read the Narnia books? Tolkien and Lewis were close friends and had similar imaginations (they read one another's works and listened to one another's advice). Personally, I much prefer Lewis and consider him the better writer.

Gettoachiro · 19/11/2025 17:10

CrystalSingerFan · 18/11/2025 20:10

Apologies if I've missed it, but has anyone mentioned the Narnia series yet? I'm guessing the religious symbolism is less welcome than when I was a kid, but it all went straight over my head.

Good shout on Narnia. I most enjoyed the horse and his boy from the series.

CaptainCallisto · 19/11/2025 18:07

Moondial, by Helen Creswell, is a fabulous book, which I read obsessively at around that age (after devouring The Hobbit and Narnia). My children have both really enjoyed it too.

I also loved a book called The Gauntlet by Ronald Welch, which is about a boy who goes back in time to medieval Wales from the 1950s. He gets up to all sorts of adventures, and I learned loads about that period in history without realising it!

cornbunting · 20/11/2025 08:07

Oh, now you've reminded me about the Snow Spider books by Jenny Nimmo. Absolutely superb, I loved them as a child, all full of Welsh magic. My 11yo has a copy, but hasn't been inspired to actually read them 😭 Maybe I'll pinch it off her and read it to her sister...

HonoriaBulstrode · 21/11/2025 00:19

E Nesbit's fantasy stories -

Five Children and it
The Phoenix and the Carpet
The Story of the Amulet

The House of Arden

The Enchanted Castle

(The Magician's Nephew owes a lot to E Nesbit)

BasiliskStare · 21/11/2025 03:25

This besides the point but having read this thread I have just read the Weirdstone of Brisingamen again & am now on to the Moon of Gomrath.
I read these when I was 8. I am now in my 60s 😊. The dialogue is more stilted than I remember & much less "scary" but still exciting. Much less scary than eg Shelob's lair but an avaricious reader I think may like them. I am going to re read the Narnia series after this. Which is a great suggestion and definitely in my favourite books when I was 8

For context I am reading these after finishing the Slow Horses books ( haven't watched the TV series but will )

@Dappy777 - Yes I think Tolkien and Lewis were friends at Oxford and met in a pub (The Eagle & Child? ) with a group they called the Inklings. I loved both of their work & so rooted in culture ( whether Anglo Saxon or religious ) in a way I had no idea about when I first read them.

Anyway hope @Greenpeanutsnail has lots on her list for her DD. Some of these books I would love to read for the first time at that age , because I loved them. And it's a magical thing I think to read things for the first time which you remember decades on.

GrimmaTheNome · 21/11/2025 07:38

Gettoachiro · 19/11/2025 17:10

Good shout on Narnia. I most enjoyed the horse and his boy from the series.

I read them all to my DD (who loved books, but didn’t like reading) - except the Last Battle. As a Sunday-school going child I’d understood the religious subtext of the others and didn’t like that one at all - poor Susan.

pollyhemlock · 21/11/2025 08:22

Tolkien and Lewis used to share their work with the Inklings while it was in progress. One of the group (Neville Coghill I think) greeted the latest chapter of LOTR with ‘Not another f…..g elf!’. Tolkien disapproved of TLTWATW because he disliked allegory. Though LOTR is heavily influenced by Christianity.

Greenpeanutsnail · 21/11/2025 09:27

Thank you all so much for your great ideas. She is still intent on trying to read Lord of the Rings. Just wants to finish The Hobbit first. We’ve had a chat and she knows that she may or may not like LOTR and that’s ok and there are so many other books to read. I have been making a list of the excellent suggestions on here. Thank you.

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Purplebunnie · 21/11/2025 10:02

pollyhemlock · 21/11/2025 08:22

Tolkien and Lewis used to share their work with the Inklings while it was in progress. One of the group (Neville Coghill I think) greeted the latest chapter of LOTR with ‘Not another f…..g elf!’. Tolkien disapproved of TLTWATW because he disliked allegory. Though LOTR is heavily influenced by Christianity.

Have you read the Inklings by Humprey Carpenter I read it many many years ago. The Eagle and the Child where they used to meet shut in 2020 but there are plans afoot to re-open it.

When the films were in production I used to follow The Tolkien Forum but later on it all got a bit too high brow for me. I occasionally pop in and have a look but most of the people I used to chat with have left

pollyhemlock · 21/11/2025 10:37

@Purplebunnie Yes I have read The Inklings- still have it somewhere. I am a Tolkien nerd myself but I do find some fellow nerds a bit intense about the whole thing.

Allsigns · 21/11/2025 10:39

I read it at 9, to prove a point to my brother. Would say a lot of it went over my head and there were themes I was too young for. Would agree with others to wait a bit. But I was very smug when I told him I'd finished it.

Interestingly I tried to read it again as a young adult and couldn't get into it at all. So in a way Im glad I did it when I did!