- The Maid - Nita Prose
- The Lost Bookshop - Evie Woods
- Unruly - David Mitchell
- Lucy by the Sea - Elizabeth Strout
5) The Sober Girl Society Handbook - Millie Gooch
I enjoyed this last one. As the title suggests, it is 'quit lit' aimed at women. It begins with some good arguments for giving up the drink altogether and then it has some practical advice for living sober. I enjoyed the first part more than the second. A lot of the advice doesn't apply to me for a few reasons -
I still drink alcohol but am 'sober curious' (is that a wanky phrase? It's mentioned in the book a few times so that's where I got it)!
I don't like dancing or anything - there's a part where the author says "if you can dance alone in your kitchen you can dance sober on a dance floor too as long as the music is good" (or words to that effect). I wouldn't dance round my kitchen ever. I am just not inclined to dance these days and would only do so pissed and / or under duress 😂. I know it wasn't meant to apply only to dancing but could apply to loads of other stuff you think you can only do sober, but it did hit me weird and then I thought...am I weird to not enjoy dancing?
Other advice like how to get to sleep on a long haul flight without booze made me laugh as well. I can't afford long haul flights and if I could I'd have a small child waking me up every 2 mins 😂
None of this is a complaint btw - I don't expect authors to tailor their advice to me specifically, and the author is a young, single (?) woman, so it makes sense that her life experience won't be that similar to mine
There's a lot of dating while sober advice. It is all great advice and well presented in a kind, non-judgemental way, but a lot of it just didn't apply to me all that much.
She mentions her dad having a stroke at the end and how this may have been as a result of his liking a drink (he had hypertension which can be caused by booze). I lost my mum to a heart attack really young and she was very fond of a drink, so that was something that really stood out to me. There are also some really well made arguments about consent and alcoholism, a feminist slant on sobriety etc which I really appreciated and enjoyed.
Sorry, I realise this "review" is really just a summary of how the content of the book did or didn't apply to me, so may not be that helpful! But since there are a lot of mums on this site, maybe it will be useful info for someone 