Book 2
A Tomb With A View: Peter Ross
First of all, ignore the silly title. This is one of the best books I have read in a very long time and will absolutely be one of my books of the year no matter what else I read.
I picked it up in Waterstones at some point in 2022 and have just got round to it. It is utterly, totally, beautiful. The premise is graveyards and cemeteries and what we do with our dead, and Ross takes us on an eclectic and quirky tour throughout the British Isles visiting places of burial, and talking to the people who work in them, and the people whose loved ones are in them. It’s funny, it’s thought-provoking, it’s informative. It’s never mawkish, sad or disrespectful.
Christianity, Islam and Paganism are all covered. There’s history, literature, social policy, architecture, environmentalism, and nature. Famous people, and ordinary people. Old people and young people. People who died after long illnesses, suicides, IRA members. But never any judgement, just beautiful, beautiful writing and thoughts. It could have slipped into #sadface tabloid stories, or factoid central, or sniggery Bill Bryson travelogue totes hilaires musings. But it never, ever does.
What comes out of it more than anything, and it’s something Ross himself says, is how much sheer love there is in these places, from those left behind, and those who take care of the dead.
It was, strangely, one of the most uplifting things I think I’ve ever read, and I’ve put a pre-order in for his book on Churches which is out in February.