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Why Did You Stay? by Rebecca Humphries
I am a Strictly devotee and have been from the start. And from the start Strictly has always had its affairs which were, certainly in the Brucie era, always handled in a nudge nudge, wink wink way.
Therefore it seemed a bit unusual that Seannn* Walsh and Katya Jones were so pilloried, when Kristina, Flavia and Brendan (and partners) were let off so very lightly.
Potentially, the difference here is Rebecca Humphries, Seannnn's then girlfriend who outed him as a gaslighting, abusive bully in the aftermath.
This book is Rebecca's memoir of that time in which she questions why she stayed with him for 5 years, despite abuse, up until the scandal.
Strangely, I found the most quietly heartbreaking moment to be a message she received from a stranger after the news broke, asking if she was in Disney World in 2014, as he had seen a man matching Seannn's description berating a woman who was in tears. It was in fact her and a classic and depressing example of how so many people don't intervene at public displays of abuse.
I want to be kind to Rebecca here given the circumstance. I believe I got the wrong end of the stick about this. I thought it was going to be 25% about Rebecca and Seannn and then the stories of other women who stayed.
It turned out to be 40% Rebecca and Seannn and 60% memoir of London Elite, Friendship, Shags, childhood and family.
Most of which ( whispers) isn't that interesting
But as revenges go, this is a mightier pen than a sword one, so all power to her.
Seannn has moved on and seems very happy and I hope the same is true of Rebecca because she certainly deserves it more.
*Name deliberately misspelled (if you know, you know)