8 - My Brother's Name is Jessica by John Boyne (audiobook)
I am a huge John Boyne fan - Boy in the Striped Pyjamas is one of my favourite ever books.
This is another upper middle grade book exploring the impact on a family when their 17 year old child reveals they are transgender. Told from the perspective of the 13yo brother. Mum and Dad are both in politics with Mum working towards being the next PM.
I remember this book being heavily criticised when it was released as the title was considered insensitive. Consequently, it has acquired numerous one star reviews from people who refuse to read it (yet still feel entitled to leave a lengthy rant/'analysis' on Goodreads).
I liked this book though did have some issues with it. I felt it was well written but the character of Sam (13yo) seemed very young to me, more like a 10 year old, which may have been a deliberate choice to keep the book more in the middle grade category rather than young adult. I felt like Sam's reactions and feeling were portrayed realistically but didn't like how the last chapter was a '2 years later' thing and he had made a total u-turn and now had no issue with his sibling being transgender whereas the whole book up to that point was how difficult it was for him. We didn't get to see his journey towards becoming more comfortable with it so the finale seemed a bit forced in order to give a happy ever after ending.
I liked the parents and felt that their reactions and emotional journeys were believable. Boyne nicely addresses the issue of sexism against working mothers throughout the novel, particularly against mums who are public figures. On that note, I also found it interesting to see how children of famous politicians are affected by media interest etc. I did not like the last scene in front of the cameras where it felt like the parents were using their children to win votes.
I hated the aunty and felt the scene with Sam visiting her was totally unsettling. She was completely gaslighting Sam. Basically, Sam went there to find his brother who he hadn't seen for a month. When he arrived, his aunty said something like, "Oh I haven't seen your brother for months" and left Sam stewing with worry for several hours whereas what she actually meant was that Sam's sibling was now identifying as his sister and that she had seen her only a few hours ago. It seemed very close to emotional abuse this scene for both children (yes, i'm counting the 17yo as a child!)
The 17yo Jason/Jessica broke my heart. I just felt how troubled and lonely they were and how much they craved acceptance from their loved ones. Jason/Jessica acted selfishly at times but I thought this was believable for the character and being that age.
I didn't like the psych scene when the whole family went for the initial appointment. I've obviously never been in that situation, but it still felt completely unbelievable. Would a doctor even entertain having a whole family in like that? I found the questioning interesting but also contradictory. Jason/Jessica says they felt like a girl when they were younger because they felt more comfortable with girls and wanted dress and dolls. But then the doctor reminds Jason/Jessica they also love football, which is considered a masculine interest. Jason/Jessica becomes defensive and starts ranting about how damaging gender stereotypes are. This goes unchallenged by the doctor which annoyed me as it was just confusing. I felt like this scene could have explored this more to explain other reasons why Jason/Jessica is transgender rather than just the stereotypes here. E.g. why then aren't all boys who play with dolls transgender since this is a main reason given here for identifying as a girl? I think that if you were reading this with children, it would need to be discussed more. I'd be worried about children coming away from this confused about gender stereotypes e.g. dolls are for girls but football is for both.
Overall, it was an interesting story and the afterword from the author shows that he did his research and believes in writing about things in order to learn more about them and grow as a person. So he doesn't believe only transgender people should write about transgender characters. I tend to agree. I think if the author was writing this book from a first person POV inside the head of a person who is transgender, there might be issues however.
I found it a really interesting story but not sure it would ever make it into my primary school as an upper school read because the author casually refers to 'stiffys' and some swear words which is a shame as I think this story has a lot of great learning opportunities in its themes.
Maybe one to read first if considering it for children.