6. How To Be Good, Nick Hornby
I first read this when I was about 17 or so, and loved it then, but find it even better now that I’m in my thirties, and married. I think it’s a really excellent look at the real bones of marriage/long-term relationships.
Katie is married to David, the “Angriest Man in Holloway”, according to his newspaper column. He’s also cynical, critical, negative and sarcastic. Their marriage is on the rocks (unsurprisingly) and Katie’s just about coming to the conclusion that they need to divorce, when David undergoes a sort of spiritual transformation. Fed up with his back pain, he, somewhat uncharacteristically, ends up going to see a “healer”, and comes back a changed man. No longer angry, and wanting now to atone for all, he starts down the path of becoming the sort of overly sanctimonious do-gooder whose intentions cannot be argued with, but whose methods are so piously disruptive that they make everyone else feel simultaneously infuriated and guilty. It starts with David giving away their son’s computer and handing £80 to a homeless man, and before Katie knows it David’s new healer friend, DJ GoodNews has come to live with them and they’re spending all their time working out how to end the world’s problems.
Nick Hornby does the most fantastic job of portraying the frustration that comes from being faced with someone who’s technically right, but whose proposals are of an extreme nature, and coming out of it looking like the bad guy. It’s the argument I have with myself when listening to the likes of Greta Thunberg, where I know that she’s quite right about us all needing to stop flying around the world so much, but I don’t really feel ready to accept the idea because, you know, holidays and travelling are wonderful things, and I don’t want to have to give them up or make them hugely inconvenient. It’s that battle we all have between doing what we want and doing what’s right, and why doing the latter is so difficult when pitted against human things like desire, or embarrassment, or selfishness.
Highly recommended.
I started and almost immediately gave up on The Pleasure of Reading edited by Antonia Fraser. It's of the book-about-books variety, which I normally enjoy, but it had a sort of stuffiness to it that I just wasn't in the mood for. Plus, a few pages in, Doris Lessing had a go at Winnie the Pooh, which I'm having none of.
Now reading The Invisible Man by H. G. Wells and The Rise and Fall of the Dinosaurs by Steve Brusatte, and am still reading War and Peace.
I have also used an unspent birthday voucher from last year to treat myself to the entire set of Adrian Mole books which I'm most excited about 