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50 Book Challenge 2020 Part Nine

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southeastdweller · 10/10/2020 12:48

Welcome to the ninth thread of the 50 Book Challenge for this year.

The challenge is to read fifty books (or more!) in 2020, though reading fifty isn't mandatory. Any type of book can count, it's still not too late to join, and please try to let us all know your thoughts on what you've read.

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 23/10/2020 21:29

I will also never be touching another Faber book as long as I live. I love it when we agree - it makes me feel so much better about the universe and my part in it. Grin

BookWitch · 23/10/2020 21:37

I remember reading Crimson Petal and The White and thinking it was OK, but at least 400 pages too long.

Piggywaspushed · 23/10/2020 21:39

Oh, I thought you were talking about the publishers for a minute there and I thought 'but they have such classy covers!' Blush

bibliomania · 23/10/2020 22:31

110. The January Man: A Year of Walking, by Christopher Somerville
Recommended by betts. Does what it says on the tin. A chapter for each month, describing one or two walks in different parts of the UK. This was a well-timed read. I took a day off work and took the train to the coast for a wet and windy and exhilarating walk, and read most of this on the train. Looks like it will be a while before I'll get to do it again, so it was very welcome.

111. A Tomb with a View, by Peter Ross
Non-fiction account ranging over Victorian cemeteries, Muslim burial practices, the natural mummies of St Michaels in Dublin (I was taken to see them as a child -gave me nightmares) and writers such as Sheridan Le Fanu. It felt a rather arbitrary selection, but it's nicely done. He says in the acknowledgements that in the end, it's not really about death and more about love, and it does feel that way.

112. Well-read Black Girl, Glory Edime
An anthology by Black female writers, mostly American, talking about what reading means to them. Read individually, the essays were likeable, but when you have a whole book of essays where every writer has been commissioner to answer the same question, the obvious risk is that it's going to get repetitive, and that happens here. For obvious reasons, there are a lot of references to Maya Angelou, Alice Walker and Toni Morrison. I was grateful to the writer of Eritrean heritage who said she identified with Boy, by Roald Dahl, for the laconic references to personal suffering, which reminded her of her family's reticence.

113. I am an Island, Tamsin Calidas.
I was on the library waiting list when this came up on the daily deal (waves at noodle).. No reticence about personal suffering here. English woman moves to Hebridean island and has awful time. Marriage falls apart, infertility, money problems, local hostility. I was a bit torn about this. Fair due to her for sticking it and it's all very vivid, but it's all at such a high pitch, i did wonder if other people's version of events would be the same. It's always a storm at midnight or a searing midsummer day, never an overcast Tuesday at 4pm. One minute she's so poor that she's nibbling on leaves, and then, in some unexplained way, it's fine and she doesn't need to sell her lambs for meat and can just use them for wool for her hobby of spinning.

bibliomania · 23/10/2020 22:33

St Michan's for the mummies reference

TimeforaGandT · 23/10/2020 23:07

@Standrewsschool - I did watch the CBBC series of Malory Towers which I thoroughly enjoyed and I re-read the first book to check how faithful the TV series had been and am now continuing (in between other books) with the rest of series.

I agree that it was a family programme and we had multi-generational viewing in our household with grandparent and teenagers watching it too.

bettbattenburg · 23/10/2020 23:22

Sorry to post here. My dads ashes are being scattered in a few hours. Nobody from the family can be there and I'm in pieces.

FortunaMajor · 23/10/2020 23:37

Aw Betts, that's heartbreaking. Sending you much love.

bettbattenburg · 23/10/2020 23:47

@FortunaMajor

Aw Betts, that's heartbreaking. Sending you much love.
Thank you 😭
FortunaMajor · 24/10/2020 00:08

Are they being scattered in a particular place?

bettbattenburg · 24/10/2020 00:21

@FortunaMajor

Are they being scattered in a particular place?
Yes, he left a request for a specific place.
EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 24/10/2020 00:22

I'm sorry betty Thanks

bettbattenburg · 24/10/2020 00:26

@EineReiseDurchDieZeit

I'm sorry betty Thanks
Thank you, just over two hours and it'll have been done.
PermanentTemporary · 24/10/2020 03:38

I'm so sorry to hear that Betts. This is a very cruel time.

bettbattenburg · 24/10/2020 05:24

@PermanentTemporary

I'm so sorry to hear that Betts. This is a very cruel time.
Thank you all, I know this thread isn't the place for it but it was a tough few hours. It's done now and I can try and move on. Thanks to all those in tough places at the moment.
PepeLePew · 24/10/2020 07:41

I am sorry, betts. Thinking of you today Flowers

Tarahumara · 24/10/2020 08:05

Oh betts that is devastating Flowers

bibliomania · 24/10/2020 08:13

That's shit, betts. Is there something you can do today as a kind of ritual of your own to Mark the day? I think ritual matters.

Tanaqui · 24/10/2020 08:35

I am so sorry Betts. Flowers

I am stuck half way into The Crimson Petal and the White; sadly it sounds like I have had the best part of it.

  1. House of Glass by Hadley Freeman. This caught my eye when reviewed a few days ago by @, and luckily the library had a copy right there. I rarely read biography, but I did find this account of Freeman's family's lives through ww1 and ww2 both interesting in their own right and as a window into France and Jewishness at the time. Thank you for recommending.
KeithLeMonde · 24/10/2020 09:14

Betts, I missed your post last night but I'm so sorry that you couldn't be there. I was going to say exactly the same as Biblio; is there something you can do yourself that will mark the occasion personally and meaningfully for you? It might help. Flowers to you, and to Terps and Sadik - I hope you are both ok.

I'm reading a book which cleverly pivots in its framing halfway through (not a twist, and not a Gone Girl knock off fortunately!). Made me think again about the DNFs I have committed recently, as the second part really changes my view on the things I hated in the first part (don't want to give too much away) and I'm impressed by its intelligence. Maybe I should be slower to throw annoying books aside.

Welshwabbit · 24/10/2020 09:14

So sorry @bettsbattenburg Flowers

My reading is slooooow at the moment (far too much work). But I just wanted to come on here to say that, through a strange combination of circumstances, the other day I spoke to my secondary school English teacher for the first time in, oooh, it must be over 20 years. Everyone has that one inspirational teacher at school, don't they, and she was mine. I was a nerd at school and for a while didn't really have any friends. She let me sit in her classroom at lunchtime and read books, even though she should really have kicked me out into the fresh air. More importantly for this thread, she used to give me books she thought I'd like. She gave me I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, and I can still remember how transformational that was. She also gave me The Mayor of Casterbridge, which I absolutely hated, but struggled through because if she thought it was worth reading, it probably was (I have never got to grips with Hardy, but hey, she tried). She talked me through my inevitable 15 year old Sylvia Plath obsession (still love me a bit of Sylvia). I came from a home where reading was hugely valued, but she gave me a whole new way of thinking about and responding to books. Speaking to her brought back all those memories and I wanted to acknowledge that somewhere - and here seemed the right place. I hope it's not too much of a diversion. As you were!

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 24/10/2020 09:30

Wabbit - what an absolutely lovely post.

Betts - thinking of you. I used to teach this poem many years ago and it's always stayed with me. I hope you don't mind me giving it to you now. It's about the death of a lover, rather than a father, but it's so lovely that I hope you'll forgive that. Here

TimeforaGandT · 24/10/2020 09:30

@bettbattenburg - thinking of you. It’s a tough time. Hopefully you will be able to visit the place where the ashes have been scattered when restrictions are relaxed and that may help - but not much good now....

BestIsWest · 24/10/2020 09:36

Betts I am so sorry, that must be so difficult. I hope you will be able to visit one day.

SatsukiKusakabe · 24/10/2020 09:40

betts I hope you find some comfort today. remus that is lovely, the memory belongs to the person and not the place.

welshrabbit she sounds like an amazing teacher so glad you got to reconnect with her.