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Unfollow by Megan Phelps-Roper (audiobook)
Like many, Megan Phelps-Roper and her sister Grace were brought to my attention by the Louis Theroux documentaries about their family church and its egregiously offensive exploits. Like many, I was delighted when I heard they had found the courage to leave its oppressive, cultish, life.
I was looking forward to reading this but didn't want to buy this year, so used an Audible credit, and the book is read aloud by Meghan itself.
I found it frustrating in that its most heavy focus seemed to be on that which was already known about the Westboro Baptist Church rather than anything new, with both her childhood and teen years skated over.
It is very heavy on scripture as she tries to illustrate the roots of her beliefs, and this sometimes became wearisome. In these paragraphs there was sometimes a tone of pomposity or self righteousness that I didn't care for.
Ultimately it left me with a sense that Megan, who left the church 8 years ago now still has a long way to go with processing her childhood and still lives in a lot of denial.
The book is dedicated to her parents whom she frequently describes as both loving to her, and loved by her. Yet, her whole narrative about them contradicts this. They were demonstrably not loving and in fact incredibly abusive; from standing over her battering her if she got a single note wrong at the piano, to withholding another sister from school after she threatened to disclose serious physical abuse, to at ages 20 and 26, not being allowed to leave the house until after a statement of exact whereabouts and duration and consent being given, to surrendering phones on demand.
Megan and Grace upon leaving, were dumped in a local motel by their father and pretty much abandoned to their fate.
Overall, interesting, but she still lacks some insight and that is quite sad.
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Fates And Furies by Lauren Groff
Hated and DNFd by @FortunaMajor I can say I can see why. There's a pervasive pretentiousness to it.
Lotto and Mathilde marry after 2 weeks acquaintance. The book splits itself into his narrative 'Fates' and hers 'Furies'
Lotto is an egotistical man amongst the creatives of the New York theatre scene, he came from wealth, but was disinherited for the transgression of his marriage. Lotto is frankly, an arsehole as are most of his friends, but something about the prose style kept me engaged and kept me reading.
Frankly none of the "revelations" from the Mathilde section came as a surprise and only succeeded in reinforcing how self absorbed Lotto was.
I must say that both in the US and the UK there are way too many London/New York set "luvvie books" and it's tedious.
Having said this I stuck with this because I liked the lyrical way it
was written so there's definitely something in there worth giving time to. IMHO.