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‘Thoughtful’ books about womens’ experience

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Justrunwithit · 10/06/2018 21:34

Have a young woman in my life who is from a very sheltered, conservative, Christian background with limited education and exposure to the world (any part of the world!) . She likes reading though, and has read Austen. I’ve given her I capture the castle, pursuit of love, Rebecca and she’s really enjoyed them. I am going to try Jane eyre.

I’d like to try something a little more socially/politically challenging though (not my place to change her views but they are um... from a very strict patriarchal place whereas I guess I believe thinking from different angles is good). I think Handmaid’s Tale and Fingersmith would frankly be ideal but too out there for her right now... what would you suggest to be thought- provoking? Age presents as more like a western sixteen/seventeen year old if you see what I mean, but she is definitely smart. But raised to believe critical thought wrong and education sort of irrelevant Shock.

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lastqueenofscotland · 11/06/2018 11:19

I read wild swans when I was about 15/16 and loved it.

slipperyeel · 11/06/2018 11:37

Carol Shields- The Stone Diaries
Diary of Anne Frank
The Bell Jar

Agree with lastqueen, wild swans is a great choice

londonloves · 11/06/2018 11:41

Memoirs of a Geisha
A Streetcar names desire
Lady Chatterley's lover
Madame Bovary

turkeyboots · 11/06/2018 11:49

If she likes fantasy or SciFi, Sheri S Tepper is a good read and very focused on experience of females.

Even if Fantasy isn't her thing, Beauty by Sheri S Tepper is a brilliant read.

anonymice · 11/06/2018 11:53

The L shaped room
Precious Bane
Esther Waters

bookbook · 11/06/2018 11:54

Dairy of an Unknown Woman by Margaret Forster - I loved this book, (though I was a bit disappointed at the end to realise it was fiction !)
I loved Wild Swans too :)

hackmum · 11/06/2018 14:40

I think Cold Comfort Farm is a must if you're from that kind of background.

Justrunwithit · 11/06/2018 19:48

These are all brilliant suggestions, thanks so much. Cold comfort farm - we might just watch it, I loved the Joanna Lumley / kate beckinsale version!

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Tinlegs · 11/06/2018 19:52

If she liked Jane Eyre why not try "Wide Sargasso Sea"?

FourFriedChickensDryWhiteToast · 11/06/2018 19:54

Marilyn French - the Womens Room
Alice Walker - the Color Purple
Anything by Amy Tan.

londonloves · 12/06/2018 06:24

Also, this might be a bit leftfield and less heavy weight than other suggestions - but Philippa Gregory and Allison Weir novels (and also Alison Weir non-fiction) tell history from the women's perspective and are brilliant reads.

Mountainsoutofmolehills · 12/06/2018 06:27

The Red Tent
The Bookseller of Kabul

Jaimx86 · 12/06/2018 06:29

The Yellow Wallpaper by Charlotte Perkins Gilman.

DissertationDrama · 16/06/2018 19:56

I second the The L Shaped Room, that’s brilliant.

Try Every Day Sexism!

Toomuchsplother · 17/06/2018 00:07

If it doesn't have to be fiction the 21 Women in British History is an amazing book, it's be Jenni Murray.
Wuthering Heights, The tenant of Wildfell Hall spring to mind. Also Testament of Youth by Vera Britten.
Oranges are not the only fruit - Jeanette Winterson

Sadik · 17/06/2018 17:57

I would definitely second The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (especially given it's also a brilliant book and a gripping story).

What about Mrs Gaskell - Mary Barton or North and South? Safely 'historical' & written from a deeply Christian perspective, but very radical, thoughtful books.

Justrunwithit · 17/06/2018 23:53

Yes I love the l shaped room.

Omg Jeannette winterson I think she would fly home and her family would come after me with pitchforks Shock

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Justrunwithit · 17/06/2018 23:53

Now I want to reread Mrs Gaskell and wildfell Hall...! All super helpful, thanks.

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ReginaBlitzkreig · 18/06/2018 00:02

The Group by Mary McCarthy: the experiences of a group of female Uni friends in 1940s America.
A Woman in Her Prime by Francis Selormey: lovely book about the life of a woman in rural, traditional West Africa.
The Go-Between by L.P. Hartley: child used as messenger by adults having clandestine affair. Beautifully written, nothing explicit, moral but also compassionate.
Any of Edith Wharton's books
Women in the 17th Century by Antonia Fraser.

Toomuchsplother · 18/06/2018 06:19

Yes I did wonder that about the Winterson. Sorry! ShockGrin

Justrunwithit · 18/06/2018 10:49

No, no, it’s a great suggestion and I was eyeing it on the shelf the other day, is t it so crazy that it could be considered too shocking!

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alanvenya · 19/06/2018 16:11

from my bookshelf I would consider...

The Alice Network - Kate Quinn
Sula - Toni Morrison
Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden
Circling the Sun - Paula McClain
Alias Grace - Margaret Atwood

CaptainNelson · 19/06/2018 22:30

What about some Anne Tyler? I'm making some guesses about the cultural origins of your young woman and what would/wouldn't work. Anne Tyler's depictions of family might be very insightful for someone who comes from a place/culture where the family dynamic is very regulated and male-dominated. But not quite so shocking for her... Wink

elkiedee · 20/06/2018 18:08

The Group sounds potentially rather shocking, and I say that as someone who read it first at 14 and then 40.

Anne Tyler sounds like a good suggestion.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie? Purple Hibiscus as well as Half of a Yellow Sun.

FadedRed · 20/06/2018 18:19

If you want Science fiction/fantasy, then Mercedes Lackey and Anne McCaffrey would be very suitable.

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