Ok, I finished it last night and now have my laptop to type properly.
A lot of people don't seem to like Margaret. I like the fact that she's flawed, it makes her real for me. She's very biased and snobbish at the beginning, but that doesn't come from nowhere. Her mother is so ashamed at not having new clothes that she doesn't come to her only sister's only daughter's wedding. She's also very snobbish about tradespeople or 'shoppy' people. When she's back at Harley Street she reflects on how you never see other classes of people, she's been completely isolated from them before now. She even reflects on Frederick's snobbishness about tradespeople when he is a merchant.
I think she's a strong character from the beginning, but the calamities and changes that befall her over the period of the book give her agency and freedom that she would never have had in London.
I don't believe her time in Milton has completely turned her into an egalitarian though. If Nicholas Higgins was Bessy's single brother rather than her dad, I think any thoughts of a romantic entanglement would be still be completely outside the realms of possibility.
Has anyone read (and remembered anything of) Middlemarch? I believe it deals a lot with the emerging middle class/trading class. I read it once though and found it very dull so I can't use it as a comparison.
Thornton for sure underestimates the start he got in life, not just through his education (which I don't know provided him that much of an advantage) but the value of a mother who was ambitious for him and who set aside savings for him, the connections that allowed him to be a draper's apprentice rather than a wefter, his own work ethic, etc. The fact that he paid all creditors back was a credit to him, being taken on as a junior partner by one of those creditors is not something that would be offered to most men. However, I think he too has obviously benefited by being thrown in amongst Higgins and other working classes in the canteen. I think Higgins and he are clearly very similar characters - the 'True Men' he talks of, but in very different situations. I think even Thornton appreciates by the end that it takes more than force of will to make him a master and Higgins a hand.
Bess annoyed me a little bit less this reading, but I find her boring. She's a bit too much of a paragon of faith and unfailing sympathy. To be fair, I do find a lot of the background characters incredibly frustrating. Mr Hale is so ineffectual and Mrs Hale and her sister are such whiners.
I think there's a lot in it about growing up and moving away and the fact that nothing is as perfect as you imagine it to be. Her first removal to Helstone was beautiful, but then it was spoiled by her parents. Milton had lots of flaws, but lots of benefits that she couldn't see until she had left it. The languid tranquility of Harley Street grew stagnate and frustrating when she came back. In a bit of a contrast, Frederick explored South America and then set up a life for himself in Spain, embracing a new career, new love, new family, new language and even a new religion. The grass may have been greener in England, but his home is now in Spain.
I believe Margaret fell in love with Thornton long before she knew it, before the riots. She enjoyed sparking off him and the fact that he engaged her in conversation. She had started to notice how other people reacted towards him and how he stood out amongst others. But she never reflected on it because she never had thought to. I do wonder if she would have reacted differently towards his proposal if she hadn't have heard Fanny and the servant gossiping about her beforehand. She was definitely still chafing about it when he came round.
As for the sudden ending, yep it was very sudden. But I am ok with that. I think that being alone with Margaret, in that proximity kind of just broke through the self reserve he tried so hard to cultivate and maintain. We saw that a little bit the night before when he came over to tell her that the workers had a note to say that they would gladly work under him again, and that he thought she would like to know. and made fuck me eyes at her while standing there
I have a lot of feelings about North and South.