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Why Mummy Drinks by Gill Sims - what did you think?

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SorchaMumsnet · 10/10/2017 12:32

From successful blogger and creator of Facebook sensation Peter and Jane, Gill Sims, comes an honest, embarrassingly relatable and just a little bit sweary debut novel. Find out more about the book.

It's Mummy's 39th birthday. She is staring down the barrel of a future of people asking if she wants to come to their advanced yoga classes, and polite book clubs where everyone claims to be tiddly after one glass of Pinot Grigio.

But Mummy does not want to go quietly into that good night of women with sensible haircuts who 'live for their children' and try to trump each other with their offspring's achievements and their latest holidays. Suddenly she remembers a gem of an idea she's had…

We ask all winners to share their thoughts on the book. Everyone who posts their detailed feedback by midday, Monday 11 December will be entered into a prize draw to win a £100 Love2shop voucher.

Why Mummy Drinks is published on 19 October. Buy the book on Amazon

This giveaway is sponsored by HarperCollins

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Why Mummy Drinks by Gill Sims - what did you think?
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BingBongBingBong · 23/11/2017 16:42

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VicKWhish · 23/11/2017 17:27

Thank you so much for my copy, I loved it as much as I thought I would. It really was laugh out loud funny apart from the deep groans of recognition at the many familiar parenting fails!
Enjoy with a large glass of wine and a warm glow of feeling that you’re not alone!

Council · 23/11/2017 17:42

I haven't read the book and not sure that I want to really but the highlight of DH and I's Friday night is the (slightly) drunken reading out loud of the FIAF posts. Grin

beckyinman · 23/11/2017 22:38

I've been full on belly laughing at this for days. Even my dad, who is a massive fan of the facebook page, has stolen it for a quick look and he never reads books!

19sharon · 25/11/2017 07:25

OMG this is laugh out loud funny. We can all relate. How many of us are undervalued and overworked? Our day does not end when we get home cos we can’t just veg out on the sofa when we get home. When the sister visits for Christmas with a huge brood of children can life get any worse for the character in this story? I read the book over a few nights and always with a glass of wine in my hand, for research purposes only you must understand.
I enjoyed it. Thanks for a good giggle.

Knackerelli · 27/11/2017 21:49

I’m really glad that I won my copy; I never win anything so thank you!

I’ve read the odd post on Facebook and found her writing funny so was looking forward to it. I think however that, whilst I enjoyed it, it was a very light read with two dimensional characters. It wasn’t a book that you could read cover to cover, more a dip in and out of read. Also whilst my life is frequently frazzled I didn’t find the book ‘embarrassingly relatable.’ Working part time and having regular nights out with friends is pretty enviable to me! I also skimmed over the two versions of events, both perfect and ‘true’ as I found it tedious.

All in all it was an enjoyable read but I wouldn’t be recommending it. Thanks for the opportunity though!

Chickenpoxornot · 28/11/2017 11:07

I have just finished reading this book and it was great. Very funny and relatable, I don’t usually read this type of book but I found it refreshing and very enjoyable and it has given me a good laugh the past few weeks! Would highly recommend, thank you for sending it.

Electriccircus · 30/11/2017 18:44

The grown up version of the Adrian Mole Diaries.

NerrSnerr · 01/12/2017 13:13

I really enjoyed this book. It was a light read but it made me laugh and was relatable. I would recommend this book to other parents, especially those who don’t want to read anything too in-depth.

Thank you for sending me this book.

victria · 01/12/2017 22:38

Thank you for sending me a copy of this book to review.

I read the Peter and Jane thread on Facebook so was looking forward to reading this. I thought the cover and illustrations on the front were eye catching and funny and the inside of the book did not disappoint either. It reminded me a lot of Bridget Jones but a lot more realistic when it
came to parenting stories. It was a quick and easy read, assisted by the diary entry style which made you want to read more. Whilst the content wasn’t unique, that didn’t detract from my enjoyment, and part of the pleasure was in anticipating what was coming next.

I hope the book does well and is a success for the author.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 02/12/2017 14:04

I enjoy reviewing books, but I have mixed feelings about this one. As others have said, very Bridget Jones and also reminded me of the Bad Mothers Club book, which started/was part of the Bad Mothers forum, alas now no longer in existence. So, not a unique take, which possibly annoyed me more than it should. Some genuine wit, some a bit caricature-esque hard going scenarios, and yes, continuous references to FML and Elventybillion got a bit wearing in the end... I liked that it did address some of the issues of 'attempting perfection and failing', and human but less than noble reactions to events and people. I am probably older than the demographic the book is aimed at, so I might have found it funnier 10/15 years ago, so it while it wasn't hard work to read, I wasn't desperate to get back to it either.

Fffion · 02/12/2017 14:06

I enjoyed most of it, but the SIL was way too far-fetched.

barricade · 03/12/2017 18:41

Many thanks to Mumsnet and HarperCollins for a copy of this book.

The writer of the ‘Peter and Jane’ Facebook page gives the characters their first novel. The book is written in diary format, and is from the point of view of Peter and Jane’s mother, Ellen, as the antics of the 2 youngsters prove to be one of the many things that drive her to drink. As Ellen counts down the days till her 50th birthday, she recounts a bitter-sweet exploration of the challenges of trying to juggle employment with running a family, of parent-child relationships, of the physical and emotional changes a body goes through at that point in one’s life, and ultimately of the pitfalls of marriage and “In-Laws” relations.

The structure of the book does come across as a series of vignettes. And the situations depicted are often extremely surreal. The escapades of the Sister-In-Law’s family, for example, really push the boundaries of belief. And ultimately, there are some serious parenting issues that need to be addressed (constantly swearing and using the F-word in front of your young children, rewarding your young daughter with ice-cream and treats on the way home from being in trouble for fighting at school, etc.). But to really appreciate this book, the authenticity of the scenarios shouldn’t be taken too seriously. Instead, the book should be viewed as a full-on slapstick comedy caper. It is chock-block full of swearing, and infused with mad-cap humour and irony. The section recounting the Christmas Family visit, especially with the introduction of Louise (the sister-in-law mentioned above) and her family, is absolutely hilarious.

In summary, a funny, well-crafted, modern day family escapade, with enough happening to keep you reading to the end.

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katb1973 · 04/12/2017 14:52

I enjoyed reading this book but didn't love it. It follows in the vein of many Mummy blogs and books about the difficulty of having children and whilst I appreciate it isn't always a bed of roses, the book just didn't do it for me. Perhaps a little too light hearted for my serious nature. Thanks anyway Mumsnet.

leccybill · 04/12/2017 21:14

Thanks for letting me read a free copy of this book.

I quite enjoyed it for a quick light-hearted read in the bath. The writing was engaging and sometimes funny. But the alternative situation write-ups got tedious quickly, and if I'm honest, I think I'm a bit over mummy blogs. A year ago, I lapped up Hurrah for Gin, Unmumsy Mum etc but I just think the genre has been done.

I would be interested in books about other subjects/fiction by Gill Sims as I do think she has the knack for witty writing.

thesockgap · 10/12/2017 18:15

I'm really enjoying this book ( don't get as much time as I'd like to read, so I'm only up to December so far!!). I'm finding it really funny and identifying with a lot of stuff in it, such as the competitive parents at the school!
I was slightly confused at first as I thought it was a book version of the Peter and Jane page on Facebook, which is the author's real life - I didn't realise this was a fictional novel. I was baffled as to why her husband was calling her Ellen! Then the penny dropped - it was a work of fiction loosely based on the goings-on of the P&J page!!
It's very funny anyway and I'm liking it for light bedtime reading. Good work Gill Sims, I will look forward to reading more from you.

keriku · 11/12/2017 23:21

I love the Facebook posts so was thrilled to to be given the chance to read it. I struggled to find the time as my now grown up moppets still seem to demand eleventy billion things a day! There are some truly hysterical parts in this book, especially the Christmas scenario where she can't say no to anyone and ends up a frazzled wreck. I remember the "Playground Nazis", I am not from this small town, so started off being ignored then ended up on all the school committees! Beneath the gloss and gin, lots of mummies struggle! However, the thing that infuriated me was the attitude to council housing and tenants. My parents still live on the council estate I was brought up in, they have great neighbours, who work hard to support each other, although their tipples are more Tesco than the wonders of Waitrose! A very entertaining read about a mum struggling to be her own woman, despite the best attempts of various putrid children and her pukefest of a pup! A great book to pop in your pal's stocking! Then you can discuss it over a gin-sampling aka a book club!

Xmasbaby11 · 30/07/2018 14:15

I did enjoy this but I think I prefer the blog. I did initially relate to Ellen but actually I couldn't really understand why she struggled and needed to drink when she had quite an enviable life. Her children were healthy and normal, no money worries, worked part time in stress free job, loving husband, supportive family and friends, good social life ... just hard to sympathise why she was so frazzled.

The story itself was far fetched especially the relatives. I did enjoy it though and I like her writing style.

KayKay777 · 20/10/2018 17:23

Go on to World of Books website. It only cost me £3. Absolutely hysterical book. And even though I am not yet a mother I can still relate to this book due to copious nieces and 2 nephews.

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