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You know when you finish a novel, and it just keeps going round and round your head?

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LeB0F · 27/06/2012 12:02

I've got that feeling right now, after just finishing Louisa Young's amazing story My Dear I Wanted To Tell You, about the First World War, and how it changed the lives of everybody touched by it, whether they fought in it or not.

It touches on the earliest days of modern plastic surgery too, which arose from some of the terrible injuries suffered by the soldiers in the trenches, who were fighting at a time when the mechanisation of war vastly outstripped that of the medical technology available to treat them.

I've just read an interview by the author, and this part of it really strikes me as an important insight, which I wanted to share:

"One of the characters in Young?s book seeks surgery out of pure vanity. Young tells me that she sympathises with this woman, but then the subject launches her into a magnificent rant. No Botox for Young then? ?I?ve got an agreement with friends and relations that if I ever suggest I will have cosmetic surgery, they will strap me down, take my money and send it to a cleft-palate charity. No way.
?The industrialisation of female vanity is shocking. Convince someone that they?ve got an enemy and they?ll pay you loads of money to get rid of it; that works for politics exactly the same way as it works for self- hatred. Now suddenly it?s pubic hair. It was fine until ten years ago, now it?s a multimillion-dollar industry telling women that they should have a weird do on their parts. Someone?s made a fortune out of that bright idea. If we all put the same amount of work into solving real problems rather than women?s appearance, the world would be transformed.?

Anyway, if you get the chance to read the book, please do; it was incredibly moving.

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radiohelen · 27/06/2012 20:35

I've just read A Discovery of Witches and all I can think about is how bloody annoying it was that half way through a really cracking plot it just all went to hell because she was setting up the next book in the trilogy. I had no idea it was a trilogy and it was sooooo disappointing. Still a reasonable read though and I have kept dipping back in so it is going around in my head but there's a lot of pent up frustration as well!
Sorry for not being at all highbrow with my read Blush

wigglesrock · 27/06/2012 20:42

LeBOF Grin you may be disappointed in me but rest assured nobody could be as disappointed as I am in myself! Love the quote - Nora Ephron will be missed in our house.

NoraHelmer · 28/06/2012 09:36

Just wanted to add, LeBof, that My Dear I Wanted To Tell You is one of the best novels I've read in a very long time. I read it several months ago, and still think about it a lot.

Riley Purefoy was fictional but I am filled with admiration for the immense bravery of the men who really did undergo the pioneering plastic surgery.

LeB0F · 28/06/2012 17:28

I think it will stay with me for a long time too, Nora. I hope more people read it- it's so powerful and moving, and it really made me appreciate how the whole experience simply blew apart life as people knew it.

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IamtheZombie · 29/06/2012 11:43

LeB0F, Child44 is part of a trilogy. All 3 books are well worth reading.

wigglesrock · 30/06/2012 07:54

LeB0F Thanks for the recommendation, I read My Dear I Wanted to Tell You over the past few days (quiet evening at work Blush) I loved it, again thanks.

LeB0F · 30/06/2012 09:03

Oh, I'm so pleased, thanks for telling me!

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LadyBeagleEyes · 30/06/2012 11:27

I've just bought it on my kindle, but I'm saving it for when I go on holiday next month.

JiltedJohnsJulie · 30/06/2012 15:44

Might give it a go too LeBof. Had an accident when I was younger and needed fixing. The surgeon told me "you're really lucky, 10 years ago you would probably have died but we've been practising on vain people". He was quite Grin too!

LeB0F · 30/06/2012 15:56

Grin I love "practising on vain people".

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miaowmix · 30/06/2012 15:59

Thanks for the recommendation - in return I highly recommend Still Missing by Beth Gutcheon Smile.

LeB0F · 30/06/2012 16:12

I've heard that's brilliant- it doesn't seem to be on kindle though Sad

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cormsilky · 30/06/2012 16:19

I've not read 'My Dear I Wanted To Tell You' but will look at it now on Amazon. I've recently read 'The Help' and ended up sat watching clips of the film on youtube for ages afterwards. I also read Bring up the Bodies recently and just didn't know what to do with myself once I finished it as I enjoyed it so much.

cormsilky · 30/06/2012 16:20

I've got 'still missing' on my wish list on amazon...am waiting for the Summer hols so I can lie on the couch all day and read whilst ignoring the ds's.

Galaxymum · 30/06/2012 19:46

My Dear I Wanted To Tell You has been one of my favourite reads this year. I've been encouraging people to read it as the whole experience of the characters stayed with me - genuinely affected me and made me think over the effect of war. I was fascinated by the early cosmetic surgery - then I went on a course about surgeons in the Civil War and heard how "modern" some of their techniques could be.

The most recent read which blew me away was The Thread by Victoria Hislop. Well worth reading for the historical detail, seeing how authorities can just move a whole community or how events tear your lives apart. It's excellent in conveying how susceptible people can be when told what we should believe.

LeB0F · 30/06/2012 19:55

I've just downloaded a sample of that, thanks Galaxy.

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24HourPARDyPerson · 05/07/2012 00:45

Housekeeping my Marilynne Roinson has been this for me. I can't describe it really. Like a long dream.

TouTou · 05/07/2012 00:54

Just ordered My Dear and also Housekeeping. Thanks for this thread!

septembersunshine · 05/07/2012 19:40

I have just read 'My dear... ' - loved it. She really has soul that author....the whole thing is so heartfelt. Just finished 'the night circus' too and that is another great read but in a different way!

NoraHelmer · 05/07/2012 19:59

I second GreyGarden's recommendation of Still Missing by Beth Gutcheon. Brilliant novel. It deserves to be more widely available - I got mine from the library and they had to buy it in (from Persephone books) as they didn't have a copy.

Shagmundfreud · 05/07/2012 23:23

I was traumatised by 'A Fine Balance' by Rohinton Mistry.

I can't get some of the images out of my head even now, two years on. Sad

miaowmix · 06/07/2012 15:42

Just come back to this - no idea you coudn't get Still Missing on Kindle ( I don't have one!), sorry bout that. Still worth getting hold of a copy though, haunting and brilliant book.
Shagmund what is that about, vaguely? Sounds intriguing..

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