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I got "The Help" yesterday in charity shop for 50p

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Saltire · 23/02/2012 10:03

and am 3 chapters through it already!
I am enjoying it so far, anyone else enjoy it?
Is the film as good?

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Greedygirl · 09/03/2012 09:10

I loved the book and was a bit dismayed to see some of the reviews of it on the web re the white woman saviour and also saying that the black women characters were stereotypes. But I am a white woman reading about something that I have had no personal experience of. I was particularly fascinated with the relationship between the maids and the children and how that played out. Really thought provoking. I have chosen it for my next book club so I will be interested to see what they all think.

mummytime · 09/03/2012 09:14

It was a huge hit in South Africa apparently, among people who really understood the reality of the situation.
It was trying to be realistic, and in the South I really doubt a black woman would have been published or could have written about those experiences and been listened to.

theonewiththenoisychild · 17/04/2012 22:06

I have only just finished this book as had some family problems and couldnt concentrate long enough to sit and read but i finished it tonight and its a very good read

RabidAnchovy · 17/04/2012 22:09

Read and loved this book, so well written

pollywollydoodle · 17/04/2012 22:39

loved both!

theonewiththenoisychild · 18/04/2012 08:32

Im watching the film this weekend Smile just hope the film doesnt ruin a good book for me

theonewiththenoisychild · 21/04/2012 00:22

Great book rubbish film missed loads out Sad

MarySA · 21/04/2012 19:47

I thought the book was very good. The film was good in that the costumes were fantastic I thought. But some of the characters weren't how I imagined they should be but it certainly wasn't a bad film.

theonewiththenoisychild · 23/04/2012 19:06

It would have been better if they hadnt missed so much out it just seemed to skip bits and sometimes big bits

Atreegrowsinbrooklyn · 23/04/2012 19:07

I envy you the pleasure of reading it for the first time. I adored it but then again I am a sucker for all American literature of that ilk.

Saltire · 23/04/2012 19:09

I forgot I'd posted this until i saw it had been bumped Grin. I loved the book, one of teh best I'd read in a long while. Still haven't seen the film, but not sure if I want to now!

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hackmum · 24/04/2012 19:49

I loved it. I've heard all the objections (white woman as saviour, etc) and I still loved it. It made me realise how few novels these days are what I call proper novels with engaging, interesting characters and a real plot that has suspense so you really want to know what happens next. And I cared about the characters - I felt for Aibileen so much and wanted things to work out for her. There are very few novels these days that have that effect on me.

Atreegrowsinbrooklyn · 26/04/2012 12:29

Re the argument about a white woman coming to 'save' oppressed black women, It did make me question the book but upon reading the back story of the author, I understand the central issue to be the way in which white southern children were raised and loved by black women (and loved them back) only to internalise the racist Jim Crow laws as they became adults. The book questions this and how such racist white mothers deal with the dissonance between their views (especially around the toilet issue) and the very close physicality of the relationship between the maids and the children. I would have liked a little more focus upon this latter issue within the book though.

As a young child i was raised by a young Latin American woman who I adored and had a very close, physically affectionate parental relationship with. I did not grow into a prejudiced woman and have always been aware of the power dynamic based upon economic factors originally central to our meeting.

The book adds to and encourages an important dialogue about race and addresses issues that many of us (especially in the UK) may have been unaware of.

The film is above all, a Hollywood film. The format is not going to do anything more than lightly address these issues. However the power of the acting, the humour, the wonderful Southern vernacular and the sense of the period makes the film worth watching.

akaemmafrost · 27/04/2012 12:22

I am reading it and loving it, it's making me cry quite a bit though.

KeepOrfThemCarbs · 27/04/2012 12:29

I thought it started very well and was abrilliant premise, but fell into cliche mode (agree re white woman as saviour and the undertone that the black women should feel gratitude for her understanding). I thought the ending was a travesty. A really stupid farcical denoument. I actually finished disliking the book immensely.

anniewoo · 07/05/2012 09:34

The book is better than the film and the film is good

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