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I think spoon feeding is GREAT actually

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WellieMum · 12/07/2006 01:11

...and I don't understand why everyone is being so horrible about spoons!

I thought my lentil weaving credentials were impeccable, AND I thought that weaning dd1 was very much baby-led.

BUT we did puree some foods and feed her with a spoon, the horror, the horror Will I have to hand back my hand-crocheted certificate??

OK, more seriously, I simply don't see spoons as evil. I eat loads of stuff off a spoon after all and regard it as a fairly useful life skill.

We weaned dd1 at 6 months and she enjoyed the whole thing immensely. However, there were quite a few things that she loved the taste of but found difficult to manage unless finely chopped or pureed. Broccoli for instance - in fact any lightly steamed or crisp stir-fried veg.

Pretty much from the off, we loaded the spoon and handed it to her and she did the rest herself. So accusations of evil parents forcing food down baby's throat won't wash I'm afraid....

She also did get frustrated with sloppy stuff like porridge and hummous, finding it hard to get the food in fast enough as a finger food. (Nowadays, at 22 months, her hands are that much bigger and she scoops up her porridge very competently with her fingers .)

The thing is, IMO it's terribly important that babies eat real food but real food does come in lots of different shapes and textures. Surely you do whatever works best and have to be prepared to use a range of eating strategies (as indeed an adult would).

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colditz · 15/07/2006 09:43

I believe that humans have always put stuff in a baby's mouth, and before we used spoons, we used fingers to do it for them. I don't see what the big deal is, do what works!

oops · 15/07/2006 09:44

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Pruni · 15/07/2006 09:45

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Thomcat · 15/07/2006 09:46

Frying it inbutter and waiting for it to go cold. Plus all the precooking and clearingup, and that's really less grief then spending 1- mins chatting to baby while I feed her????
Not convinced........get.

Thomcat · 15/07/2006 09:48

No offence but that porridge drawer thing sounds so gross. Hard porridgevin general sounds foul, sorry.

oops · 15/07/2006 09:51

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Thomcat · 15/07/2006 11:23

Don't give up on me yet
DP wouldn't eat fish and spinach patties, not sure i'm keen. DP doesn't rea;;y do fish but I wabt DD2 to start having some.
We're having abbq at PIL for lunch and fish kebabs and chilli bugers as alternative on bbq tonight. Never worried me doing seperate things for babies.
I can see that blw has it's benefits and I'm doing a bit of it, but also enjoy feeding dd2 and chatting with her as she opens her nouth like a little bird. I also give her spoon and bowl after to play at feeding herself in addition to finger food.

Chandra · 15/07/2006 11:38

DS refused to touch his food with his fingers since 6m-18m (aparently he was very sensitive to textures), he learned to use a spoon before he dare to lay his fingers on a piece of toast at 18m (I kid you not!). Now... things change, now I'm having problems in convincing him to use the spoon even when he is eating cereal with milk...yuk!

hunkermunker · 15/07/2006 11:43

Read this for more information - Gill's lovely

WellieMum · 16/07/2006 11:11

Thanks for link - she does sound lovely. Feet firmly on the ground too.

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