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Fucking neuter your male cats PLEASE

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 06:06

I have woken up this morning to a horrible stink that was created by the bastard Tom cat from down the road that has come in through an open window and sprayed everywhere. It stinks!

I've tried everything with this cat. I've sprayed water, done the wall of fear, put a paper collar on him telling the owners what he was doing (which would be stopped by a simple ball removal) but still months later the same thing is happening.

Ragdoll has been injured by him a good few times requiring vet treatment, I understand cats fight and the levers aren't responsible for this but he would be less aggressive if his balls were removed.

I have 4 neutered cats. But this one is clearly locked out at night and finds his way in for a feed and a warm. I had to open said window as DS who is disabled with health problems, was fitting and needed cooling down. We fell asleep and were woken up to bastard Tom howling at ragdoll and then the smell hit.

I'm at the end of my tether with him (or more accurately his owners, although I don't know who they are)

If you own a black and white Tom cat with a white tip at the end of his tail, just neuter him and let him in at night PLEASE!

If anyone has any ideas on how to deter this cat I would be very grateful. He is actually a very lovely little soul, although stinky and full of fleas (clearly flea collars aren't very effective as he has a new one on every week)

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Gliblet · 30/12/2015 08:42

There may just be another neighbour who doesn't mind buying the occasional flea collar and feeding strays in general rather than an 'owner' as such - unless he's chipped or has a tag/cylinder on his collar I wouldn't take that as a sign of ownership as such, especially if he's not being regularly flea'd (wormed?).

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 08:44

I didn't think about another neighbour! He seems well fed, but he is constantly eating my cats food so that could be why. If it was a random neighbour why wouldn't they have called me though? Unless he took off the paper collar himself?

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Catzpyjamas · 30/12/2015 08:48

No vet would neuter a cat without the owner's consent. I totally agree that pets SHOULD be neutered but it has to be the owner's decision.

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Catzpyjamas · 30/12/2015 08:53

Sorry, posted too soon. I would phone Cat Protection and say you have an unneutered male cat, who is potentially a stray, hanging around and ask them to help. If they catch him up, they can scan him for a microchip, advertise him as found in case an owner is looking for him and, if he isn't claimed, they will usually neuter and rehome him.

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catonlap · 30/12/2015 09:07

An unneutered tom cat wondered into my house to eat my cat's food. I took him to the vet thinking he was lost. They found a microchip but couldn't get through to the owner on the phone so asked if I could look after him for a couple of days. I did think it was very odd they'd bothered to chip him but not neuter him. I took him home and couple of days later got a phone call to say they'd traced the registered address and been told registered owner had moved out 4 months previously with no forwarding details. This was 8 years ago. Cat is currently curled up in his favorite chair and I somehow doubt the owners are going to come forward now! The balls are long gone however Grin

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thecatneuterer · 30/12/2015 09:22

I would definitely just get him neutered. You can say he's stray but he's being fed so you're happy to take him back.

Yes, explain that you don't know when he last ate - it's not a big problem. He should really stay in for at least two days though.

Don't worry about him belonging to someone else. For a start you are doing nothing illegal. After all it's quite reasonable to suppose that any unneutered cat is a stray. And secondly, if they are such irresponsible owners that they haven't had him neutered, they don't really deserve much consideration.

You might be able to get an RSPCA/ Blue Cross voucher for neutering if you say he's a stray.

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InanimateCarbonRod · 30/12/2015 09:25

Deballing might not stop him spraying btw. Ideally males need to be debollocked before they start spraying. There's no guarantee now.

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thecatneuterer · 30/12/2015 09:29

The chances are it will though Inanimate. And it will certainly stop the appalling smell. And it should stop him fighting and of course be much better for him generally.

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 16:31

Right. As soon as I can catch him, I'm taking him to the vets as a stray and getting him neutered and checked over. Well as soon as DS is wel enough for all the drama.

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 16:32

Seeing as he sprayed in my house that means he thinks it's his doesn't he? And if he thinks he lives here then he's my responsibility really Wink

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Costacoffeeplease · 30/12/2015 16:59

Good luck!

We've just had our 15th stray decide to move himself in Shock

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FedUpWithBriiiiiick · 30/12/2015 17:17

Any chance of a photo of your the stinky assassin, Hurr1cane?

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 18:28

I'll get one when he comes back. He's gorgeous looking. Tuxedo style, my favourite. But he can't move in, he hates the ragdoll with a passion, and the ragdoll is a seizure alert cat so I can't have him upset

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HarrietSchulenberg · 30/12/2015 18:37

Hate to say it but neutering isn't going to solve the spraying problem, although it might make him less inclined to wander.

My old cat was a rescue and was neutered late. He still sprayed till the day he died, 10 years later and aged around 17.

We should have had an inkling of this when the rescue told us they'd called him Squirt but we stupidly thought it was an ironic joke on account of his enormous size. Eventually he stopped spraying in our house but he did once do it in a neighbour's living room, and my dcs still fondly recall the time they witnessed him pin down an intruding cat and spray on him Shock.

Sigh, I still miss the stinky, awkward old bugger.

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 18:47

He's not an old cat though. I'd say about 2/3

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thecatneuterer · 30/12/2015 20:19

Neutering does solve the spraying problem 95 per cent of the time. But there are always some that continue regardless. Even if you are unlucky enough to find one of those then at least the spray will be not nearly so offensive as the appalling tomcat smell will be gone.

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RiverTam · 30/12/2015 20:29

It's not just the spraying, though - unneutered toms are extremely aggressive and if he's that sneaky he could be getting into houses and impregnating young female cats who are yet to be neutered.

We came very close to doing what you are going to, we had endless oriblems with a tom getting in and spraying and attacking our cats. But getting a microchip cat flap did sort him out, how I laughed when he slammed into it the first time. Never saw him again he moved on to terrorising another cat instead.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 30/12/2015 21:48

Bloody hell Costa. 15 at the same time?.

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Catzpyjamas · 30/12/2015 21:48

Much as I agree that it is irresponsible to have an entire male cat who is allowed to run loose, I would be really upset if someone else took my cat to the vet for anaesthetic and surgery. Also you do not know if this cat has any existing health issues which could make him unsuitable for the procedure.
Please at least be honest with the vet before you put them in the position of operating on a cat without the owner's consent.

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RiverTam · 30/12/2015 22:09

I can't agree, I'm afraid. Unneutered toms are a pest, pure and simple. If it can't be neutered then it needs to be kept indoors. If the owners are that irresponsible, too bad.

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thecatneuterer · 30/12/2015 22:16

I absolutely agree with RiverTam. The chances of the cat having some sort of medical condition meaning he can't have an anaesthetic, compared to the chances of the owners being simply irresponsible, are vanishingly small. I spend my days trapping stray cats to neuter. They all turn out ok. And sometimes some of those hanging out with the colony may actually have 'owners'. Well that's just tough. If they're unneutered, and they cross my path, they get done.

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 22:16

Well basically my options are neuter him, or let him keep putting my sons life at risk by scaring him by chasing and attacking his alert cat in our home in the middle of the night.

What else would you suggest I do apart from that? Remove him from the owners completely pretending he's a stray and possibly subjecting him to a life in cat prison?

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Costacoffeeplease · 30/12/2015 22:24

Yes fluffy 15 all at once
Grin

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Catzpyjamas · 30/12/2015 22:25

I would suggest that you speak to the vet for advice.

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Hurr1cane · 30/12/2015 22:27

They'll not do anything then. So then what do I do?

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