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Six month old lab puppy - please tell me it will get better?

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ILoveaSunflower · 17/11/2024 20:27

And will I get my life back?

We brought him home at 9 weeks and from day one have been consistent with training, crate trained and lots of enrichment. He has stuffed kongs, slow feeders, licky mats.

We recently started gundog training with him and he's been doing really well.

But my god...I'm on my knees and regret getting him most days.

He just doesn't know how to settle despite trying to teach him every day. I can't relax at any time as have to have eyes on him 24/7 and am constantly on edge waiting for the next thing to be stolen or chewed.

He constantly steals things like shoes, hats, pens anything that he can reach. He counter surfs despite everything being put back out of his reach.

I find it hard to play with him as he quickly gets over excited and starts biting and jumping on me.

He tries to steal our food at mealtimes but barks of he's shut out for us to eat so it's really stressful. We have stairgates everywhere.

I know he's only young it's making me so down and tired. I feel like I did so much research before we got him and have put a lot into training and enrichment for him that I don't know why I'm struggling.

My previous dog was a JRT that we had from 4 years old so we bypassed the puppy stage. We had 12 wonderful years together and I'm still grieving for her even though it's been over a year although I know it's not fair to compare the two.

Please tell me it gets easier? I should add there's no question of rehoming.

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ILoveaSunflower · 18/11/2024 21:14

Thank you so much for all your replies I really appreciate it and feel a lot better about it all today.

Just to answer a few questions he normally gets a long off lead walk for 30-40 minutes in the then a short road walk in the evening for 20 mins.

There seems to be conflicting advice as to whether this is enough as I've been following the five minutes for every month of age but I agree he could definitely go for longer.

But I thought if I walked him longer there is the risk that he's over stimulated and damaging his joints so I don't know what's best.

We have tried non food based chews like wood and antlers but he loses interest after five minutes. Again all the advice I've read
seems to be to give him kongs. So I'm conflicted.

The gundog stuff is definitely giving him more brain games with no treats but he's only just started so not done much other than stay, wait and retrieve which he can already do. Hopefully as he progresses he'll have to think more.

I won't be posting any pics but suffice to say he is absolutely gorgeous and I do love him just not fully bonded yet I guess.

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Bupster · 18/11/2024 21:33

OP I think the five minute per month thing is to stop people just bunging their tiny puppies on a lead and hauling them around on pavement for hours. Off-lead, sniffing, playing, general free-form dog stuff seems to be much less frowned upon. There's not much research indicating either way, weirdly - I have looked, as a massive nerd. So maybe think about when you need him least bonkers and give him some off lead time before hand?

My lunatic gets 20-120 minutes (the longer times at weekends, obvs) in the morning, but it's either off lead or on a long line, so he can sniff and follow a scent. Then we have the same at the dog park in the late afternoon, and 20 minutes just before bed so he can have a last poo (or in tonight's case, refuse one but go for 20 minutes of snow-zoomies while I turned blue). At weekends he sleeps pretty much all day after that long free range walk. He's seven months old next week and a nutter.

Twiglets1 · 18/11/2024 21:53

ILoveaSunflower · 18/11/2024 21:14

Thank you so much for all your replies I really appreciate it and feel a lot better about it all today.

Just to answer a few questions he normally gets a long off lead walk for 30-40 minutes in the then a short road walk in the evening for 20 mins.

There seems to be conflicting advice as to whether this is enough as I've been following the five minutes for every month of age but I agree he could definitely go for longer.

But I thought if I walked him longer there is the risk that he's over stimulated and damaging his joints so I don't know what's best.

We have tried non food based chews like wood and antlers but he loses interest after five minutes. Again all the advice I've read
seems to be to give him kongs. So I'm conflicted.

The gundog stuff is definitely giving him more brain games with no treats but he's only just started so not done much other than stay, wait and retrieve which he can already do. Hopefully as he progresses he'll have to think more.

I won't be posting any pics but suffice to say he is absolutely gorgeous and I do love him just not fully bonded yet I guess.

We use kongs too, nothing wrong with them. But with our puppy they only last him about 5 minutes and he’s got all the food out!

That’s when I bring out the non edible chewing things because I can’t just keep feeding him. I must admit he’s good at settling at meal times if we’re sitting at the dining room table, he just goes to his bed in the corner.

He’s not good when we eat on the sofa though as he sits & stares and even gives little whines … not good at all.

WeekendExcitment · 08/08/2025 15:23

Reassuring to read comments about puppy training, our 6 month old labrador seems to have got worse recently especially with 'heal' and on the lead. Really struggling to get her to heal and not pull constantly on the lead - any tips very welcome!

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