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How to rehome a puppy

69 replies

Hawthorne2 · 22/06/2024 22:09

Just that. My PIL lost their old and much loved dog. They bought a puppy from a farm. The puppy is too much for them to handle and also they are still in grief from losing their dog. They say they were not thinking straight.
It's a nice puppy, collie cross, it just needs a younger livelier home. The farm can't take it back. Where to begin finding a safe home for this young dog?
Please advise. It's no good judging. The thing is done and they are distraught.

OP posts:
Titsywoo · 23/06/2024 12:03

Definitely try to go through a breed specific rescue however be warned most of them are full and have to turn dogs away every day due to so many people giving up their pets. I foster for a breed specific rescue and they are struggling both with having enough fosters and with people adopting as not enough are applying so fosters end up with the dogs for longer. Puppies certainly get adopted faster though. Good luck.

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 13:00

@MoreThanAllTheMilesCombined I think it's becoming more common to advertise online - I even know of some KC breeders who have started to do it.

I know Pets4Homes gets an awful reputation on here but it's just a website - not every single person is dodgy.

CormorantStrikesBack · 23/06/2024 16:02

Sorry if already mentioned but Wiccaways is a collie rescue/rehoming…..think that’s how its spelt.

MoreThanAllTheMilesCombined · 23/06/2024 16:31

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 13:00

@MoreThanAllTheMilesCombined I think it's becoming more common to advertise online - I even know of some KC breeders who have started to do it.

I know Pets4Homes gets an awful reputation on here but it's just a website - not every single person is dodgy.

That’s because KC means nothing really now. They’re a dodgy organisation if you look into them anyway, there’s no real care about dogs.

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 16:37

MoreThanAllTheMilesCombined · 23/06/2024 16:31

That’s because KC means nothing really now. They’re a dodgy organisation if you look into them anyway, there’s no real care about dogs.

Yep, I agree with you.

I still don't think there's anything inherently wrong with advertising litters on Pets4Homes etc. though. How is it any worse than a poster in a vet surgery or selling to a friend or a friend via word of mouth?

Gribbit987 · 23/06/2024 16:41

Rescue centres will put young pups in foster. Not kennels. Established charities have networks of foster carers - I do it for a London dog rescue.

Your PIL should be paying for all the care involved in rehoming via a donation. The cost of feeding, sheltering and neutering the puppy. All rescues are over stretched. They can at least pay the overheads for the situation.

imisscashmere · 23/06/2024 16:46

A working sheepdog litter (even if crossed with a non-working dog) won’t make appropriate family pets. The farm has been irresponsible.

oakleaffy · 23/06/2024 16:55

MoreThanAllTheMilesCombined · 23/06/2024 08:56

The ‘farm’ clearly aren’t responsible people if they’ve sold others from the litter on pets4homes. A farm sheep dog having pups? The owners wouldn’t need to put the pups on a dodgy website, they’d have homes lined up elsewhere in the farming community. Poor dog, what a shit start between the breeder and your in laws.

Speak to a rescue.

Agreed
This isn’t a working dog
This is a back yard breeder who happens to live on a farm.
££££

That puppy wasn’t re homed responsibly - farm just wanted the dollars 💵.

oakleaffy · 23/06/2024 16:57

imisscashmere · 23/06/2024 16:46

A working sheepdog litter (even if crossed with a non-working dog) won’t make appropriate family pets. The farm has been irresponsible.

Absolutely true.
Border collies are not pets!
Especially not for old and infirm owners.
Grossly irresponsible greeder didn’t do due diligence.

KeenOtter · 23/06/2024 17:32

cryinglaughing · 23/06/2024 08:40

You're right, I have no evidence, but I haven't seen a farm dog that isn't chained at some point during the day (or all day unless working).

My point wasn't meant to be unkind, I was trying to say there are worse things than being in a kennel.
I help out a local rescue, the puppies literally have hundreds of applications, they have little trouble rehoming them.

6 farm collies on my farm never ever ever chained up and we are not the exception

KeenOtter · 23/06/2024 17:37

Collie rescues

Border Collie Trust
Wiccaweys
Valgrays
Border Collie Spot
Border Collie Rescue
Border Collie rescue ad Rehabilitation centre
Protecting Beloved Border Collies

Details of all of the above can easily be found on google

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 18:10

These kinds of mixed farm litters don't tend to sell for much - around £200 a pup is normal - they're not the same as the deliberately bred crosses that command thousands of pounds. It's basically the canine equivalent of selling the kittens that came from one of the barn cats for £20 a pop.

I'm not saying it's the ideal way to get a puppy by any means, but it is still common in rural areas. I use the local farm vets for our animals as they're such good value, and there's pretty much always an advert up somewhere for a working litter. We got two of our kittens from similar adverts - you just turn up, pick the one(s) you want and that's it. There's no vetting involved and the farmers really aren't looking to make a fortune, they mostly just want to cover costs.

I think MN can be quite rigid about dogs and dog ownership at times and it's not always very helpful.

oakleaffy · 23/06/2024 19:22

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 18:10

These kinds of mixed farm litters don't tend to sell for much - around £200 a pup is normal - they're not the same as the deliberately bred crosses that command thousands of pounds. It's basically the canine equivalent of selling the kittens that came from one of the barn cats for £20 a pop.

I'm not saying it's the ideal way to get a puppy by any means, but it is still common in rural areas. I use the local farm vets for our animals as they're such good value, and there's pretty much always an advert up somewhere for a working litter. We got two of our kittens from similar adverts - you just turn up, pick the one(s) you want and that's it. There's no vetting involved and the farmers really aren't looking to make a fortune, they mostly just want to cover costs.

I think MN can be quite rigid about dogs and dog ownership at times and it's not always very helpful.

It’s good that Mumsnet IS quite unforgiving about dogs and dog breeding / ownership.

Dogs , especially since Covid where so many rashly bought dogs, have been abandoned in huge numbers.

Bought on whim, with no real commitment.

It’s ridiculous that the farmer sold an active breed to elderly, infirm people like OP’s parents-

The dog is the one to pay the price.

A Whippet breeder refused to sell a Whippet to an elderly good friend of hers, because the exercise alone with a young active breed would have been physically too much to cope with.

A Border Collie is about as active as you could get.
They need a job to do, or they turn neurotic and barky- not their fault.

Generally selling to people who have just lost a dog is also a bad idea- they aren’t ready til they have grieved their old dog.

Too often a new puppy is given up as “It’s not like old Tess”

Dogs are sentient beings- they suffer with changes of home and lack of proper care.

It ought to be far harder for people to buy dogs.( And horses)

Cats need care, too- but can exercise themselves.

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 19:25

While I don't disagree with you in principle @oakleaffy, OP's in-laws aren't blameless here. They chose not to go to a proper breeder and instead decided to get a farm mix with no background check or vetting in place.

They knew their age and that they were grieving and still decided that a collie mix puppy would be a good idea.

I doubt we'll ever be able to fully regulate dog breeding - it's a nice idea but it won't happen. People ultimately do need to take some responsibility for their choices.

QueenBitch666 · 24/06/2024 00:30

JFC 😭
No judgment on you op. Contact as many rescues as you can
I hope everyone reading this post will get it into their thick heads that animals are a huge fucking responsibility and not toys to be passed around like unwanted pieces of shit.
They're NOT toys for children
They're a lifelong responsibility
They're fucking hard work
And ALWAYS ADOPT because greeders really don't GAF
If you're not eligible for adoption you're not fit to have a companion animal
Rant over 🙏

oakleaffy · 24/06/2024 01:27

fieldsofbutterflies · 23/06/2024 19:25

While I don't disagree with you in principle @oakleaffy, OP's in-laws aren't blameless here. They chose not to go to a proper breeder and instead decided to get a farm mix with no background check or vetting in place.

They knew their age and that they were grieving and still decided that a collie mix puppy would be a good idea.

I doubt we'll ever be able to fully regulate dog breeding - it's a nice idea but it won't happen. People ultimately do need to take some responsibility for their choices.

I agree...OP's parents were naive at best, and negligent at worst- rushing out to buy a ''replacement'' for the lost dog almost immediately, by the sound of it.

Rescues are very wary of this, as so few dogs can fill the boots of an old, deceased much loved pet.

They don't want a new dog...they want a clone of their old dog- and that isn't going to happen.

OP's parents dumped the puppy back with the breeders once, then took it back!
Now they want rid of it again. Dogs do suffer from such treatments.

Talk about fickle.

They may well be ''working through their grief''- but at the cost of the puppy.

Unluckycat1 · 24/06/2024 09:00

I was considering a collie before I got my girl (ironically I was put off by mumsnet posts saying how hard they are, and am pretty sure I've ended up with a far more difficult dog... I often think longingly about dog with amazing recall and handler focus I could have had 😂such is life!). Though I knew the people I was considering buying one from, I did trawl pets4homes out of curiosity and it was heaving with collies coming from mostly farms, being sold more cheaply than most other breeds. This idea that people are lining up for a farm collie seems nonsense. Maybe an award winning pair!

Good luck OP, hopefully a rescue will take the pup. Puppies do get rehired quickly. My local rescue is full of adult dogs that need to be only dogs in adult only homes, it's those ones that linger :(

Unluckycat1 · 24/06/2024 09:06

*rehomed!

Theoscargoesto · 24/06/2024 09:12

In the midlands you might be covered by a rescue called Yappy Ever After. I know that they have a foster system so the dog would likely go to a foster family not kennels. The rescue covers parts of the Midlands but they are worth speaking to.

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