Here is my old girl - she's around 11.5 years but we don't know her exact birth month as we got her as a young adult/ teen equivalent in dog terms. She was from a breader who had had a nasty fall and broken her hips, been hospitalised for months and didn't regain mobility so had to give up her dogs, or rather her son handled it for her. Our dog was unsocialised and had been keneled for a long time in her young life so took a bit of breaking into family life.
I read some great American books on dog keeping before I got my first, over 20 years ago. We didn't have dogs at home as a child but both sets of Grandparents had them. I liked the real life attitude about people working and life phases changing rather than the pretence that no one ever leaves the house and only holidays with their dog.
I'm pleased to see some people on the thread mentioning leaving dogs. I did with my first, who I had from a puppy and she was trained in this way, it was what she knew. As a balance on her pack time, she slept at the foot of the bed. Whilst I was out at work a certain number of hours the time I wasn't at work she was with me.
The working dogs I know spend maybe 15 hours outside/ in a run/ kennel/ farmyard. Longer in winter. So they aren't necessariyly with their pack 24 hours a day. But when its really cold I know more than one farm dog thats allowed to sneek into the house.
Its refreshing to see comments being taken on board. Its a big but wonderful and rewarding decission to get the right dog.
I'd second the comment upthread about a lab. Or if you like a cross and something a little smaller a labradoodle. A friend, with severe arthritus so can't do long walks, has one who will happily play squueky ball for 30 minutes rather than walk. If she's entertained she's very happy.
Labradoodle Breed Highlights pinched from pets4homes
Positives
Labradoodles shed little hair, although some shed more than others
They are highly intelligent and learn things quickly
They have kind and affectionate natures being very biddable by nature
They are a great choice for first time owners
They love taking part in all sorts of canine sports
They are very playful and remain so well into their senior years
Negatives
They are high maintenance on the grooming front
They can be mischievous at times thanks to them being so smart
Labradoodles are high energy and need lots of attention and exercise
A well-bred Labradoodle is expensive to buy
They can suffer from some of the health issues that affect their parent breeds