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What should I do with my lonely bun?

35 replies

NameyMcNameChange1 · 08/02/2019 18:26

He’s 7 years old and last month his brother, who he’s been with all his life, escaped and was eaten by a fox. The rabbits have always had a large shed and then a series of runs joined with tunnels. They’ve been very self sufficient and despite trying a lot when they were younger have never displayed anything other than wariness towards people.

Since rabbit 2 has died rabbit 1 has been frantic. Running round and round his loop of the run, banging his feet noisily and making his run to the point he’s got cuts all over his face. He’s obviously very distressed Sad.

I’ve been spending an hour or so a day sat in his shed with him. He seems to calm down when I’m there and does at least eat while I’m in there but still won’t let me touch him.

I really don’t want to get another rabbit. I just see us being in a cycle of forever having rabbits. Although I’m glad I was able to give my rabbits a good life I didn’t enjoy having them as much as I’d hoped and they were a lot of work and very expensive to buy all the sheds, tubes runs etc which need to be replaced as they inevitably rot within a couple of years. We have chickens but whenever I’ve let them all loose together the chickens have pecked the buns. I may try moving the shed though as possibly just having the chickens to watch might calm him slightly? I can’t bring him indoors as we have a house cat who will kill anything that moves.

I’m very reluctant to rehome him as it seems very rare to find rabbit owners who actually give them enough space. Even the space at the local rehoming centre given to each rabbit is tiny.

Wwyd? Please be gentle, I really am trying to do the best for him.

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MyPuppyIsADick · 11/02/2019 12:32

Sorry I missed he’s not been eating normally since the weekend, that’s definitely cause for concern and I’d be taking him to a new vet ASAP. How is he apart from that OP, are his activity levels normal? Is he sitting hunched up or with his stomach pressed to the floor? Does he have a raised litter tray (might be painful for him to jump in hence the toileting everywhere)?

Deucebumps · 11/02/2019 12:41

Maybe he's grieving? When one of our pair had to be PTS, the other became quite depressed (for lack of another word) for about a month. The vet later said what we could have done is have shown him the body and let him sniff/interact with it - obviously a bit too late for you and probably not possible after a fox attack! He eventually brightened up and has been quite happy on his own, he has toys and we bring him in the kitchen/take him for walks. We did get try introducing two girls but they really didn't get on and he was more stressed than anything so he lives alone again. He's now going on for 10 and shows no sign of slowing down!

NameyMcNameChange1 · 11/02/2019 14:36

deuce we found clumps of fur on the lawn from the dead bun. I have now put a few clumps in the corner of his shed to see what he makes of that.

mypuppy he’s still moving around ok, is going to his upstairs bit to sleep. I don’t think he has any pain he just seems very distressed Sad. If he is in pain at all I think it will be from the cuts on his face where he’s been gnawing the wire in on his run. The vet checked those and they were clean and healing well.

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SirVixofVixHall · 11/02/2019 16:57

I think you need another bunny asap, or he might just die from grief which would be a horrible end for him.

steppemum · 11/02/2019 19:00

rescues find it really hard to rehome older bunnies. They may well be open to the idea of you fostering an older bunny while yours is still going.

Mind you, ours was 5 when his partner died, and it took us ages to find an older bunny to adopt. We adoted her, and she escaped and got eaten Blush we hadn't realised how laid back and familiar with his boundaries our bun was.

elbartoni · 07/06/2019 13:32

I think the best you can do is like others said: try and get another rabbit and hope they'll bond.

That said, I've had rabbits all my life, but only ever one at a time. They've lived to a good age and they seemed happy enough.

I'm no vet, but I suspect the key to it all was a healthy supply of toys and playing with them all the time.

Crazybunnylady123 · 08/06/2019 19:34

I just have a few points. To the person saying that seven is old for a rabbit. I really think not, maybe back in 2008 when knowledge was limited.
I have rabbits that are 9,11,13 years old.
Getting a guinea pig to go with a rabbit is crazy. A rabbit can fatally kick a guinea pig. The rabbit will groom the guinea pig but the piggy will not groom back. Different dietary requirements and rabbits carry pasterella.
You need to rescue an older bunny, yours could live a potential five more years.

Crazybunnylady123 · 08/06/2019 19:35

Also i really hope your rabbit pulls through and sorry for the loss of the other one.
Well done for giving them loads of space.

Kittykat93 · 08/06/2019 19:47

Oh bless him, he sounds so distressed. I would contact a bunny rescue tomorrow and ask about an older rabbit as a companion.

Honeyroar · 11/06/2019 00:55

He sounds scared and worried at suddenly being on his own and as though he's displaying stress (the chewing, stamping etc). The sooner he has some company the better, I'd say.

My first rabbit seemed perfectly happy on his own, and was quite friendly with the dog (they came from the same place), but when we got him a rabbit friend he was over the moon and adores her. He also doesn't seem to care about his friendship with the dog anymore either (and the dog prefers hanging around with our other dogs too!). I'd never have a lone bunny if I could possibly help it.

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