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The best pet in the world or a ten year old?

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Italiangreyhound · 16/03/2015 22:38

Our darling cat has died and my dd (10) is devastated. However she is already keen for a new pet! Between crying she is asking about a new pet. We had a hamster and he was great but I would quite like to widen her horizons. I am not keen on outdoors pets and a dog is out of the question (dh doesn't want one!).

Can anyone rate the relative joys of say hamster/chinchilla/rabbit (I am guessing in a cage not loose in house but an indoor one who would roam a bit when we are home), a tortoise and a budgie or two, please?

Thanks so much.

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lemonyone · 21/03/2015 11:19

Oh god, don't be tempted by a bird! (Sorry to all you twitchers and aviary lovers out there).

My sis had a two budgies as a child. They couldn't be cuddled, they just peeped all day long and drove us all mad. You kind of felt sorry for them. They had to be the most dull, stressful pet I've ever known.

Yes, GPs can be dull. i think I got my DDs at exactly the right age - age 5. She still thinks they're wonderful. I guess they will die when she's around 12 and at the age where pets become less of their world. So I'm thinking a series of short living rats after that.
I've known GPs and rabbits to be completely ignored by friends (when they were younger) or friend's children so i think you're going about this the right way.

Do you live on a very busy road? Could the kitten be an indoor cat? Could yo uget a kitten and a hamster?

Italiangreyhound · 22/03/2015 21:59

lemonyone thanks so much. Cat and hamster not a good mix.

Decided on rabbits.

Might one day get another cat or kitten. It feels right not to jut yet and DD wants a rabbit and we need two and ds is too young but in name will have a pet, big enough not to be squashed by him (He is 4.5) and not too big to hurt him! Sounds ideal. Hope it is!

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GettingFiggyWithIt · 22/03/2015 22:08

rattie
Do pet rats smell much? Also, do they deter house mice from seeking refuge like cats/snakes do or is it: hey, let's party! Grin Same for roof rats..would having rats as pets entice wild ones? Finally, do you have to have two, how did you personally come to love them and how did you get over the length of their tails? Wink

GettingFiggyWithIt · 22/03/2015 22:09

Flowers thank you x

RattieofCatan · 22/03/2015 23:54

GettingFiggy They can do, you do have to keep on top of changing out litter trays and [picking up stray poos. We do it most nights and it's fine. If the hammocks get smelly we swap them out and by the end of the week they can smell but it's not too bad.

Apparently they do deter mice and rats, I can't say I've had any but I am in a basement flat Wink I know people who have kept them in garages and sheds and have never had mouse/rat issues though.

You have to have at least a pair, lone rats are usually not happy rats, they need the company of their own kind. We have a lone rat but it is a rare occurrence. With him it is for a variety of reasons, he didn't learn how to socialise with other rats as he was a very small runt and had to be held most of the time to be kept warm in his formative weeks, he has a lot of health issues, is lethargic and he's epileptic so it's just not safe for him to be in with other rats, despite us trying (we had him in with our big boys for three/four weeks before our Alpha, Haku, decided that he wasn't welcome anymore and probably would have killed him had we not intervened). He spends at least 5 hours out 5 days a week, an hour in the morning free-ranging and then lots of cuddles through the day, he takes a lot of work and he's not a 'normal' rat, they'd need a lot more time out if alone. Rats kept in pairs usually need at least an hour out with you or free-ranging a day, they aren't pets that you can just keep in the cage.
I actually prefer the dynamic of a trio or more. We have a trio of girls and will possibly be taking in a rescue next week to make that four.

RE how I came to love them: we wanted a pet, looked at house rabbits and various caged animals, DP came across a forum post that suggested rats because they were like little dogs and I had a google and found various videos like this:

And a month later we got our first two boys from an NFRS breeder Grin Then we rescued two girls from an MNetter in March last year, one died in August but before she died we got two babies to keep her companion company, loved the dynamic of three so decided to get a third boy and ended up with Ashi in November last year. I'm completely obsessed. I love rats, they're really interesting creatures and each has their own personality. Five of ours are NFRS breeder rats, one a rescue. Our current breeder is amazing, if you're anywhere near Brighton I can highly recommend her if you can get over the phobia! And I'm always happy to introduce mine to people thinking about getting them too :)

I never had an issue with the tails, I never really had an opinion on them before I got rats but I was surprised by how not wormy the tails were once we got the boys, if that makes any sense? They have got very strong tails, I do love the tails now, I find it fascinating how they use them. They also use their tails for temperature regulation, which I think is amazing.

Feel free to PM me if you want to know anything, I am afraid that I can talk forever about rats and divert a conversation Grin

CloserToFiftyThanTwenty · 23/03/2015 00:03

Sorry to hear about your cat - hope DD loves the rabbits. I have fond memories of the bunnies we had when we were growing up Flowers

GettingFiggyWithIt · 23/03/2015 10:10

Thanks rattie! Sadly I am not in the UK.
I am morbidly fascinated!
My dd2 would love a pet but I am always explaining it comes with huge responsibility and she is only 4.
I have to grow her and her sibling a bit more before contemplating two new family members! But will pm you if I ever do need more info. Thanks again x

RattieofCatan · 23/03/2015 12:39

Rats really are a lot of responsibility, you really can't leave them for a few days but well bred ones are good with children generally, if you do consider them look for a family friendly breeder, they'll certainly be about but you may have to hunt around depending on what country you are in!

Italiangreyhound · 24/03/2015 02:37

Thanks all.

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