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Le ridicule ne tue pas....les Parisiennes de Mumsnet

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AuldAlliance · 02/02/2018 13:34

New thread for those hoping to add a bit of Parisian je ne sais quoi and je m'en fous to their style.

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botemp · 20/02/2018 17:33

Sorry Sock! Unfortunately, I once had to pay more taxes and duties than the value of the thing I bought, I wouldn't want anyone else to have to deal with that horror.

AllTheYummyFood · 20/02/2018 20:27

@botempt

Thought you may like this store if you fancy having a crack at bag making:

www.etsy.com/ie/shop/niizo?ref=s2-header-shopname

I've read good reviews and thinking of trying a pattern.

ToElleWithIt · 21/02/2018 08:49

Here it seems to depend which way the package is delivered. If it's sent with the US Postal service it then enters our national postal service and from extensive experimentation they don't bother processing anything under EUR 150 whether new or used. I'm guessing that it's not an integrated process so they only bother doing it when the value gets sufficiently high. Also it seems that's the level where import duties apply, it's only VAT at lower amounts. They're obviously not that fussed about the VAT!

If things are shipped with FedEx or UPS or DHL then they get charged no matter how small and the fees are astronomical. I presume they have a more integrated processing system.

Back on the topic of Mac lipsticks I was having a browse the other evening and bought the new Viva Glam with Sia. It's less drying than Ruby Woo. I'd say it's a true red, possibly a touch warm. The texture is lovely and proceeds go to charity.

The Danse Lente bags are lovely botemp Nice to see something original.

OCsockorphanage The Epi leather is indestructible. I bought an Alma in Epi with my first bonus 13 years ago and it's still in great shape. It seemed to be the epitome of a "sophisticated work bag" to me in my early 20s! The shape feels a little prim now. I must get it back out though it is still a nice bag for formal work things. I also have a soft spot for the collaboration LV did with Kusama.

botemp · 21/02/2018 11:27

Thanks for that Yummy, despite not being a magnificent sewer I'm actually quite good at pattern making my own designs, it's not that different from drafting a floor plan at the end of the day. I just worry about the tensile strength of seams, etc. in a self-made bag as I wouldn't want a bag that I'd only carry a scarf in out of fear of it unraveling. It is a good idea just to get a bit of experience with it, I've seen courses advertised but most are more a 'pimp your bag' type thing or as expensive as buying a proper bag.

The rules are similar here, Elle, but US goods always get taxed. They automatically get flagged but I've gotten loads of things from Japan and S. Korea and that hardly ever gets stopped. I really don't mind paying the VAT, it's the standard charge plus an extra % the national post service charges for 'handling fees' that enrages me (and it's not like they have any competition and I have no choice in the matter so feel it's an unfair monopoly and should be against EU rules ). Some US e-tailers are catching on though, with UPS or DHL you can prepay taxes and they won't dispatch it from the US until you've paid them, and then it's usually a few dollars. Others have it integrated into their site (like Shopbop), even better then.

I loved the Kusama x LV collection too, there had just been a wonderful exhibit of hers down in Rotterdam around the same time. It was absolutely bonkers and magical. Though I probably liked the collab she did with Uniqlo a few years back, I really wanted attached tote but Uniqlo didn't ship here at the time and it was sold out pretty quickly.

Speaking of Uniqlo colabs, they've announced a new one for early summer with Thomas Maier. Not really a brand I'd looked into before but it has similar Cristhophe Lemaire vibes of quality basics and I can see it working well within the Uniqlo brand. He's also head designer for Bottega Veneta.

I have the Phoebe in all black from Danse Lente but the Johnnys are quite popular in all the fashion week street style photos at the moment. I hope Instagram doesn't ruin it Sad. I quite like the look of the Lornas (I'd need a mini one) but I'm thinking they're probably not so practical.

I've also been really enamoured by a from Low Classic (pic 2), a S. Korean brand, for a while, was hoping Thomas Greyhound in Paris would have stocked them, but no accessories, just the clothes which were great to see too as the Korean and Japanese designer labels are so completely different. Very luxe/minimal but not as crazy conceptual as it used to be. Unfortunately, you can only order from S. Korea or the US and taxes and duties would ramp up the price disproportionately.

Even though it's not relaxed or slouchy, I'm back to contemplating an Aesther Ekme bag again, but in burgundy, which is more reddish than brown, figure that will be quite versatile too for S/S.

Apols, everyone, ignore my musings on bags whilst I'm in indecision mode at your leisure.

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OCSockOrphanage · 21/02/2018 12:08

The Maker's Atelier pattern book has a bag template very similar, with full instructions, to the larger pic you've posted, Bo, if you were minded to get the sewing machine out.

OCSockOrphanage · 21/02/2018 12:08

The Maker's Atelier pattern book has a bag template very similar, with full instructions, to the larger pic you've posted, Bo, if you were minded to get the sewing machine out.

OCSockOrphanage · 21/02/2018 12:08

The Maker's Atelier pattern book has a bag template very similar, with full instructions, to the larger pic you've posted, Bo, if you were minded to get the sewing machine out.

OCSockOrphanage · 21/02/2018 12:23

Blush J'ai honte pour trop des message. Button wasn't responding!

AllTheYummyFood · 21/02/2018 13:43

Slightly off topic, but have you made my h from the book @OCSockOrphanage!

I do like their style, so tempted to add it to the shopping list.

@Botemp I'd say seam construction would be the main consideration. Flat felling seams or overlocking etc for extra durability / sewing in ribbon along the seam line to prevent distortion would help depending on fabric choice. The identity store is an online shop specialising in leather and tools etc, and I have thought about having a go at making my own, just not sure if the sewing machine is up to it.

OCSockOrphanage · 21/02/2018 13:50

I am waiting for our local seamstress to start the classes she has been promising for a year. My ancient machine has been serviced and is ready to go, but I am dithering, studying the text and looking for fabrics that hit the sweet spot between being easy for a beginner (like cotton) and what I really want to use (jerseys, silk and satin, leather).

Have bought several useful books though and my ironing has improved a lot since reading the chapter on pressing techniques. I am probably going to start by making a shoulder ham.

HolgerDanske · 21/02/2018 15:02

Thank you for Flowers and positive vibes. I’ll be alright.

It’s actually vouchers for a dept store that I’ve got, and I’ve got enough to pay a bit more (just didn’t want to break into another one for the mini) so I could get the Dior 999 instead. I’ve looked at it and I think it’ll be a good colour for me, fingers crossed. I’ll go in and see sometime in the next few weeks.

Hope you each have a lovely day today.

CatherineMaitland · 22/02/2018 10:20

I actually really like some of those Aesther Ekme bags...bit over my ideal budget though. Hm.

Sorry you have been having a hard time Holger.

botemp · 22/02/2018 13:09

Thanks Sock, but it was the pattern that I really liked. They seem to be selling on eBay at inflated prices which I'll pass up for no but I like the look of that book regardless. And thanks for the identity store tip, Yummy, fabric shops here are pretty shit and expensive.

I was actually having a bit of the February blues yesterday but was completely cheered up by the 24 Sevres/Le Bon Marche delivery. Not so much the contents, the scarf was a touch too light and the Stella McCartney silk trousers too big, but the packaging was amazingly cheery. The gift box (didn't ask for it, seems to be standard) even had my initials on it. Have attached pics, was quite sad to return it all.

Catherine, you could have a look at MYR Studio on tictail, slightly less than AE in budget, still not cheap though but very elegant simple minimalistic.

botemp · 22/02/2018 13:12

I forgot to attach my cheery pics. Also, I found the app with the cat stickers Grin

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Le ridicule ne tue pas....les Parisiennes de Mumsnet
Le ridicule ne tue pas....les Parisiennes de Mumsnet
ToElleWithIt · 22/02/2018 19:28

Ooooh that packaging is gorgeous.

Uniqlo bits arrived today. Haven’t even opened yet, but I’ll try over the weekend.

OCSockOrphanage · 22/02/2018 21:17

If anyone is considering anything from Linda's Stuff, I would like to reassure you that they have been incredibly helpful. I managed to send the little LT tote I'm buying to my mum, because I just bought her a Spong mincer (never used, original box-- from the 1950s for £8) so it was the last address. They stopped the first transaction, refunded to PayPal, and asked me to rebuy with shipping to my address. I asked to pre-pay handling costs, but apparently they have to describe very exactly to comply with regulations, but did say they aim to help minimise problems with tax and duty. So I will debrief you all, when little bag arrives.

quirkychick · 23/02/2018 06:54

Gorgeous packaging, bo very cheery indeed! I absolutely don't need and can't afford it, but those MYR bags are gorgeous!

GibbonsSleeve · 23/02/2018 20:54

There's a vintage market near me tomorrow. I'm always a bit nervous of second hand, but having seen so many tips on here about how to put an outfit together, I'm going to have a look.

GibbonsSleeve · 23/02/2018 21:02

http://www.desigual.com/enGB/women/accessories/handbags/prod-taliaa_hamar-18SAXPF2 I might have splurged in the meantime. Love the spring colours.

CatherineMaitland · 23/02/2018 21:06

Thanks bo - the Myr bags are lovely, but now I am seriously coveting the rain bracelets as well...

GibbonsSleeve · 23/02/2018 21:27

Madame did you do your awards ceremony yet? You had a super outfit planned. Anyone famous there?.

quirkychick · 24/02/2018 08:12

Gibbons you've reminded me to check our local vintage fairs times, thank you. I think the rules for second hand and sales are only buy if you love it, it fits, it's exactly what you want etc. These can be easy to overlook, if you think you've got a bargain. Also, a list of the kind of things you are looking for is useful to keep you on track. Check labels for brand, fabric content, care etc. Let us know how you got on.

Floisme · 24/02/2018 09:57

Yes vintage fairs are terrible for that 'buy it now or lose it forever feeling' and I've been sucked in a couple of times Grin But equally I've walked away from things, only to lie awake later thinking, 'you fool'. It's not an exact science. I often set myself a spending limit so that, if I do make a mistake, it's not the end of the world. But even when I don't buy anything - and often I don't - it's fun just looking. The people running the stalls are normally very friendly and really know their stuff.

Changing facilities are normally pretty rudimentary so it's worth thinking about what to wear - I'd never go in a dress, for example, always skirt and top.

Some of them have people doing 40s hair and make up if you fancy giving that a try. (I keep meaning to but there's always a queue plus I have sensitive skin and stroppy hair.)

botemp · 24/02/2018 11:42

Rain bracelets, Catherine? Can you link them, Tictail is a big place.

I've always come out dissapointed in vintage fairs, maybe because they're all 1950's themed which just isn't me. It's interesting though how 'vintage' gets rebranded all the time, it was very 70's for a bit (but the orange brown velour stuff, not the slinky Halston lux that's now considered the 70s). I remember there was a lot of flapper dress revival at some point too.

The sample sales in Antwerp and the odd one I frequent here (they're not much of a thing here) usually have communal changing rooms, which I know might horrify some on here but it's actually quite fun, you often see one stand out dress passed round and it's really interesting to see how different it will look on different shapes and ages. The collective gasp when it fits someone perfectly is also quite magical and entertaining.

I'd rec wearing a vest underneath a top and boy shorts, if there are no changing facilities or ones that barely conceal you, you're not completely exposed.

Arket is finally opening up after months and months of renovation on the 2nd here so I'm exploring what they have online. I've forgotten what the sizing was like, per COS or &Other Stories? They seem to have the potential to feed my Boie des Rose yearnings as well as wide-legged trousers at the moment. Not sure if the waist is too low on it though.

Grabbed a fab bargain on a new (to me) app, bit like Depop. An asymmetric Helmut Lang skirt for the measly sum of 26EUR, including shipping. It's brand new without its tags and it's stupidly flattering, although I need to dig out some summer shoes as it looks best so far with high heels which are not exactly practical.

Also, I'm sooooooooooooo sick of the cold and it doesn't look to be getting better for the next fortnight. I may just concentrate on some spring cleaning in my closet in the weeks ahead to distract myself from the freezing temps and delude myself better temps are here soon enough.

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AuldAlliance · 24/02/2018 12:09

Checking in from Philly, where the weather is crap, I've barely glimpsed the city through the rainclouds in the few spare minutes I have, BUT the Comptoir peacoat has come into its own, in snow when I was leaving Provence and rain/wind/drizzle here. And the conference is brilliant.

Interesting looking at how female US academics dress, as compared to dress codes in France.
I am definitely at the extreme end of the smartly dressed scale here, which isn't the case back home.

Still lurking when I can, hoping to post more when I get back next week.

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