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How to look 'expensive'

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INeedSomeHelp · 30/12/2015 16:58

I'm not sure if that's the right word but I was in Sainsbury's today and the woman in the queue in front of me just looked 'expensive'.
She wasn't wearing anything remarkable - a leather jacket with a fur collar, skinny jeans and brown knee length boots but somehow she looked 'done' whereas I looked like a sack of spuds.
How to achieve that expensive look without the budget?

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cressetmama · 02/01/2016 22:14

l will be 60 next birthday, so old is relative on MN.

BeaufortBelle · 02/01/2016 22:16

I agree with you cressetmama. Your ironing comment has just reminded me if something. Linen. I'm never sure how good it looks.

cressetmama · 02/01/2016 22:20

Comfortable in hot weather. Lovely if one is not going to sit down!

energyfreezone · 02/01/2016 22:26

Loving this thread!

I saw a picture of Princess Charlene of Monaco the other day and thought she looked "expensive". Note the neutral clothes-and she always seems to wear expensive designer clothes. Even though she doesn't have long "swishy" hair, she looks very chic with her pixie cut. I think she looks more expensive than the Duchess of Cambridge, although I do love Kate!! Blush

This blog is great and explains it so well:-

howtobechic.blogspot.co.uk/2013/09/how-to-look-expensive.html

IMO, most important for this look is:-

Being clean and showered
Wearing fresh, ironed clothes
Manicured nails-short-NOT talons with bits of glitter, designs etc. Can be painted but classic colours, or buffed
No cheap jewellery piled on, instead classic items, a good watch and only rings should be wedding, engagemant, eternity and maybe one other on other hand
No towering heels you can barely walk in
No muffin tops hanging over too tight jeans
Any tattoos should always be somewhere where no-one can see them
Subtle make-up, no caterpillar eyebrows or God forbid, Kim Kardashian facial contouring)

As far as clothing goes, I hate to say it, but I do think very expensive clothes DO look expensive, although you can mix expensive with the odd cheaper item. Neutral colours, (as mentioned before)-whites, black, camel, navy, odd colour like red or maybe orange or pink to brighten (this could be a bag, scarf or roll neck jumper, maybe a lipstick)

Bags, coats, shoes (if poss) should always be good quality, the best you can afford.

I do think white teeth help with this look (NOT Rylan Clark/Simon Cowell white), glowing skin, glossy hair (but not overly long WAG hair extensions).

If only I could follow my own adviceSad

How to look 'expensive'
Cel982 · 02/01/2016 22:26

Only brown in the city on Fridays.

Hmm

Does this mean "Brown may only be worn on a Friday, in the city (City?)", or "In the city, on Fridays, only brown may be worn"?

Donge13 · 02/01/2016 22:30

Again, do we think a neutral palette is key here??

cressetmama · 02/01/2016 22:34

Cresset's style rules reckon that you can break all of the above rules... but only one at a time. Currently have black nails, with a penguin painted on the ring finger!

cressetmama · 02/01/2016 22:40

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cressetmama · 02/01/2016 22:44

By tradition, Donge men would only wear brown in the City of London on Fridays, as they would be leaving to go shooting (or hunting or fishing) somewhere on Friday evening. Still looks odd/off with a grey navy suit IMHO.

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DancingDuck · 02/01/2016 23:08

Bit off topic, but I think the most important thing is loving how you dress and having the confidence to wear what you love. The two friends whose style I always admire most - one wears Victoriana, always in frilly lace and velvet, and the other is really boho with loads of clashing colours and patterns and massive scarves, but they are so wholehearted in how they dress, they always look great, and as though they get real pleasure from their clothes.

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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 02/01/2016 23:23

I saw a young woman (late teens/early 20s) in a large Essex shopping centre head-to-toe in white with every item from her shoes to her CC earrings 'named' .
She was tall, slim, blonde , probably spent a fortune...... but as a middle aged old harridan, I thought she looked a Cheap as F*ck.
She may well have had far more money than me. I don't know and really don't care.

There's another woman I see (never spoken too) but I often try to catch a sight of her labels etc - she is tiny, blonde, very £££ sports car.
Dark fitted jeans,leather jacket, huge diamond.
I have no idea what brands she wears (and probably wouldn't recognise them , unlike Ms Sports Wear , she isn't written all over)

Her jeans might be Primark, her diamond might be CZ, her jacket might be her sisters. No idea. But she looks the part.

I could stop my home dye and go gracefully grey I reckon (I am not going to sit in the hairdressers) but total strangers say my hair is lovely (preen) .
I only wear small CZ studs most of the time.

I don't have leather bags by choice, so no Mulberrys here.

I worked years ago for a family (wealthy MC) they all looked 'expensive' looking back. Trying to rack my brains now what they did to achieve it.

looki · 02/01/2016 23:25

A tan helps I think, by that I mean a real tan. Fake tan for the most part looks very trashy and it very very rarely looks real.

Stepawayfromthezebras · 02/01/2016 23:33

Completely agree dancing I love it when people know what they like and embrace it - even if it's not a style I'd wear. It would be very boring if everyone wore classic clothes and there were no goths or hipsters or hippies or 50's pinups or flashy blingy types about

Debbriana1 · 02/01/2016 23:44

Rude that was me your referring to. I didn't know there were rules on the advice offered on here. The other advice I have offered wasn't about lying about how much you have nor was the one you commented on.

BeaufortBelle · 02/01/2016 23:48

The last person I heard talk about brown shoes in the City on Fridays was my Grandad. He was born in 1909 Grin. Only the odd older chap was doing it in the 80s when I was there. I do remember younger ones being sent home to change on other days to change into black ones though; and a secretary being sent home to change into a skirt Shock.

But I digress. All I know right now is that I'm quite looking forward to putting on my naice, cotton, M&s Nightie.

RudeElf · 02/01/2016 23:51

Rude that was me your referring to. I didn't know there were rules on the advice offered on here. The other advice I have offered wasn't about lying about how much you have nor was the one you commented on.

There arent rules Confused you posted a comment and i posted a response. Thats how threads work. I wasnt having a dig at anything you said, i didnt say you said to lie about how much money people had. I just responded in relation to your comment.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 03/01/2016 00:26

Last winter I noticed that in London, the women were wearing biker boots, leather long boots or ankle boots ;, in Essex they were wearing Uggs/ Fake Uggs.

I was people watching on my way home from a Study Evening, wondering why they were all out. Were they going home from work? Meal? Cinema?

But not a Ugg boot to be seen Grin

JanuaryKat · 03/01/2016 00:28

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BeaufortBelle · 03/01/2016 00:32

This has been such a lovely thread with no rucking. Please can it continue in that way.

Donge13 · 03/01/2016 00:33

Well said Beau !

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JanuaryKat · 03/01/2016 00:35

I agree, it was a lovely thread.

MuttonWasAGoose · 03/01/2016 00:36

We made it well over 350 posts and the thread was mostly repeating itself regarding shiny hair so I think it has done very well, considering.

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