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If you have thick hair, come and talk to me about your short to mid-length haircuts...

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MackerelOfFact · 15/04/2012 00:37

I had to have professional photos taken at work recently and was horrified at how utterly drab my hair actually looks. I have very thick mousy brown hair with a natural kink/wave. About once or twice a year I get it cut to just below my shoulders in kind of choppy layers with a long, sweeping side fringe and then let it grow out. It's currently almost halfway down my back and the fringe is non-existent. It never looks great even after a cut, but it looks horrendous at the moment.

I'd love a shorter cut, above shoulder length or shorter. Problem is, because it is so very thick (hairdressers always comment that it is probably the thickest hair they have even seen and it has been known for it to take up to 2 hours to blow dry in a salon when they try and dry it in silly little segments) the shorter it is, the more absolutely unruly it is, because there's nothing to weigh down the millions of strands. It also gets greasy quickly and needs daily washing, so I'm loathe to use much product - I use serum on the ends and always try to leave conditioner on for 5 minutes or so, and although it does look shiny, feel soft and largely do as it's told, I know from experience that's only because it's so long.

So anyway, what kind of haircut do the thick-haired ladies have? I have a round face with quite an expansive forehead, I'm 5ft 2in, quite pale and lardy 'curvy'. I'm still in my 20s just, I want to look modern and fresh, I don't want to go back to he hairdressers and get another 90s haircut.

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MackerelOfFact · 15/04/2012 20:12

Blush Well thank you for the lovely comments about my hair. I think it looks like a dreadful mess but I guess I should just embrace the wavy thing and go with it and make a bit of an effort. I should perhaps have mentioned that this was before it had been brushed, so pre-frizz introduction. I usually attack it with straighteners to kill the frizz and the overall effect is lank and flat.

Holborn is walkable from where I work so I'll look into that. Also I guess a curl product would be a good move to countenance the frizz. I will still get a good few inches off and get the side fringe cut back in and thinned out again. It gets to a certain length (ie. where it is now) where I struggle to get my scalp feeling properly clean because the shampoo doesn't permeate and/or rinse all the way down. And that makes me feel a bit ick.

Carrie, your hair looks lovely now, but your DD's hair, OMG! It is beautiful.

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HappyCamel · 15/04/2012 20:19

I have very thick, slightly curly hair. It is fine but there is loads of it, I have it just below chin length at the front and graded to my nape at the back and then layered at the back. I find it really practical, it blow dries straight quickly but looks curly and informal if I let it dry naturally.

It's a neater version of Thomasina Mier's cut.

welovesausagedogs · 17/04/2012 14:51

Your hair looks so lovely, exactly how i get mine to look each day, wavy and with waves that are perfectly formed.

welovesausagedogs · 17/04/2012 14:55

Maybe you should stop brushing it, i no longer brush mine and the waves become less frizzy. Don't straighten it, you will make it worse, try the smooth infusion range from aveda it's fab.

I do brush mine using a mason pearson hairbrush (they are great) and then i apply smooth infusion serum (www.aveda.co.uk/templates/products2/spp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CAT8316&PRODUCT_ID=PROD89896)

Aveda will have the perfect product for your hair so take a look.
www.aveda.co.uk/templates/products2/mpp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CAT8316&PRODCAT_ID=CAT8316

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