At my daughter's school, the girls had 1.5 hours of sport available to them while the boys had 4.5 hours... I challenged this and they were offered a 20 minute slot in morning break... when I suggested that the boys slot be allocated to the girls, the answer was.. 'but what shall we do with the boys?'...
The girls team used old rugby kit that did not fit them while the boys had new kit.
The boys rugby and football teams were celebrated for every success, valuing this more than other school achievements, while not offering the same possibilities to the girls.
When asked about provision for girls in our local football club, I was told that the girls could join the boys team.. they were welcome. The reality was that only the bravest, strongest, fastest girls were able to withstand being ignore by team mates, not getting passed to, changing on their own, listening to parents shout to their children 'don't let a girl get passed you'..
Other examples: not having separate changing rooms, having smaller trophies,
At school sports day, because one boy didn't have a three legged race partner, they decided not to have a girls race, but to have a mixed race where the winners were two boys.. so no year 3 girls winner that year.
In a mixed club (hockey), aged 9, none of the boys passed to the girls, even when the girls were better than them.
Bike rental: The 'man's bike' had 21 gears, was lighter and a much better bike.. the woman's bike had 3 gears and was heavier... I watched men ease their way along looking back at their female partners struggling up the hills.. and told them.. it's not you... it's the bike... swap and see what a difference it makes.
School uniforms: Girls have to wear skirts and Mary Jane shoes while boys can wear shorts and sturdy shoes. When you try to kick a ball wearing sandals or light shoes, it hurts your feet and the ball does not travels as far or in the desired direction.. so you think you are not good at football.. but put shorts and trainers on.. and it is easier and more fun. Girls from an early age are shorter, frillier, tighter. Altogether less suitable for active play.
Representation in toys and children's books... the female animals have red lips and eye lashes..
There are great observational studies about how public spaces are not accessible to women and girls.. fenced in sports areas like football / basketball spaces, are taken over by men and boys, women and girls feel unwelcome even when it is women and girls who take their children to the park more. Open spaces are more welcoming to women.
Running as a lone woman... men rolling down their windows to shout at me.
School PE kits / sports uniforms... hockey skirts .. gym leotards.. netball dresses ... athletics knickers and vest tops... Read about the athlete who felt different in her body when she wore more fabric.
School sports: We were offered tennis, Jane Fonda and hockey... the boys had football, rugby and cricket...
Access to weightlifting equipment. Gyms occupied by mostly men are intimidating to women...
Clothing / equipment: Women are not small men... our feet are different sizes, finding quality football boots to fit my daughter's female size and shaped feet has been challenging. Finding hiking equipment to fit women's bodies ... our back to leg proportions are different. Equipment that is designed to accommodate breasts.. think back and chest protectors, rucksacks with a chest strap..
Equality =/ Equity ... Everyone having the same does not result in equitable outcomes...
Everyone can play in the team, wear the same clothes, have access to the facilities... does not mean that women and men will experience this equally.
There have been some amazing initiatives to address the participation of women in sport... look at the research underpinning those as well as the observations around behaviours. You can not see what is not there... it is the absence of women that needs to be explored, not just the experience of the women who are participating.
Back to bikes... why are girls bikes marketed with baskets and flowers but boys bikes are more often better, lighter..
I do not believe that bikes are designed with women's bodies in mind.. shoulder width, leg to back ratio, riding position, hip shape.. and dig out podcasts where women talk about saddles and having to have parts of their anatomy removed in order to be able to ride ultra distances without injury.