Ok. context: Our boy turns 1 in Feb and mum is off until then. We likely wouldn’t qualify for funding until the April term if not the term after (whenever that is?).
To qualify for 30 hours, I’d need to cap my earnings but wife earns a lot less. if we do qualify financially we will be really struggling but better off than if I don’t - but either way the numbers do not add up and we will likely be underwater each month. I won’t go into details but effectively the mortgage is huge, and we’re not in a position to sell (cladding etc). Not after violins here, as well aware many probably dream of having to cap their salary to qualify (sadly in London and with the size of mortgages on pretty standard homes it’s increasingly a big challenge).
Therefore both of us need to work, so a nursery that covers the full year is appealing. However I’ve been told that if we were to go on a lengthy holiday (longer than 2 weeks). Then we wouldn’t qualify for the funding, I think for that term? And would have to reapply. This is quite an issue as my wife’s family live in China, and I think it’s important he gets to spend time with them and it would also benefit his development substantially in my opinion to experience the culture. Trips to China, you don’t really do for less than three weeks - particularly with a young child. My wife and I are in a lucky position that we get 30 days holiday each, 35 days if I buy more - on top of that our company allows us to work up to 4 weeks abroad a year. Because of this we were thinking we could do a total of 8 weeks abroad, with one parent holidaying the other working. So straight away we’ve reduced the need for childcare for the year down to 44 weeks and taking into account remaining holiday at alternate times down to 40 weeks.
I also want to speak to work about cramming my hours into 4 days a week. And my wife, that way we’d need care for just 3 days a week as well.
so in short - I’m thinking term time nursery would be better? But the after school pick up would be a issue as will need to work later if squeezing time into 4 days. The other big issue I have is actually finding a term time nursery.