DS is in y10 doing GCSEs at a small independent school (funded via EHCP) and we are starting to look at what's next for post 16.
He is very very bright and definitely well suited academically to A levels and then going on to university but a combination of ASD and a very late August birthday make him very young for his age and I seriously doubt he will be ready to leave home for uni a couple of weeks after his 18th birthday. Unfortunately he will have to leave home to go to uni due to where we live, otherwise I'd be very happy for him to live at home whilst studying.
A gap year would be the obvious suggestion for most young adults but due to his needs that's unlikely to be suitable or affordable. I think he will really need another year of structure, learning study skills etc. I wish he had been able to start school a year later tbh but unfortunately where we live that wasn't possible.
Would we be able to ask about him doing 4 A levels over 3 years? The school would 100% back us on this being the right pace for him, but would the LA agree to fund it?