Hi everyone,
My DD (15) was referred for an ASD assessment in July-ish. She has low attendance, high anxiety, history of self-harm, etc.
She has been allowed ear buds in hallways at school, she leaves all lessons 5 mins early and arrives at lessons 5 mins late (spends the 10 mins in the student support room) to avoid crowds etc.
She is in year 11 and is doing her exams/mock exams and is allowed to wear ear defenders during these and do them in a seperate room.
Despise this she still has high anxiety with school and comes home exhausted. Her attendance is in the 70s%.
We asked the school for a meeting and asked about getting an EHCP - SENCO was adamant this was not needed and that her grades were very high, so it was unlikely we would get one anyway. She seemed very negative about the whole situation and said the school would not apply for one.
She told me that I could apply for one directly through the LA rather than through the school if I felt that I would get one, and I have looked at these avenues - we are in Devon. They have an online form but there are lots of boxes about different needs and I have no idea how to word or what to put in alot of them!!
Basically, I just need help on how I would go about applying for an EHCP, and is it worth it?? The school have made me doubt whether I would get one in the first place. I have seen the letter templates on IPSEA and other websites that you fill in, but, again, I am unsure of what to put in the needs boxes!!
Again, school are adamant that she does not need one - would this lower our chances of getting one??
I appreciate she is in year 11 and will be leaving soon but ideally this would be in place for college as she is going to a mainstream college.