Hi all, I am a special needs teacher in a school for autistic children from 11-19 years of age. I teach a 15 year old female, who is verbal because struggles communicating her difficulties. She joined us fully after transitioning in September. Since her being with us her behavior is very concerning. She is extremely aggressive towards her staff and towards herself. I'm not going to lie but she is hard work and probably the most challenging student of the other 20 we have.
She displays challenging behavior including locking her staff out and away from her, running round the school, running from her staff, refusing work, absconding from school and from teachers whilst offsite. She throws things at us, chairs, bottles, anything she can get her hands on, she will kick, bite, pull hair, punch, and headbut us teachers, therefore we have to hold her and restrain her but becomes too violent we have no choice but to let go. She will kick holes in the wall, draw on the walls, steals our radios we use to communicate, she will engage in headbaging on the wall or floor every now and again. She is very problematic and we have an issue with her every single day and it is tiring but we do a job to help.
We don't know what to do, we've tried everything, she has a PECS folder, a lanyard and many ways to communicate but doesn't, when she bangs her head, we have no choice but to intervene which makes it worse, she nearly knocked herself out earlier today because we had no choice but to leave her alone to do it. If we try to block it she will hurt us and then we have to move away and give her space for our safety and she won't let us help her. She's physically fit and is one of the fittest and is one of the less severe pupils but is definitely the hardest to understand and help. She will jump over fences around the school to abscond and she is a very quick runner, really quick,and she's very unpredictable. We are aware of sensory issues and communication deficits but sometimes there just isn't a reason to explain why she does what she does. She is more than capable telling us her issues, she's done it before and she is very chatty when she wants to be, and she's a very clever and sassy girl. I'm just lost at the moment. We all are, including her parents. Her hurting herself and us is our biggest mission to understand and overcome. Any ideas?