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ThomCat · 18/01/2005 14:52

I haven't seen the article in question but it was about a little boy with Down's syndrome being banned from his local swimming pool and his mothers successful fight to overturn this decision.

In response to the article that the Daily Mail ran on this my mum wrote in to them with the following letter.

They are now going over to my mums tomorrow to take a picture of her and Lottie to run with it as their lead letter!

MY MUMS LETTER:

Daily Mail letters page

Your article (14/1/05) about the little boy with Down?s syndrome being refused swimming lessons by the Trust that runs Hoyland swimming pool for Barnsley Council, has left me feeling furious.
Does the Trust responsible for the pool, or Barnsley Council for that matter, know what Down?s syndrome means? Do they think children with this genetic condition have two heads, that the children are uncontrollable, that they are all disruptive and have behavioural difficulties? They are acting with sheer ignorance. Down?s syndrome occurs because of one extra chromosome. That is all. With it comes a degree of learning difficulty, the children are a little behind their peers in their development. But they catch up eventually and are wonderful members of our society. Oh, and by the way, they learn to swim the same as other children!
Lots of children without Down?s have behavioural problems; some children with Attention Deficit Disorder, for example, can be disruptive. In these circumstances, understandably, the situation would need to be reviewed.
But please, all you officials out there who have the power to make the decisions such as those who have treated little Samuel Doran so unfairly ? get educated. Don?t jump to the conclusion that because a child has Down?s syndrome, or any other specail needs, that child will ?be a risk?. Judge childen on their merits, not on their looks, please.
And I'm qualified to say these things. My 3 year old granddaughter, Charlotte, has Down?s syndrome. Yes, she?s behind with walking and speech ? but she?s ahead of her peers with her social skills and her concentration span. She?s an asset to her mainstream pre-school ? all she needs is a little more help with some aspects of her life.
Congratulations and good luck to Elaine, Samuel?s mum ? there are lots of people who support and admire you for standing up for your son?s rights.

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coppertop · 18/01/2005 22:32

Hurray for Nana-Cat!

ThomCat · 18/01/2005 22:41

The 'horsey types' I met when I wanted to take Lottie riding had attitudes that these trusty / council types' could learn a lot from!

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pixel · 18/01/2005 23:08

I've been helping out at the RDA recently and the Pony club type ladies are all volunteers and brilliant with children of all abilities and ages. Some people are just ignorant whatever their job!

This thread has reminded me of when I enrolled my dd in a beginners swimming class. I was really proud when she got straight in the water on the first lesson as I knew how nervous she was. After the second lesson I was asked not to bring her again as the other parents had complained that she was taking up too much attention! It was awful having to tell dd that she couldn't go to the lessons anymore, (especially as we had arranged for her to go with a schoolfriend) plus I had to fight to get my money back as I had paid for a ten week course! To cap it all, when I protested that it was for beginners the instructor said "well most of these children have already done a ten week course". Well silly me for not knowing that! Oh, and thanks to those other parents for their support!

KateandtheGirls · 19/01/2005 00:53

What a great letter your mum wrote! Good for her!

ThomCat · 19/01/2005 11:02

Pixel - OMG - that is outrageous OMG!
Too much attention. told not to come back. I don't know what to say. Have you found somewhere else to take her swimming?

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coppertop · 19/01/2005 11:07

Pixel - Too much attention????!!!

pixel · 19/01/2005 12:17

For a while I would take her in the normal pool while her friend was in the teaching pool having the lesson which meant that at least they could play together afterwards. Then her friend went on holiday and when she came back she could swim like a fish so didn't need the lessons anyway! So it was ok (sort of)but really knocked dd's confidence which was the opposite of what I was trying to achieve. I haven't been able to bring myself to look for any more formal lessons but I take dd myself when I get a chance and just have fun. Trouble is, I'm not that brave in the water myself and was trying to avoid passing that on to dd iykwim.

Funnily enough, although my experience of taking an nt child (dd) for swimming lessons was such a disaster, I took ds to the ducklings class with no bother. They were quite happy for him to carry on there and weren't at all concerned about his sn. It was my decision to stop because the gap between his understanding of the games and nursery rhymes, and that of the babies much younger than him was getting wider and beginning to upset me. Ds is just as happy in the normal pool and we get in for free with his compass card!

Marina · 20/01/2005 15:54

Pixel, we have a quite "needy" SN child in ds' swimming class. I think it is great he is there, is making progress, and it would not occur to me to COMPLAIN about the bit of extra help he sometimes needs. FGS

InternationalGirl · 20/01/2005 22:22

TC - well done for your Mum!! We need a lot more people out there setting the record straight to eliminate some of the ignorance out there! Thank you to your Mum for stepping up.

Blossomhill · 20/01/2005 22:31

How lovely of your mum do to do that Thomcat
It's just such a shame she had to in the first place IYKWIM!

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