Ds5 is 10, year 6. He has autism, pica, emotional development delay (7 years behind chronological age). Gets high rate care, low rate mobility dla. Primary school are struggling with him. He gets elsa and has 1-1 support most of the time. At the beginning of the day I have to wait in the playground and I hand ds directly to the teacher and the reverse happens at the end of the day. When the children leave the classroom, ds is at the front of the line holding the teachers hand. Despite all this support, mostly from the school budget, there has been a number of times over the years where the head teacher has had to get a ladder out and retrieve ds from up a tree, and once from the school roof.
The LA refused to assess ds for an ehcp in April this year. School were livid and the decision was overturned at mediation. Everything was going really well and the LA put everything DS needed in section F. Full time 1-1, elsa, salt, ot etc. Really good. We went to the open day at secondary school and it was all good, ds loved it. The senco was really helpful, said she would love to have ds but he needs a lot of support, including a full time 1-1 for his own safety. The LA did the draft ehcp. All was good until the LA asked the secondary school if they would take ds with less than a quarter of the money needed to provide the things listed in section F. School replied with no, not unless the LA fund the place properly. Then the LA sent us the final ehcp with the secondary school named for September. I rang the LA and asked if they had agreed with the school about the money. The person from the LA said no, they didn't have to do that yet.
I was talking to someone I know who has dc with ehcp's and who also works in learning support and she said it's really common and the LA will probably budge a bit with the funding but not much. Then the school will limp along trying to care for ds until he inevitably gets excluded because of lack of supervision. Then another school will be offered more funding than the first school to take him.
Apart from all this being upsetting for ds, I don't want him to go to another school because he's been excluded. I want him to go to the school we chose, which is our catchment school and where 2 of his brothers go with the proper funding.
At the moment I have children in 3 different schools and it's extremely difficult. Next year 2 of the dc will move on and it will still be 3 schools. I can't do this with 4 schools, especially for no reason other than the LA trying to save money.