hello,
My DD 4 has just started reception, has an EHCP, it doesnt state 1:1 but has a higher banding. The SENCO has assigned her a 1:2 TA to work with her and another child with VERY different needs.
I have never met her, not been formally introduced, not aware of how qualified she is to work with a child with my DD needs - shes a parent in the school with a child in another reception class. I am forbidden fromc immunicating with her about DD outside school - she never approaches me, never speaks to me and i have asked to meet her a few times and been ignored.
Begrudgingly they have started a communication book with me for daily updates - they are horrible and negative, 'DD doent sit still, doesnt like reading, doesnt listen doesnt focus, isnt happy' - really negative, unhelpful comments where i can clearly see this TA cannot engage my child. mi expect them to say things like 'she needed extra breaks, we tried xyz to engage her, etc' vs almost like blaming my child because a bunch of supposedly qualified adults couldnt get her to focus over an entire school day
my DD has had a 1:1 therapist coming to the house for over a year who has successfully managed to engage her, do phonics numbers etc because hse is qualified, learns how my child is and works on her strengths.
I am in the process of going to tribunal for the EHCP content with a set of great professionals i am paying for to assess her and actually have a document thats not only reflective of her needs but also with strategies iand provisions in place for her.
I want to hear from other parents thier experience with a bad TA and what they did or if its reasonable to ask for her to be changed, I will do so at tribunal by evidencing how unqualified she is.
any thoughts or similar experiences.