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MrsGren · 18/10/2016 10:55

We recently attended an open morning for this school but it was on a weekend so the school wasn't in operation so didn't see the school in action. We hope to organise a taster day for our son but wondered if anyone has a DS there or knows more about it first hand? Thanks.

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user1467480231 · 15/02/2017 20:55

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Shaz5875 · 16/02/2017 09:25

Dear All as normal none of you can bare the someone has something good to say about the school ...... you thing that I am a rat and condescending ....... you don't want to hear about anyones good experiences you just want to bully people into to what you think ..... well done .... I can assure you that I am a parent of a boy at Slindon and can say I have had a very positive experience but because none of you want to believe it I am going to withdraw from this very small minded chat and if any one of you want to think that I am a rat and slindon college is passing off as a Mum, you all could not be further from the truth and as for user1467480231 you don't even have a son at the school ..... so I think you are the RAT.

If anyone wants to stop hiding behind their fake names and want to know the truth that I am a genuine parent I am at the school most Thursdays picking up my son as he goes to an after school class, so if you feel the need to prove who I am please feel free to come and meet me, but of cause you all want to believe that I'm a rat because as we all know there could not be anything good to say. Well there are a lot of parents out there that do have good things to say about the school, but would not say it here because none of you want to listen unless it is bad, so I have said my bit now you can all go back you your bad comments and keep everyone happy as I seem to have upset everyone with the truth, but as we know user146780231 you just want to repeat what you have hear you do not know the truth as yours is all hear say, so love the fact that you want to make me out as the bad guy, very small minded of you that a parent might have so thing good to say .......... same your not a parent!!!Sad

Mike8791 · 16/02/2017 11:35

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Shaz5875 · 17/02/2017 14:08

It is a shame that user1467480231 does not have a son at this college and please note I am not a RAT an is it a shame that you think that anyone that has something positive to say is a RAT. I am a parent and happy to introduce myself if you want to come out from hiding behind a fake name. I think it is you that hides behind untruth's and therefore should not comment unless you know the truth .....

People on hear want to hear the negatives you don't want to hear the positive because we are condescending ..... but there are a lot of parents that have good things to say as well..... and it is about everyone sharing the truth and not lies and letting everyone make there own choices ... which is why I posted in the first place because I could not believe some of the lies that some of the people had posted ..... Sad

user1487437536 · 18/02/2017 17:48

I have had the pleasure of being associated with Slindon College for over 8 years. In a professional capacity. I have worked with students and trained staff. I can honestly say that this small specialist school has staff as good as I have ever met. They are willing and able to go the extra mile to allow students regardless of the abilities of learning difficulty to reach beyond their potential. Every year the academic team calculates the value added (in terms of subject grade improvement) for each student. The results are outstanding. If you are going to look at this school please ask about 'value added'. If you are a parent with a son who is not coping in mainstream, it will blow your socks off!

I have also been involved with students who have been placed in Slindon when they should not have been. Over the past few years, the school has admitted a handful of students, whose needs profile do not really fit the school. Whose fault is this? Previous schools do not always choose to tell the whole story, especially if they are keen to move a student on; education authorities are bound by law to take into account parents wishes and so place in an inappropriate setting rather than arguing yet another tribunal: parents have often fought long and hard for their voices to be heard and for their sons to be educated, but some cannot give up the fight and so don't work with the school; last be not least is the school itself. The nature of Slindon College is to help the individual, to try and see beyond the obvious, this means that on occasions they make mistakes in their admittance. Some boys do not fit and their needs are not fulfilled, but they a are in a small minority, the vast majority of Slindon Colleges student body leave with a raft of qualifications, experiences, friends and confidence that was way beyond their and their parents hopes.

Lets not forget what a school is for: preparing young people to face the challenges of adult life with as much skill and confidence as possible. Like many other schools, Slindon achieves this and more because of the skill and dedication of it's staff.

anglegrinder · 19/02/2017 12:36

I too am riddle with guilt and at last feel I must add something to this discussion. The guilt I feel is from letting a few people slander a good school. I am very impressed with the way mumsnet have dealt with the trolling behavior of some and I am impressed that Shaz has got the ball rolling so people with son's at Slindon can join in without fear of nasty reprisals.
My son has been at Slindon College for 3 years. He has had his troubles, my wife and I have had 'meetings' with various staff members! But he has Asperger's as do many at that school and as we all know simple things can be difficult.
However. my son is happy, responsive and most importantly looking forward to a future. He says he's going to be a biology teacher, so he can make people laugh and look down microscopes or he's going to be a computer games designer so he can play games before anyone else!
Pipe dreams for some people but a huge step from not responding positively to anything or anyone.
If you are looking for a supportive caring environment that changes lives for the better, give it a go.

user1483438193 · 27/02/2017 08:17

I would like to say that my experience is fact not lies. My son has been at Slindon for quite a few years now and I can tell you I am spending more time and energy this year just picking up the pieces because the specialist service is becoming hit and miss and academically he is starting to slip. I am worried but with pastoral head not being there anymore and everyone else very busy, it is hard to see where this is going. Only 2 weeks ago, yet another senior member of staff disappeared - Head of Maths this time. Sorry if they are sick, but there is no communication from the school, what is going to happen to our DS and his GCSE? The teachers that are left seem to be more interested in Disneyland smiles than actually talking and doing something to help. It is all very frustrating - this is not the school my son started with such high hopes.

Mike8791 · 04/03/2017 12:05

I agree with you. I expect this will be deleted as you're accused of being a liar if you're not happy. I would love to be one of the happy customers who could write a lovely review. Didn't go looking for the poor service we received. They had all the info from our son's previous school and from us. The senco enthused about all they could put in place but it just didn't happen. The relationship broke down when the policy from their side was to either say they were doing things they weren't, say she'd look into things and didn't get back to us, be generally vague and blame colleagues or just not reply at all. She also was "off sick" for weeks on end and nobody covering. This was our experience. It was not what we signed up to. Glad we've gone.

Username1000 · 05/03/2017 14:07

User'536, I have read your comments with interest and I applaud your honesty. I actually think you have summed up brilliantly the school's Achilles heel. I would agree, Slindon by its very caring nature seems to be a place that would like to help everyone if it could, but sadly in reality this is a naive and impossible dream. What you have said confirms my thoughts that it appears to be the screening process for new applicants that needs to be a lot more thorough and robust, for the sake of the school's (good) reputation, for the realistic hopes of prospective pupils and their families, and also for the sake of the students already attending. If the paperwork is not being disclosed by a pupil's previous school or indeed being played down by the parents for whatever reason, perhaps it should set alarm bells ringing? Perhaps Slindon should insist on more in depth professional reports or carry out more specific rigorous assessments of its own? Maybe the trial period should be longer before the full offer of a place made? I wholeheartedly agree the school is able to provide an excellent differentiated curriculum and there are a lot of excellent points about the school. The "value added" you mention User'536, being another more recent introduction in the reporting system to help track academic progress, but my personal belief is it is vital that the "whole" student is evaluated rather than just the accompanying paperwork based on academic assessments.

I am sure that every parent viewing Slindon has been blown away by the place. My wife and I certainly were. It's impressive. The beautiful grounds and tranquil surroundings, the animals, the very warm and professional personalised tour..... first impressions can not fail to impress so naturally parents feel they've struck gold and would like a place for their son. User'536, you are correct, the 2014 Children and Families Act has given parental preference for a school a lot more legal weight when requesting provision from the Local Authority. It is vital therefore that prospective families who are looking to have this school (or any school for that matter) named on an EHCP are aware what the LA duties actually are and should familiarise themselves with the 2014 SEND code of practice. If Slindon was a maintained school and within the remit of the local authority what you have said would be totally correct and Slindon would be obliged to accept whoever the Local Authority decided. But, Slindon is an independent school and when I last checked, is not section 41 [of children and families act 2014] approved. This enables the school to reserve the right to accept or decline to admit a student based entirely on its own criteria and is under zero obligation to admit pupils it doesn't feel are suitable. If the school declines to offer a place, there is no case for tribunal. The LA can not force acceptance of a pupil if the school declines to be named. Obviously once placed formally, a legally binding contract is in place .....The school should therefore be exercising the right to say no if it feels a student is unsuitable to save his family the anguish and the school the horror of being given a very public thrashing on the internet if things go wrong, which sadly seems to be exactly what has happened here. It may well be very tempting to accept a student who is accompanied by higher fees that the authority might be willing to pay, but unless the needs can be met or the student will fit in, it's a dangerous policy to admit first and worry later if things do start to go wrong, especially when parents have such high hopes. The same applies to parents who choose to initially pay themselves to "get in the door" and hope to fight for Local Authority funding later. It's a tricky game to play, so you too need to be sure it is the right place for your son. I feel the school should also make it VERY clear to those who's son doesn't have an EHCP what is actually included - is everything on the published local offer available to all as core provision or just "available"? Again, better assessments and clarity on entry to save any escalating school fees or not receiving what they thought they would be getting. Slindon should be concentrating on doing an outstanding job of meeting the needs of the children, which to be fair, in many cases it does, and in some areas even goes beyond expectations. Ok, there will always be one or two where it just doesn't work out. That's life and it happens at every school. All you can hope for then is for school to deliver excellent customer service so people aren't walking out of the door hell-bent on revenge or whatever it is that has just gone on here and other such websites. So much grief could be avoided if communication was better as people have already said. It is my opinion that some internal self analysis is definitely required on behalf of the school. Especially those in the Leadership Team dealing with the area of specialist support. You HAVE to get it right. In any other business someone would be held accountable for the high number of unhappy customers who are saying they haven't received what they were expecting. There are of course many who are delighted with the school, with good reason. I would like to be reading more of these experiences. Believe me, when I say bad press is the very last thing I want to read about the school my son attends. It causes a lot of worry. I don't want my son's school to have a bad name, it doesn't look good on anyone, least of all my son's CV, especially as he is presently applying to further educational colleges. I hope the school will look to address the issues and not be in denial that something needs to be done about it. It is a real shame as actually, if it could only sort itself out it has so much good to offer and serves a lot of families very well, including our son, who we have high hopes for in obtaining the predicted grades when he sits his exams later this year.

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hbeh278 · 26/12/2017 12:04

Ok some of you who are accusing people of putting fake negative comments and hiding fake names behind the computer screens, how about this I'm Howard Beh and I am an ex student in slindon college, I left the school only a year after being there. All of the negative comments in this chat that I have read thru about the school is just so true and the exact experience that I had witnessed and gone thru or worse. I might be the only person who has the balls to expose my name out because I feel like I must expose the truth what the school really was like and even today in university i still reflect my negative time in slindon, although some staff members said I would never make it to university and a failure if I leave slindon when I'd announced to leave or said i would not cope in other mainstream schools, but turns out leaving was the best decision of my student life. I still have many anger for that school today as it have affected my family life and schooling life for a year.
thanku

hbeh278 · 26/12/2017 12:32

for those of you staff members I'm not pointing fingers, sees my comments please do not use the term , I brought my university placement. because saying that

A. my parents are not rich enough to buy a uni placement for me or any learning insitutes.
B. saying such things is very unprofessional and very low common sense for a staff member to say that to a student behind their parents back or showing off about it to students.
c. reflect on why yu as a school recieve so many negative comments if yu do see the comments, such as getting the basics of student equity from staff members right.

counselsadvice · 02/04/2018 22:30

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Divadnebniaws · 06/12/2024 11:29

Sorry but Nicholas Pinney or Nick Pinney was a bully and should never have been a teacher in his life, I was at that school in the 80s and the man took a lot of pleasure at picking on some kids. Looking back I see what a pathetic inadequate person he was. I could write a book about him and the way he treated some kids

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