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Preparing to start school in September: As usual I need your wisdom!

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coppertop · 06/03/2004 19:50

Next week I'll be going to a meeting about ds1 starting school in September. Also at the meeting will be ds1's playgroup staff, the Early Years worker, our lovely SALT, the SENCO, the primary school Head, and possibly one of the Reception class teachers. This will be an ideal opportunity for me to bring up any potential problems that ds1 may have when he starts school.

I've already taken ds1 to see the inside of the school. When we first arrived he got a little bit overwhelmed and just lay down on the floor. No tantrums or screaming or anything like that. Luckily this happened while the Reception teacher was in the same room so she's had a small idea of how he reacts when things get too much.

The teachers were surprised at how 'normal' he seemed and said how good it had been to finally get to meet him. I also had a chance to look around the Reception classroom to see if there were any potential problems. The only real problems I could see was the fact that they had a computer in the room (ds1 is almost obsessive about them and will quite happily log on to ours and then re-arrange all the settings) and that they had a Noisy Corner (Ds1 has hypersensitive hearing). Apart from those things I think he will do very well there.

So, the meeting is next week and it's been so long since I was at school ( ) that I'm finding it hard to think of all the things he might need help with. What particular problems do your ds's/dd's have in a school environment? How are they resolved or how do you WISH they were resolved? Is there anything else I should mention during the meeting? HELP!!!

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coppertop · 12/03/2004 11:07

I think what I'll do is to prepare a request letter using the IPSEA model. If the Early Years service haven't actually done anything or have left it to the school then I can post the letter on the same day. If they HAVE put in a request already I will ask for/demand (See! I'm already evolving into a Pushy Parent! ) a copy of their request letter and the date they sent it. (Thanks Davros!)

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KPB · 13/03/2004 22:10

Coppertop - As you probably know I am often on the spd.parents site. Anyway Babs has added this to her site which is basically about teaching children with asd. When I saw it today I thought of you as it seems very interesting:-
spdparents.members.easyspace.com/teachasd.html
Hope it is of some use.

coppertop · 13/03/2004 22:32

KPB - I've just been to look at the site and it's brilliant! I might be joining you on your regular visits to the SPD site.

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KPB · 14/03/2004 11:43

Glad to hear you like it Coppertop. The people on the forum board are lovely as well!!!

mrsforgetful · 14/03/2004 14:55

can i 'kidnap' it too!!!!? DH is cross with me at the moment as he reckons i am now saying ds2 has SPLD not ASD....i have given up explaining the spectrum!!!!

KPB · 14/03/2004 18:19

Fine by me, there is probably going to be a rush of mumsnetters. In my situation I read a really good article by Heathmount on SPd. It was a life-changing moment because it was like reading about my daughter. Have you read it MrsF, it's brilliant. We had read up on asd,autism and ahdh and dd never really fitted the criteria. Read this article and lol because I had finally found out what was wrong with dd. The good thing about spd is that it is a developmental disorder that improves greatly with age and according to the article the children "Blend into the realms of normality" and "maybe slightly eccentric" which I can deal with. Spd children are also the most sociable on the spectrum so that explains why dd is sociable. It all made sense. Anyway here is the link for that article:-
www.hyperlexia.org/sp1.html
Most people that I have spoken to have said that it was this article that set the alarm bells ringing. Hope this helps!!!

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