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help!!! Special schools advice please....

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nutmeg · 27/04/2006 18:27

Went to see two units today. One was an ASD unit and one was a Language unit. The Language unit was lovely. I don't know that will meet ds's every need as the visual element isn't that evident. He has a diagnosis of ASD but most of his difficulties centre round Sp and L rather than other issues , so Lang unit was thought very appropriate. The hour I spent at the ASD unit was one of the most depressing I have ever had. I felt the children were 'contained'! There was no obvious organisation, the displays were non existant and there were a few activities lying around. I wanted to go in and say "let me paint this room and do some art work of any sort with the children and then mount it nicely and put it on the walls". The teachers seemed to be slumped and going through the motions. Please, tell me that there are other places that might be good to look at for a boy with ASD tendencies but no behavioural issues. Perhaps it is a case of go with the lang unit and provide the visual timetables, etc, myself... Or maybe there are some great mainstream schools out there??? Don't want to put the area at this point.

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Davros · 29/04/2006 11:14

Hmmm, its very hard, why do we have to decide at this age when its all still happening? The thing is that all our children, esp those on a good ABA prog, make a LOT of progress at the beginning but it does slow down as they get older, there's less to learn and less new things to introduce iyswim. We were offered a place at DS's ABA school when he was 4 and we turned it down! It was a huge risk and everyone thought we were mad... but we could continue with home prog and p/t m/s with shadow. By the time he was 6 we were sure that m/s would not be suitable and we didn't want him stuck at home for the rest of his (our!) life. He was getting institutionalised at home, esp as he was an only child. All the children I know who've gone to m/s with proper fulltime shadow and good interaction with home have managed well in primary but none have continued into secondary. Maybe it is worth taking that leap and going for m/s with shadow but then you'd have to think about what if you lost, you might end up at m/s with LSA (although I know someone this happened to having lost tribunal and the LSA was great and it worked well!). WHat if you started at m/s and then wanted special school? Not necessarily because it has totally failed but maybe she gets to a stage where she's not getting anything out of it.... would that be an option in the future? Very hard decisions.

Socci · 29/04/2006 11:44

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sphil · 29/04/2006 17:11

Davros - lol at 'little oddbod' - that describes him exactly!
I have a very dim question. If your child has a statement, can you choose a particular special school, even if it's in a different LEA? I've just been talking on the phone to a woman who runs a local special needs nursery and she's been singing the praises of a school in the next LEA. Her son has been going there since he was 4 - now 15 - and sounds very very similar to DS2: passive, compliant, dyspraxic, few behavioural probs etc etc. Do you get a choice out of area?

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Davros · 29/04/2006 18:37

DS's school used to be in our borough but moved to a neighbouring borough a year and a half ago. I was worried about the move but there were no problems as far as LEA/Statement/Transport were concerned. In both locations the school is FULL of out-of-borough kids and quite a number in-borough in both locations iyswim. The admission criteria state that you must live in the same borough as the school OR within an hour's drive (and that's in London so could be a LONG way elsewhere). HTH
P.S. glad you weren't offended by Little Oddbod! I did think twice about putting it.

sphil · 29/04/2006 19:48

That's very useful - thanks both of you.

Jimjamskeepingoffvaxthreads · 29/04/2006 21:07

ds1's mainstream school was in a different LEA. Didn't cause any problems.

nutmeg · 01/05/2006 18:31

Been away, so just read the last 25 messages all in one go! So can't remember anything but very very interesting. I am thinking of seeing whether ds can go to the lang unit for 4 days a week and mainstream school for 1 day. He would need an LSA for that one day. (or 2 afternoons) Do you think the LEA might accept an idea like that?

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Davros · 02/05/2006 20:58

In theory they should at least entertain the idea. But maybe you should get some advice from IPSEA or somewhere before proposing it?

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