Chattee - This might be a daft question, but have the LEA definately issued the final statement and not their final version of the proposed statement? The final statement should be signed, dated and have a placement confirmed in Pt4. The letter sending the final statement should have included information about your right of appeal. If the LEA have issued the final statement they should have consulted with the preschool before confiming the placement in Pt4 - do you know how the preschool responded?
Sounds like a good plan to discuss with the preschool asap at the beginning of term before deciding to appeal - you could, however, lodge your appeal now to get the ball rolling, and then withdraw the appeal if it becomes apparant that your dd is doing fine with the support put in. Timing might be a bit tight, but if you lodged the appeal in a couple of weeks then by the time you are asked to submit your evidence, she will have been there for a couple of weeks, and you will also have had a chance to talk to the preschool. I think your approach is the best way forward, but if you are pretty confident that you will be appealing, then that's another option to think about.
How about asking for the interim review to be brought forward to the October half term?
Difficult to tell about what the LEA officer was saying - did you get the impression that he was genuine?. I know I'm not going to express this very well so please don't shoot me down - but it can be difficult for LEAs to get schools to play their part in inclusion. (I know there are massive issues about LEA's, funding etc etc etc, but just trying to raise a different point about schools!). School's can sometimes view SEN children as being 'outside' of their school population and need to be encouraged to think flexibly about how their staffing can be used to meet the needs of children with statements - they can tend to think that SEN automatically means 100% support for that particular child, which can then result in that child not getting his/her fair share of the resources that should be normally be available to them within the school ie SENCO, classteacher, classroom assistant support.
If your dd is getting 7 hours per week, then that's just over 1 hour per day that she will not have a dedicated support worker. She will still have access during that time to the other members of staff. Planning is obviously going to be key here - would the nuresery be able to structure the session so that she is either able to be supported by one of the nursery's own staff during that time, or doing things that she can do without support, and do the stuff that she finds challenging during the time that she has the assistant. Is she vocal? Would she be able to alert one of the staff members if she needs assistance to move between activities or go to the toilet?
Sorry, didn't intend to come back with a heap of questions! Given that you can't talk to the preschool between now and September it might be best to try and decide your plan of action for then and then try and put it to the back of your head for August and revisit this thread then!
Hope you are coping OK with this heat - I cannot even begin to imagine what it must be like being pregnant at the moment!