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Credit-crunching Christmas - please may we have your survival tips?

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AbbyMumsnet · 15/10/2008 09:59

What with the end of the world being nigh and all, it's struck us that what the cosmos needs right now is a selection of your finely-honed tips on surviving Christmas during a financial meltdown. Obviously, we don't mean we want your tips on how to save the banking system- although Gordon might - but we are after ideas on how to make the most expensive month of the year slightly less painful.

(Don't worry about suggesting swapping Krug for Prosecco. We've already got that one covered.)

Cheers all.

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overthehill · 04/11/2008 00:41

Do people really buy new decorations each year??? One of the things I love about Christmas is getting out the boxes of decorations as they're part of the history of our current family - and even that of past generations eg we have tree decorations that I and dh had as children as well as those we have collected over the years, and they all bring back such memories! We always buy a real tree (one of those non-shedding ones) and the dc's love decorating it with the gradually increasing numbers of baubles etc and old sets of lights (which we have to remember to check before the shops close on Christmas Eve as we put up our tree as late as possible).

Re stockings: a tradition in dh's family is to put a bauble in the stocking to hang on the Christmas tree, but I must say, I'm very surprised about the pants: firstly that so many people receive(d)/give them and that nearly everyone talks about pants rather than knickers as we're knicker-people! Stockings always contain a clementine and some chocolate coins, plus a few silly things eg from Hawkin's Bazaar and a few essentials (eg gloves, facecloth - but no knickers...)

We're vegetarians and it's about the only time in the year when we have a nut roast. It doesn't cost a fortune and we make our own pudding and cake: traditionally ds and dh do this at half term (tho' puddings only every other year as one goes in the attic), and this duly happened last week. We always set the pudding alight, but cheap brandy burns just as well as more expensive stuff...

Unlike most other people, I've not even started thinking about presents, but we do have a 'present cupboard', into which goes stuff we pick up during the year as well as unwanted but re-usable gifts, and we write a list of people and try and match up as many gifts as we can to people on the list. We also have a huge box of used wrapping paper that has been removed carefully from last year's presents and can be reused, and we cut up old Christmas cards to make name labels.

We've been using Freecycle a lot recently and have acquired some bargains to replace broken items (eg 3 kitchen chairs, an easy chair, a CD player, a liquidiser, an electric kettle and a Sodastream so we can make our own fizzy water). In theory this should mean that we have a bit more money left to buy presents - when we finally get round to doing so. My ds unfortunately has 2 job-share teachers, but they'll probably get home-made cakes, and Grandma will get Historic Houses Association membership so we can take her with us to several of the stately homes round here for free - and, I think, get a free gift ourselves. Last year I ordered her some posh frozen meals from a website someone had recommended on Mumsnet and that went down really well (pardon the pun!).

The dc's?? Don't have a clue, and we have the added problem that dd's (13th) birthday is two weeks before Christmas. Some clothes may be in order and possibly an MP3 player; no ideas for ds yet, but no doubt inspiration will come...

GinghamRibbon · 04/11/2008 02:08

I have not read the whole thread but MP's 'we would prefer a bottle of wine than a goat' really made me laugh.

Someone was asking the other day what they should buy someone who has everything and I said 'buy them a goat'. He thought it was a good idea until he realised that it wasn't a frozen goat that they could put in their freezer. I wet myself.

scattyspice · 04/11/2008 08:29

My tips:

Do Xmas don't buy it.

Get present buying over and done with in Nov then you can forget about it (toiletries for ladies, wine/food for men, 1 gift for DCs and stocking).

Make Xmas decs with DCs and trot out same Decs every year (nostalgia value).

Meal plan for all main meals so that you know what food to buy.

Go to local Am dram panto (ours if fabulous!)

If in doubt get smaller stockings and a small tree (and small diner plates if need be LOL).

Visit friends and family and play silly games.

Get Xmas in perspective when DCs are small then they have more reasonable expectations when older.

Keep calm, relax and have fun .

melrose · 04/11/2008 09:42

If you haven't got it don't spend it!! Chrstmas is about spendong time as a family not receiving shed loads of expensive gifts.

Little uns do not know the price of anything, my 4 yr old DS would be as happy with a jigsaw as a huge £50 toy.

Never let little kids watch anything other than Cbeebies/ Cbbc, therefore no ads and no "i want that"!!

We have asome family friends who are all extremely well of and could spend a fortune on each other. They don't. They set a limit taht you have to spend no more than £10 on each other (grown ups) and no more than £50 on the kids. They say it is far more fun seeing how far you can stretch the £10 and gets ridd of all the ridiculous exchange of things you don't want!!

zazen · 04/11/2008 10:43

I agree with Eniddo.
Set a budget and stick to it.

I'm going to do Xmas for 200 quid this year.
All in pressies food and wine.

I did it for 300 last year - I'm self employed, so credit crunch is a perma feature in my house

I buy subscriptions to national geographic for near and dears, and make our own cards.

I'm also thinking of supporting my fav charity endfistula.org and buying cesarean sections again this year, and telling everyone that's what their pressie is.

Dalrymps · 04/11/2008 11:39

My dh is thinking of buying some cheap canvasses and painting pics of family for them, eg pic of bil's baby daughter etc. You would have to be artistic for that one I guess though.

captainmummy · 04/11/2008 12:20

Haven't read tha whole thread but my biggest tip is - don't have a huge present-buying circle. We don;t buy for brothers/sisters/other adults who can feasibly buy their own tat. We only buy for neices/nephews and my/dh mum. DH will have a max of £50 for something he needs, ditto for me.

Don;t buy masses of food - one big turkey (frozen) will cover most of the meals over the 3-4 days in our house. I laugh when I see menu-ideas for chrismas ie christmas eve dinner - salmon. christmas dinner - turkey. Boxing day - Ham. Day after boxing day - lamd/pork/chicken casserole (because we are all fed up with turkey WTF?) .

And don't buy mince pies, no-one eats them, it's only because they are THERE! Ditto chocs/nuts/sweets/peanuts.

RedSparklersOnHerHead · 04/11/2008 13:11

overthehill, why do you put puddings in the attic? or am i just being thick and everyone does this???

This year we have bought the DC's presents from a catalogue, it's a little bit more ecpensive, but it allows you to pay interest free over 20 weeks. Plus I had £50 in commission, so that helped a lot!

Plus, our 6mth old is too young to understand about christmas, so he is getting essentials wrapped up - vests, sleepsuits, clothes etc... and just a few toys (he has all DS1's toys from when he was a baby, so he doesn't really need anything.

I'm very lucky that my MIL does all the cooking over the christmas period, right up until 2nd Jan! So we don't have to buy any extras WRT food!

RedSparklersOnHerHead · 04/11/2008 13:12

ecpensive? Oh you know what I mean!

overthehill · 05/11/2008 23:00

RSOHH, we have a Mrs Beeton recipe that makes multiple puddings and in spite of having halved the quantities, we still end up with two or three. So we keep one for Christmas and save the other(s) for subsequent years, by which time they become deliciously mature and almost black. The secret is to make sure that you put in enough alcohol to preserve them which, together with the alcohol we use to set them alight, makes them ultra-tasty!

nappyaddict · 15/12/2008 14:32

TMH - how do you make your own crackers?

jingleMAMADIVAsbells · 15/12/2008 14:46

We buy the £3 for 6 make your own crackers in tesco and fill them with little treats that everyone will like. Costs about £8 all in but much better than crap that's in normal crackers.

nappyaddict · 15/12/2008 14:53

do they still bang when you pull them?

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