good old fashioned budgeting and amke do and mend. helps if your DH does not have a hi tech gadget habit
menu planning
using pulses to bulk out chillis and spag bol, lentils are my new favourite thing!
using all odd bits of veg for frittata and soup
asking yourself 'do i really need this or do i just want it?'
tell yourself that you are being eco friendly by not buying stuff, rather than it is because of the --recession- credit crunch, it is slightly less scary that way !
don;t be fooled into buy two get a third free, if you don;t need the items in the first place.. same for BOGOFs etc.. buy what you need and use!
be religious about coupons and money saving vouchers, keep them in your purse, they are no good stuck to the fridge !
buying bargains out of season is not that great... a pair of reduced sandals might feel like a bargain now, but won;t be next summer, when they are not in fashion
swop baby sitting favours with friends
but do have one small treat a week, everyone needs to forget their troubles for a short spell.... buy a starbucks coffee once a week instead of every day, ditto magazines . a bar of decent green and blacks chocolate once a week . something that will make you feel happy and uplifted
probably what everyone else has said, but not read whole thread!