@moglet4 You said that a (state) school can implement sanctions because parents sign a contract. No, that's nonsense: these agreements that state schools want parents to sign mean nothing, and the ability to impose sanctions doesn't derive from that, but from the fact that the law allows schools to apply certain punishments for children who break their rules.
The fact that you worked in a school doesn't change any of that.
The school would be in its legal right to apply the same sanction to a child whose parents signed the agreement and to one whose parents didn't.
I don't mean to be antagonistic but, sorry, facts are facts. It's not because parents sign an agreement that schools can implement sanctions. That's wrong, and your experience in a school doesn't change any of that. If you thought that, you are wrong. If the headteacher told you that, they were wrong.
That's what I meant when I said I did not trust you: you said something which was clearly wrong.
Now, if you want to say that the parents who refuse to sign the agreements are more likely to not care about discipline etc, yes, I can see that, but that is a separate argument.
The long and short of it is, if you’re not going to support the school then pick another school more in line with your beliefs, home school or ensure your child behaves even though they’re unprepared for the lesson and don’t moan if they eventually have poor outcomes.
Well, here we need to distinguish between i) strict but fair discipline and ii) strict and batshit crazy. Schools like Mossbourne, Holland Park etc fall in the latter category.
And, on choice: not every family has a choice.
Also, as I said in my long-running thread about Mossbourne: some families have a choice not to send their children there, but as taxpayers we do not have a choice not to fund these schools. These schools are funded entirely by the taxpayers but are accountable to no one - not even the department of Education can overturn their decisions. The matter has been discussed at length in my thread on Mossbourne.