@ParentOfOne
Their behaviour went beyond "well-behaved". The kids from the other two schools were what I thought well-behaved teenagers should be like.
The Mossbourne group's behaviour (not as a reflection of the kids individual) made a lot of staff a bit...uncomfortable.
Kids move, they fidget, they raise their hands, they look at their friends, they look at their teacher. There was none of that from the Mossbourne group. That's why I remember it.
The more I think about what I witnessed, the more I think the media articles are not exaggerating or talking about isolated incidents. This happened years before the expose.
I think behaviour policy is really important in schools. If the kids are consistently misbehaving you cannot teach and they cannot learn. However there is a difference between having a good behavioural policy and exerting control through fear.
Personally, I had a really bad experience in primary school. Our school's ethos was that being late was a sin. I had to go to the emergency dentist one morning and my parents forgot to inform the school. I was drag up onto the stage at assembly because I was late, and shouted out for 10 minutes in front of the whole school. The staff member (always the same person) made derogatory comments about my habits, my personality, my abilities. I spent the rest of the day shaking and my break time crying the toilet ( I was not allowed to cry in lessons, or I would lose my break time).
This was the standard procedure for all late comers. I witnessed it almost every week and I thought it was normal. Bear in mind some late comers are children in reception and they got the same treatment.
I spent a lot of time as child wondering why it upset me so much. Every other late comer seemed to just get on with their life, why couldn't I?
Now as an adult I realise just what a terrible thing it was to do to a 9 year old girl. I feel awful that the school staff just went along with this, I cannot fathom what was going on inside the minds of the adults in that room.
I still have anxiety and I am generally an anxious person. I went to a nurturing secondary school and it really helped me. I do always wonder what kind of person I would be if this never happened to me.
The things I have read about Mossbourne really disturb me because I wonder what kind of psychological impact those policies will have on the young people for the rest of their lives.