@Boldly you are most welcome. I stand by every single word, and I explained why.
Have you ever seen first hand the impact toxic environments can have on the mental health of adults?
Have you ever seen a loved one reduced to an emotional wreck, unable to sleep eat function? The thought that this is being done to children doesn't let me sleep.
You seem to be one of those people who'll never understand until and unless it happens to them - at this point I even wonder if it happening to a loved one would be enough for you to understand.
Not 10, not 100, but ca 200 people come forward, and your reaction is.... to praise the school because it worked for you?
By the same logic, should we praise those organisation which worked for 90% of their employees because they abused only 10%?
Should sexual abuse in the Churches not be a big deal because the same churches have also helped many people, too? Do you realise how despicable this logic of yours sounds?
Tell me: did you sit down with your children? Did you ask them if anything like that happened maybe not to them but to others?
How would you react if they told you they haven't been emotionally abused but others have?
The letter is bull also because it implies that these draconian methods are necessary to achieve good academic results. They are not! There is no consensus nor any research by experts that they are, while there is significant research on the negative, nefarious consequences of needlessly draconian environments.
Also tell me: what do these policies achieve, why are they necessary, and why do you think that batshit crazy works better than strict but fair? What is achieved by shouting at children or punishing them for looking at a clock on the wall?
My life was made hell by toxic environments and bullies. I am not going to apologise for reminding others of these dangers, nor for my choice of strong words against the bullies who are responsible and the bootlicker enablers who are possibly even more responsible.