@jodeg You managed to write a wall of text without actually saying much.
You dodged the crucial questions I have been asking since the beginning: where is the peer-reviewed research on the impact and effectiveness of these methods? Why do so many people seem to think that these draconian measures are necessary, and that there is no alternative between these extremes and the other extreme of chaos and no discipline? Why do so many people fail to realise that you can and should have rules which are strict but fair instead of strict and batshit crazy?
You ask why we don't leave it to the experts and the professionals. Well, because there is no consensus among the experts, let alone no peer-reviewed research, that these methods are necessary nor useful, that's <insert expletive here> why!!!!!
A few opinionated headteachers liking these methods doesn't change that.
Again, please remember that in the past there were similarly opinionated headteachers supporting corporal punishments, and that other countries, especially in Asia, are full of similarly opinionated headteachers and families supporting very harsh methods which are in fact fuelling a mental health crisis among their young!!!
Punishing a student if they don't do their homework, are disruptive or late teaches them the importance of respecting rules and doing hard work. I will always stand by a school which punished my kids for that.
But what do students learn when they are forced to wear blazers in a heatwave, given detentions for cycling to school, shouted at, punished for looking at a clock on the wall, etc? Please, please, do explain!
I have seen, directly and indirectly, the devastating effect that toxic and bullying environments can have on people. We no longer accept that s in the workplace. Why do we accept it in schools? Having lived through that, I have the greatest contempt for bootlickers like you, who act as enablers, making these kinds of abuse possible. The greatest contempt. I can only hope you will never have to see a loved one reduced to a wreck because of these environments, but maybe you must in order to truly understand.*
If there is one thing history teaches us is that abuse can and does go on undetected for incredibly long periods of time.
How long did abuse in the Catholic Church go on for?
How long did Welby and the Anglican Church do nothing about one of the most prolific abusers?
How long di Harvey Weinstein abuse his victims?
How long did financier Crispin Odey before the truth came out?
In all these cases, the individuals/organisation were considered respected, many people wanted to join them / work with/for them etc.
Another thing history teaches us is that, once victims start coming forward, many other victims find the strength to do so. 1 disgruntled family means nothing. 100 families, 30 former students and 8-10 former teachers are a completely, completely different story.