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School fee hike - freaking out slightly

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wingingthings · 20/03/2023 20:49

I'm under no illusion that we haven’t been very lucky to be able to send our 2 children privately. However, we've done this without foreign holidays, new cars and making sacrifices- we shop at Aldi etc. Choices we've made happily and it's been fine. We also worked on the basis of 5% inflation each year. We just got the fees increase letter of 12.5%. I'm freaking out as this pushes us very close and will still have another 5 years to go. Curious as to others experiences this year??

OP posts:
Luckydip1 · 26/03/2023 12:03

There are some excellent state schools but many that really are way behind private schools, even the mediocre ones.

Lingar · 26/03/2023 12:13

Intergalacticcatharsis · 26/03/2023 08:57

Same where I live. Lots of Asian families with just 1 or max 2 child sending their DC to private schools and living in flats or small houses. White middle class families in larger houses with 3 DCs and dogs and holidays in state schools.

My point being no family or child should be put under extra pressure by government.

As for the private schools, I am sure energy and food prices have gone up massively for them. However, perhaps charter a few fewer minibuses for sports etc and start with proper cost cutting first like our state schools have done, rather than pass on everything to parents. Maybe some of the head teachers don’t need the huge whopping salary increases.

Only private schools can get visas; some Asian parents who came in the middle of the school year have no choice except for private schools. And agency always corporate with private schools to promote the programme.

Lingar · 26/03/2023 12:24

It depends on your lifestyle. Some parents prefer spending money on houses, trips and other events. Some believe the private system offers more. Many kids took private schools test as a backup for grammar schools. Private schools may have better activities or education early stages (before 11 years old). Secondary have many competitive state school options. We like to take control of our education to arrange things and drop out whenever we want more flexibly rather than lock the fees in others' hands unpredicable. Especially many outside schools are national level rather than just school-wide.

Lingar · 26/03/2023 12:34

But if you can get 30%-50% above scholarships or bursaries, go for private schools. Many people select private schools over grammar, considering discounts. But with inflation fee increases and reduced discount values, scholarships are no longer attractive. It is ROI. I do not see see the worth of full fees. My personal opinion.

WombatChocolate · 26/03/2023 13:29

I agree it’s going to be increasingly difficult and unattractive for those with very good, but not spectacular incomes to choose private education. Increasingly it will be the preserve of those who are super rich.

Those people mentioned upthread who have good but not especially super incomes who choose to live in flats rather than houses to fund school fees, or to go without huge amounts of other stuff that the affluent middle classes have who choose state education, will think twice about if it’s worth those sacrifices.

I think a good example will be teachers who work in those independent schools. Traditionally, teachers got big discounts on the school fees and many chose to send their kids to their school. They still paid perhaps £8k or more for secondary places, but felt it was worth it and just about affordable. With salaries rising much slower than inflation and big fee hikes over lots of years, they might be looking instead at fees of £14k or more with their discount…and those fees expected to keep rising substantially over time. More will decide they can’t afford it, especially for several kids, and opt out. And they are possibly the most informed about what private and state education can offer, especially if they’ve worked in both sectors.

There are too many private schools in the market at the moment. Smaller ones, single sex and those in less affluent areas will be more vulnerable to closure. Those remaining will increasingly have to offer more and more to justify the fees parents pay and to make them truly different to the free option available.

I guess that the well-off but not super rich people part way through, and especially those close to the end will grit their teeth and suck up the extra costs. But those embarking on the journey will think twice and more will decide not to do it. In some areas where there are still people queuing up for places, those schools will be fine….often larger, mixed schools in the south east. But many in other areas will already struggle to fill will find it hard and perhaps look to the international market more. Certainly the private school climate will be different in 10 years to today.

Caps0218 · 26/03/2023 14:17

TwilightSilhouette · 20/03/2023 21:41

Have a look at state schools OP. The reality is they are fine - children with supportive parents will do well wherever they go to school.
I really wouldn’t consider not having new cars or foreign holidays a sacrifice! Shopping at Aldi is not a sacrifice either, just normal.

Not really in central London….state schools are not great…..

Caps0218 · 26/03/2023 14:21

HockeyJock · 20/03/2023 21:57

Definitely don't stay wedded to the idea of private at the cost of everything else.

My dps sent us all to independent schools despite not having high incomes - the grandparents chipped in and paid for uniforms etc. I genuinely can't work out why they all felt it was so important. We never went abroad, had anxiety inducingly unreliable cars, wore hand me downs and they never bought anything for themselves. None of us has achieved anything that we couldn't have done going to the local state schools - as our peers and friends from childhood quite ably demonstrate. I would have much rather had more diverse experiences - travel, days out, theatre trips etc, and parents who weren't working all the time to cover the fees.

There is no way I would want my DC to go without family fun and experiences and foreign travel for the duration of their education. I would much rather we shared that money to enjoy time together and for a fraction of fees we can pay for any tutoring they require and they get to go to workshops and activities to follow all their interests without me committing to years of fees.

Any hard working child would do well in any setting….the reason you send kids private is simply that the state schools are not safe.
you just have to walk past a central London state school at finishing time to see how rough it is.

SleepyRooster · 26/03/2023 14:27

@Caps0218 Utterly ridiculous comment about the schools that 93% of the UK population attend. But you knew that.

CanIAskAnotherStupidQuestion · 26/03/2023 16:00

Any hard working child would do well in any setting

Thats just not true. My DS’s passions and abilities lie in science and engineering, yet his state school struggled to provide any consistent teacher across any of those subjects. The only option was private.

I guess in theory we could have withdrawn him from school and used online tutors, but I would argue that is still private.

I think people underestimate just how bad some state schools are.

(And no, we couldn’t have just changed to another state school, because we are rural and the catchment area is huge. We would have had to move house for a different state school, which would have cost more than private fees, and is just another equivalent use of privilege.)

jigsaw234 · 26/03/2023 18:18

Caps0218 · 26/03/2023 14:21

Any hard working child would do well in any setting….the reason you send kids private is simply that the state schools are not safe.
you just have to walk past a central London state school at finishing time to see how rough it is.

Any hard working child would do well in any setting

What a lovely sentiment
Not in any way grounded in reality of course, but it would be lovely to think that it was true.

Dodgeitornot · 26/03/2023 18:23

@Caps0218 Bless you. Wouldn't that be nice.

Swansong124 · 31/03/2023 16:40

I’ve been watching with interest and then we got ours….9.5%😭🙃!

wigywhoo · 31/03/2023 16:52

10% snuck out, last day of term!

CanIAskAnotherStupidQuestion · 31/03/2023 17:54

10% here too

QuiteAJourney · 31/03/2023 18:26

Any news on fees increases for GDST schools, either timing or amount? I believe that they all do it together

TizerorFizz · 31/03/2023 18:55

@WombatChocolate
Any cursory glance at the best schools in this country shows a lot are single sex. A few might go co Ed. The girls’ schools tend to do well with boys though.

MomFromSE · 31/03/2023 20:45

Sairk · 26/03/2023 11:14

Ours has only gone up by 4% for next year and I'm feeling grateful!

Interesting-- is that in London @Sairk? We haven't had our fee increase letter yet. I imagine it might be at the end of the holidays. I'd hope its not 10% as a few other posters have suggested. 10% this year plus VAT in 2025 would be more than many families can absorb so quickly.

Increasing fees above inflation was feasible when wages were growing faster than inflation. What's happening with mortgage rates, energy prices, wages etc is going to result in fewer private school pupils if fees go up universally by this much for next year.

You can see schools are already preparing to fight for bums on seats. Wimbledon High is moving its offer date to 3 months before most of the other 4+ academic schools. Westminster is introducing a 4+ intake. Well known private schools still had vacancies in their primary intake this year with lesser known ones failing / closing....

Lingar · 31/03/2023 21:42

MomFromSE · 31/03/2023 20:45

Interesting-- is that in London @Sairk? We haven't had our fee increase letter yet. I imagine it might be at the end of the holidays. I'd hope its not 10% as a few other posters have suggested. 10% this year plus VAT in 2025 would be more than many families can absorb so quickly.

Increasing fees above inflation was feasible when wages were growing faster than inflation. What's happening with mortgage rates, energy prices, wages etc is going to result in fewer private school pupils if fees go up universally by this much for next year.

You can see schools are already preparing to fight for bums on seats. Wimbledon High is moving its offer date to 3 months before most of the other 4+ academic schools. Westminster is introducing a 4+ intake. Well known private schools still had vacancies in their primary intake this year with lesser known ones failing / closing....

Also many have started to open oversea schools in other countries. After Covid, international students were reduced... It will be interesting to know what is the top private schools, especially London ones and boarding schools increase. The current rate is already £30-£45k SECONDARY...

Sairk · 31/03/2023 21:51

I don't see any drop off in demand. DS's school (Oxford) had a record number of applications for year 7. I think the pandemic caused a lot of people to really see the difference in provision. The shift in in-takes is more about protecting league tables and getting them 'in the system' earlier for some of the big names. We are a long way from a bums on seats issue in the SE and London. The rich have gotten richer. The percentage that will be squeezed out won't be that big. It's a worry if you're in that margin though.

nospoonleftbehind · 31/03/2023 21:55

Sairk · 31/03/2023 21:51

I don't see any drop off in demand. DS's school (Oxford) had a record number of applications for year 7. I think the pandemic caused a lot of people to really see the difference in provision. The shift in in-takes is more about protecting league tables and getting them 'in the system' earlier for some of the big names. We are a long way from a bums on seats issue in the SE and London. The rich have gotten richer. The percentage that will be squeezed out won't be that big. It's a worry if you're in that margin though.

I disagree that it's a small % affected. My husband and I are both on 6 figure salaries and are seriously feeling the pinch with mortgage, inflation etc. secondary won't be affected but we will no longer plan to go through to 6th form.

Sairk · 31/03/2023 22:06

@nospoonleftbehind We've been at private schools in london and Oxford and the amount relying on generational wealth rather than income is pretty big. Lots will trade down in house if they really need to if the mortgage is the squeeze. Lots of 'marginal' families have quite carefully planned the number of kids and the age gaps carefully. There's not heaps of data but we do k ow that a lot more than 7% of parents can afford fees.

nospoonleftbehind · 31/03/2023 22:09

Sairk · 31/03/2023 22:06

@nospoonleftbehind We've been at private schools in london and Oxford and the amount relying on generational wealth rather than income is pretty big. Lots will trade down in house if they really need to if the mortgage is the squeeze. Lots of 'marginal' families have quite carefully planned the number of kids and the age gaps carefully. There's not heaps of data but we do k ow that a lot more than 7% of parents can afford fees.

Definitely agree with generational and grandparents etc funding. School
Fees x 3 are just shy of £5k monthly - more than double the mortgage payments

Dodgeitornot · 31/03/2023 22:17

Lingar · 31/03/2023 21:42

Also many have started to open oversea schools in other countries. After Covid, international students were reduced... It will be interesting to know what is the top private schools, especially London ones and boarding schools increase. The current rate is already £30-£45k SECONDARY...

The problem is wages haven't really been growing in the UK at all in the last 20 years. Maybe in very niche sectors but no where near the rate they have in the other "1st world countries". The salaries in the US are nearly double what they are here for the same jobs. I remember in an office I worked in, we had a US sister office and you could apply to be sponsored to work at either office for a year. When people used to come from the US office, they'd basically be taking a 50% pay cut. Fees in NYC day schools are 57k a year. 70k for boarding is normal there. That's only possible if salaries are in line with that.

MomFromSE · 31/03/2023 22:31

It probably depends on the school but I live in London and City Juniors as well as others didn't have all their places full in February. Other smaller named prep schools have also openly advertised that they have vacancies in every year group in the school and a number of small preps in London have closed. There is a thread elsewhere on mumsnet detailing a number of those that have closed already

AnotherNewt · 31/03/2023 22:36

Which preps have closed?

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