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Retiring to the Isle of Wight

109 replies

EzLife · 01/06/2025 15:16

Hi,

Semi-nearly retired and looking to move to the IoW.

Have visited and will do again next month.

Considerations:
Local shops, coast/beach walkable, ideally not too far from ferries, good GP and Dentist not far away - thinking should we be unable to drive in the future.

I appreciate there are downsides like fewer shops and ferries are £££ but the island has drawn me in...

What are your thoughts?

TIA 🙏

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spoonbillstretford · 05/06/2025 15:40

If I lived there I'd go for around Seaview or St Helens. West Wight is also really nice though.

spoonbillstretford · 05/06/2025 15:43

I feel like it's an up and coming place as well that has only realised in the last 10-20 years that it has really nice fresh local produce and has started to make more of it. Whilst still retaining the old fashioned charm.

Both of my parents have passed away now but DDs (19 and 16) are looking forward to going back for a holiday this summer, which I think says a lot.

EzLife · 05/06/2025 15:44

spoonbillstretford · 05/06/2025 15:38

The car ferries seem to have trebled in price in the last ten years. My parents used to get discounted residents rates oy buy a book of tickets and we'd travel at odd hours and get there late in the evening to avoid the higher fares- the kids found this really exciting.

Also you can get to the island without taking a car. Train connects up with passenger ferry. Before we had kids DH and I would go for the weekend from London, was super easy. The east side of the island has the little train service with ex tube trains, which is great and really cute. The whole island is well-served with buses.

Edited

Thanks for your response, it's a real shame that the ferries charge such high prices, I suppose it helps manage visitor numbers though - maybe the reason?

We've been before as foot passengers - fares aren't too bad - and used the train and public transport to get around, perhaps I'll need to literally get on my bike when visiting the mainland...

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Evenstar · 05/06/2025 15:46

Todat’s Escape to the Country on BBC1 is a couple retiring to the Isle of Wight

Koalafan · 05/06/2025 15:46

EzLife · 05/06/2025 15:25

I understand your feelings, however retirees still need to live, and buy products and produce, supporting local businesses, and also often have greater capacity for volunteering - supporting local communities.

I'm happy where I live, but fancy a change and island life with easy access to beaches and coastline ticks a lot of my boxes.

And the housing issue?

EzLife · 05/06/2025 15:46

spoonbillstretford · 05/06/2025 15:40

If I lived there I'd go for around Seaview or St Helens. West Wight is also really nice though.

Thanks, and agreed, although I've read that Seaview has a number of holiday and second homes which could be a deterrent.

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Kipperandarthur · 05/06/2025 15:46

Don't underestimate the cost of the ferries especially during the Summer period.

As also mentioned factor in that you may need treatment in hospitals off island and the costs can significantly mount up if you are driving to another hospital in say Southampton or Portsmouth for weekly treatments.

Ohnobackagain · 05/06/2025 15:47

@EzLife I know a few people who’ve moved there, a young family and a couple of older friends. All love it, all have zero regrets. One lives in Ryde, not sure of the others.

iggleoggle · 05/06/2025 15:48

My parents lived there until retirement, and retired to the mainland. Mostly because of various experiences of healthcare (included cancer, surgery, and various chronic conditions), they did not want to be a ferry away from hospital. I have never lived there.

When going back, visiting friends after they had retired one of my parents had an issue and ended up at A&E on the island. A major issue was dismissed as a minor issue which snowballed into lifelong disability now. All anecdotal, I know, but hard. Also, timing travel to go to hospital appointments in Portsmouth and Southampton is a pain!

£100 to go and see your parents for the day is horrible too. But it is a beautiful place.

EzLife · 05/06/2025 15:48

spoonbillstretford · 05/06/2025 15:43

I feel like it's an up and coming place as well that has only realised in the last 10-20 years that it has really nice fresh local produce and has started to make more of it. Whilst still retaining the old fashioned charm.

Both of my parents have passed away now but DDs (19 and 16) are looking forward to going back for a holiday this summer, which I think says a lot.

Thanks and agreed, the old-fashioned charm is a draw, as is the opportunity to live a healthier lifestyle. 🤞

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EzLife · 05/06/2025 15:52

Evenstar · 05/06/2025 15:46

Todat’s Escape to the Country on BBC1 is a couple retiring to the Isle of Wight

Thank you! Missed it but will watch on Iplayer later.🙏

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EzLife · 05/06/2025 15:53

Ohnobackagain · 05/06/2025 15:47

@EzLife I know a few people who’ve moved there, a young family and a couple of older friends. All love it, all have zero regrets. One lives in Ryde, not sure of the others.

That's great to know, thank you. 🙏

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ExtensivelyDecluttering · 05/06/2025 15:56

spoonbillstretford · 05/06/2025 15:40

If I lived there I'd go for around Seaview or St Helens. West Wight is also really nice though.

So would I, St Helen's is my favourite IOW beach and they aren't far from Ryde. Although I think in some ways I'd rather live in a bigger town, such as Ryde so I wasn't driving as much. But at least they are near the big Tesco.

EzLife · 05/06/2025 15:59

Kipperandarthur · 05/06/2025 15:46

Don't underestimate the cost of the ferries especially during the Summer period.

As also mentioned factor in that you may need treatment in hospitals off island and the costs can significantly mount up if you are driving to another hospital in say Southampton or Portsmouth for weekly treatments.

Thanks, good advice and certainly a major consideration.

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IncessantNameChanger · 05/06/2025 16:02

My son was going to go to a SEN school there and my major concern is that once the last ferry has gone, there's no access. I could drive through the night to get 300 miles from home. But nothing will get you across to the IOW at night. I think that's different with a child.

My friend lives on the IOM so I know you get used to it ( or buy a jetski 🤣)

ExtensivelyDecluttering · 05/06/2025 16:02

Oh, you've made me want to go there now! I had a day trip last month and it wasn't long enough. For me, an actual feasible plan would be to retire to Southsea, which I also love and then I could go over on the hovercraft whenever I felt like it.

spoonbillstretford · 05/06/2025 16:05

IncessantNameChanger · 05/06/2025 16:02

My son was going to go to a SEN school there and my major concern is that once the last ferry has gone, there's no access. I could drive through the night to get 300 miles from home. But nothing will get you across to the IOW at night. I think that's different with a child.

My friend lives on the IOM so I know you get used to it ( or buy a jetski 🤣)

The ferries run pretty late and early, it's only about two hours of the night they don't run. It's not like Scilly where you could get easily get cut off by a bit of low cloud at the airport.

I used to come over on the 10pm with DDs when they were quite small, on my own sometimes - they thought it was exciting going at night.

Theroadt · 05/06/2025 16:06

My 96 yo father lives there and I have lived there on and off for years (though was brought up in Sussex and now London). The health services are a bit thin tbh and often require trips to Southampton - ferries are expensive. Islanders can be very anti-newcomers. On thd plus side, it’s a lovely gentle place to live a super for older people.

EzLife · 05/06/2025 16:09

Koalafan · 05/06/2025 15:46

And the housing issue?

I think you'll that is a nationwide issue, in my case I would be downsizing, freeing up a family property which has a cascade effect effect albeit in a different location.

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EzLife · 05/06/2025 16:16

Theroadt · 05/06/2025 16:06

My 96 yo father lives there and I have lived there on and off for years (though was brought up in Sussex and now London). The health services are a bit thin tbh and often require trips to Southampton - ferries are expensive. Islanders can be very anti-newcomers. On thd plus side, it’s a lovely gentle place to live a super for older people.

Thanks, guess I'll need to work on my social acceptance skills, good to hear that your father still lives there - 96 yy and roll on !00! 😊

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LoafofSellotape · 05/06/2025 16:19

Absolutely not because of the healthcare alone.

EzLife · 05/06/2025 16:29

DinoLil · 05/06/2025 15:37

I also live on the IoW. Been here almost 7yrs. I'm not retired though.

I can tell you the good, the bad and the ugly. The bad is mainly the cost of and reliability of the ferries. Wightlink offer a saver bundle (forget what it's called) if you're planning on travelling back to the North island regularly. Also, its worth knowing that there's a shopper boat from Cowes to Gunwharf which is £10 return and free parking.

Doctors can be hit and miss. My surgery used to be a few doors down from me. That's closed and now I have to drive 20 mins to an alternative. My 91yr old neighbour pays £15 each way in a taxi to get there. I'm yet to find an NHS dentist.

A few of my friends have cancer, sadly. As PP said, you have to travel to Southampton or Portsmouth for treatment. I had to have a back procedure and was sent to Winchester.

A friend told me that the longer you live here, the bigger the island gets. She wasn't wrong! There are so many beautiful places tucked out of the way. When I read the local news, I often have to look on Maps because I've never heard of the place before!

Wherever you decide to buy, make sure it has parking. Parking is the pain in the rear of a lot of us here.

That said, it's a fabulous place to live and I'd never, ever move back. My social circle is huge, I love that my road is like Coronation Street where we all know each other and help each other out (not for everyone, I know). If I pop into town for 10 minutes, it will take an hour because I either bump into someone I know or get chatting to a random. There are theatres, art exhibitions, cinemas, masses of restaurants and cafes, independent brewers, distillers, fantastic farm shops - in fact, the other day, The Guardian listed Newport as one of the happiest places to live.

You'll have a very fulfilling retirement here! There are also masses of volunteering opportunities so you won't be bored.

As an aside, if you're coming over in the next few weeks, beware of traffic issues we currently have due to some road closures. Also the Festival is coming up and that causes mayhem!

Thanks for your considered response! 🙏

The good and the not-so, much appreciated, it's a real shame about healthcare because it's so important for both young and older - sorry to hear of your friends' and your own challenges.

And so many positives, it's going to be a difficult decision...

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Koalafan · 05/06/2025 16:55

EzLife · 05/06/2025 16:09

I think you'll that is a nationwide issue, in my case I would be downsizing, freeing up a family property which has a cascade effect effect albeit in a different location.

....but you'd still be taking a house which a working family could live in on the island.

Koalafan · 05/06/2025 16:57

Theroadt · 05/06/2025 16:06

My 96 yo father lives there and I have lived there on and off for years (though was brought up in Sussex and now London). The health services are a bit thin tbh and often require trips to Southampton - ferries are expensive. Islanders can be very anti-newcomers. On thd plus side, it’s a lovely gentle place to live a super for older people.

Islanders anywhere aren't necessarily anti-incomer per se, the biggest issue where I live is newcomers arriving and either not contributing or trying to turn in into wherever they came from.

McCartneyOnTheHeath · 05/06/2025 17:08

EzLife · 05/06/2025 16:09

I think you'll that is a nationwide issue, in my case I would be downsizing, freeing up a family property which has a cascade effect effect albeit in a different location.

You're totally missing the point here. It's irrelevant that you're freeing up a family house elsewhere. It's the house you're taking up on the IOW that's the issue. Put simply, if you live there, a nurse (for example) can't.
I've never been to the IOW but this is a huge issue in rural and island communities in Scotland too. Personally I think you're crazy to consider a move like this at your age.

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