My husband quickly skipped over a picture on his phone and seemed a little protective over it a couple of days ago, so when I saw his phone left on charge I decided to have a look at his locked pictures folder. We've been together 10years and I've only previously done this once near the beginning and had total trust since, we know each others passwords but I've not had any reason to snoop. We have a 1 year old who is still breastfeed and I've recently gone back to work, our sex life is at an all time low tbh, I'm not totally against porn and him masterbating but the following is too far for me. In his locked folder I found Snapchat screen recordings of girls, with messages and photos, in one he asks if she can wear a schoolgirl type outfit 🤢, there's also other school girl type pics saved (porn type where I assume are actually over legal age), and also some AI edited pictures of people we knows instagram photos ai edited to make them naked 🤢 There's also more normal porn/hot girl type pictures and videos. Theres not loads and are spread out in dates over a few years but all the worst seem more recent tbh. Snapchat talking, school girl, and people we know all massively cross the line for me. When I previously found him using Snapchat for that near the begining of the relationship (accidently TBF looking for other pics) I said that was unacceptable for me and he promised he would no longer do it, and I've trusted him since. It's girls who do that kind of thing on Snapchat not people he knows. But now I don't know what to do. He doesn't know I've looked, although I did delete the worst because I couldn't stand him having them there. I really don't want to divorce or move out but I've no idea how I could move on and fully trust him. I'm going to have to confront him I think. Has anyone had similar and got past it? What would you do?