DH and I are having marriage problems and I don’t know how fixable they are. We’ve said too many nasty things now.
However, we’re fairly sure the kids don’t know as we don’t bicker or shout around them and keep nice.
DH thinks splitting will be really bad for them and we should try for their sake.
While I know what he means (older dc is particularly sensitive), it feels fake and like there’s a possible time limit on our marriage. Feels like a depressing way to live.
Obviously we need to try counselling etc.
But is it worth staying together for the sake of your kids?
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Staying together for children. Terrible idea? Or will protect them?
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Laptopnotebook1 · 19/11/2020 13:56
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