Only one- not both!
DH is a good man but lacks any romantic gene.
I often feel 'let down' and sometimes wonder.....
I do tend to wonder if by 'romantic' I mean 'thoughtful'.
He's steady, honest, and a great dad. But the day before my wedding my mum confided to my bridesmaid and best friend that she was worried DH didn't make me feel 'special'. And she's right.
On the one hand he will come home with paper for the pc (I use it mainly working from home) and he will maintain the pc etc. He will check out my car before I do a long journey.
On the other hand I never get flowers, the 'right' kind of presents ( he chooses rubbish stuff and doesn't seem to have a clue what I like) no little phone calls or texts during the day except for practical stuff.
Today I went back to bed after getting up- mega period pains and felt terrible. This is not a monthly thing- too old for that! - he went and did a bit of shopping and I just thought how touching it would have been to have bought me some flowers or a gesture like that. In his shoes, I would have.
The only time he has got his brain into gear on things like this was some years back when we were getting on very very badly and I was seriously thinking of leaving. Why does he need that kind of scenario to change his behaviour?
What does your DH/DP do?
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Would you rather have a romantic or practical partner/ DH?
Walrusthesaurus · 02/08/2014 17:22
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