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To pull out of purchase or not?

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lalah20 · 30/12/2025 01:38

Hello everyone, for context I am 30 and a FTB in London. I am currently living at home with mum and have been able to save up a deposit for a flat because of this.

Back in September I viewed an amazing amazing 2 bed flat in South Croydon - it is a duplex in a Victorian house conversion, stunning interior and genuinely massive. Made an offer straight away and that offer got accepted. Long lease and vacant + chainless. Very quickly got my mortgage approved and got a good solicitor to do my conveyancing.

Recently my solicitor gave me an emergency phone call to inform me that he discovered that it will be a subsale/flipped purchase. It turns out that I am not buying directly from the current owner - instead I am buying it from the estate agent who is buying it from the current and original owner and selling it on to me the very same day. This was not made clear to me at all at any point by the estate agent. It is utterly unprofessional and dishonest behaviour.

Anyway, the current issue is that my lender will 95% refuse to release funds as it is a flipped sale and they require the current owner to have owned the property for a minimum of 6 months. My solicitor has had to report to Nationwide. The middleman's (estate agent's) solicitor is refusing to provide information for the following enquiry: how much he is paying for the property. This seems very fishy and it is clear that he is flipping the property to make a profit - very unethical when the original seller could be getting the full amount I am paying OR I could be paying what the EA is paying for it. In addition, the estate agent was not totally honest about service charges, however I liked the property enough to not be put off by it.

I viewed two new properties just before Christmas and really liked one of them (maisonette, recently refurbished, no service charge or ground rent). Have decided I will make an offer after the new year.

I am on one hand tempted to see what Nationwide will say and perhaps just continue with my original purchase (if they even agree to release funds!) purely because I have spent time and money (nearly 3k!!) on the purchase through surveys and conveyancing. On the other hand, I have self respect and don't like doing business with people who lack openness and integrity. Furthermore there are plenty of flats for sale and I have my pick.

What would you do in my position?
and: How could I get the seller to pull out rather than me pulling out? Reason I ask is because if I pull out I will not be able to claim homebuyers insurance and I absolutely deserve to get some of the money back as I have been strung along and lied to this entire time!

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rainingsnoring · 06/01/2026 09:50

'The EA said "we do this all the time" and "your solicitor should have told you about it beforehand".'

By all means follow the correct procedure but you must escalate this as far as possible. These people are making a nice income from this very questionable flipping practice of theirs. I'm not sure if it is strictly illegal but it must be against the best practice as estate agents. Do they ever get fined of closed down, I wonder?
Well done for standing up to them @lalah20

JustMyView13 · 06/01/2026 10:31

If the EA doesn’t notify your solicitor of the fact, how is your solicitor to know?
As an EA they should know very well about the trading rules & mortgages. The fact they admit (or claim to) that they do it all the time points to very shady practices. So let’s get this straight, they regularly advise sellers that the offer price is X, when it is in fact 2X, then cream the profit? Sure they do…

lalah20 · 06/01/2026 17:58

rainingsnoring · 06/01/2026 09:50

'The EA said "we do this all the time" and "your solicitor should have told you about it beforehand".'

By all means follow the correct procedure but you must escalate this as far as possible. These people are making a nice income from this very questionable flipping practice of theirs. I'm not sure if it is strictly illegal but it must be against the best practice as estate agents. Do they ever get fined of closed down, I wonder?
Well done for standing up to them @lalah20

Definitely will escalate as far as possible. The fact that they called me to push to exchange contracts telling me they'd reveal the purchase price only after that is even more sickening as they would be entitled to keep my deposit regardless of whether or not nationwide release funds. As my solicitor said, if they are willing to reveal the purchase price, why not do it now rather than later other than to trap you and take your deposit money. Solicitor also said that he highly doubts the current and original owner knows about this as she would not agree to someone else making a profit from her own asset

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OVienna · 06/01/2026 18:15

lalah20 · 06/01/2026 17:58

Definitely will escalate as far as possible. The fact that they called me to push to exchange contracts telling me they'd reveal the purchase price only after that is even more sickening as they would be entitled to keep my deposit regardless of whether or not nationwide release funds. As my solicitor said, if they are willing to reveal the purchase price, why not do it now rather than later other than to trap you and take your deposit money. Solicitor also said that he highly doubts the current and original owner knows about this as she would not agree to someone else making a profit from her own asset

Massive, massive red flag.

rainingsnoring · 06/01/2026 18:21

lalah20 · 06/01/2026 17:58

Definitely will escalate as far as possible. The fact that they called me to push to exchange contracts telling me they'd reveal the purchase price only after that is even more sickening as they would be entitled to keep my deposit regardless of whether or not nationwide release funds. As my solicitor said, if they are willing to reveal the purchase price, why not do it now rather than later other than to trap you and take your deposit money. Solicitor also said that he highly doubts the current and original owner knows about this as she would not agree to someone else making a profit from her own asset

Just awful. So many crooks out there! What a way to 'make a living'.

lalah20 · 06/01/2026 18:23

OVienna · 06/01/2026 18:15

Massive, massive red flag.

Indeed. Who knows - maybe they knew all along I wouldn't be able to complete, maybe they regularly string people along and keep people's deposits? In this scenario completion would guarantee a profit and so would non-completion, provided exchange has taken place! Madness

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lalah20 · 06/01/2026 18:25

rainingsnoring · 06/01/2026 18:21

Just awful. So many crooks out there! What a way to 'make a living'.

Sickening! I am going to go full b*tch mode on them 😂 I will first secure a house purchase and when that completes I will go to town

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