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How f-***ked are we?

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Frazzled252 · 18/11/2025 05:19

We bought a Barratts David Wilson (BDW) five bed home in Bedford this year. It has turned out to be the home from hell, with sewage smells, gurgling and no ceiling or floor plumb.
BDW have admitted that they need to take the house back to brick to sort the issues, and that we will need to move out. That’s not okay with us as we bought a newbuild for the convenience. BDW have offered three months mortgage payments, but we don’t have a mortgage so have no idea what this cash goodwill would look like.
BDW have also offered to provide a cash settlement in lieu of fixing the house but then we’d have to pay ourselves to fix the house and would likely lose money.
We are also keen to move from the dystopian and apocalyptic looking area (Wixams). The issue is that the house was relatively cheap because it is in such a horrific area.
what options do we have?
is there anywhere in the south east that we can get a decent house for 800-900k?
TIA for replies

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m00rfarm · 20/11/2025 17:40

Frazzled252 · 18/11/2025 05:24

They have said they will but they want us to move in three months which will be an issue, as finding somewhere will most definitely take longer than three months. We suspect that’s why they’ve made that stipulation. Their best deal is to give us another house in a different part of Wixams but the lack of amenities is just untenable

Go to rented - do anything you can to get back what you paid.

m00rfarm · 20/11/2025 17:42

Frazzled252 · 20/11/2025 13:12

Just seen this and looks amazing
I’m not sure why my googling isn’t bringing up all of these houses!
TYSM will have a look now

Leverstock Green and villages around there are very nice and less expensive than St Albans and Harpenden.

Thegreatbigzebraintheroom · 20/11/2025 17:43

WittyJadeStork · 18/11/2025 06:10

I’ve just posted on your other thread.
If they’ve offered to buy it back accept. And ask them to also pay the packing and removals out as a good will gesture. Then you can leave your possessions in storage and just stay in a small Airbnb for a few weeks whilst the purchase goes through on the next one.

Yes they buy it back. They pay for removals and storage and buy another new build surely? There willl be something available? They also pay for any hard work you have invested eg we’ve had decking out in and buying costs eg stamp duty etc and solicitors costs in buying and selling - this is your compensation

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 20/11/2025 17:44

BIossomtoes · 20/11/2025 17:39

Yes, adjusted for population.

I did not know that! All those swanky builds!

Bumblebee72 · 20/11/2025 18:13

New builds are like cars they lose value the day you buy them. The premium is for it being a new build. But keep perspective you are very far from "fucked".

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 20/11/2025 18:24

BIossomtoes · 20/11/2025 15:09

Cambourne’s horrible. Soulless and miserable with the highest crime rate in Cambs. Don’t even think about it.

Have you been there recently? It's certainly not soulless. I have several friends who live there and they love it. Really family friendly, lots of clubs, sports, nature reserves etc. 5 primary schools, a brilliant secondary school which is rated Outstanding in every area. Plus only a few miles from Cambridge.

ETA it also doesn't have anything like the highest crime rate in Cambridgeshire. Peterborough, Wisbech and Huntingdon have much higher rates.

Namechangedasouting987 · 20/11/2025 18:30

Frazzled252 · 20/11/2025 09:34

Thank you. We have no kids but I am 40, OH is 39, so we want this to be the forever home. We have a love hate relationship with new builds - we do prefer older renovated houses, but neither of us have the skill of creativity to renovate or decorate houses nicely. We are also NHS workers and have no time whatsoever so prefer the house to be done and ready before we move in, hence new build.
Partner works North London and commutes. We ideally want somewhere with amenities, a pretty town, schools, and countryside. Leighton Buzzard has the town and countryside but no schools really AFAIK.

Leighton Buzzard has schools! 2 decent upper schools, and plenty of lower and niddle schools. Confused by that comment. Lots of amenities. Traffic awful. But good place to live.

DaisyDukesAuntie · 20/11/2025 18:30

I’d take the money and run too. Find a nice rental for 6-12 months, lick your wounds and go again. This must be very stressful - I have absolute sympathy. But at least with them buying it back, the stress of repairs, wondering if they’ll do it properly or not, would be gone.

CinnamonToastie · 20/11/2025 21:11

Namechangedasouting987 · 20/11/2025 18:30

Leighton Buzzard has schools! 2 decent upper schools, and plenty of lower and niddle schools. Confused by that comment. Lots of amenities. Traffic awful. But good place to live.

LB is not that nice to be honest.
Sorry if you live there but it doesn't have a good reputation compared to other towns nearby.

BIossomtoes · 20/11/2025 22:23

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 20/11/2025 18:24

Have you been there recently? It's certainly not soulless. I have several friends who live there and they love it. Really family friendly, lots of clubs, sports, nature reserves etc. 5 primary schools, a brilliant secondary school which is rated Outstanding in every area. Plus only a few miles from Cambridge.

ETA it also doesn't have anything like the highest crime rate in Cambridgeshire. Peterborough, Wisbech and Huntingdon have much higher rates.

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Yes, I see it every time I go to shop at Morrisons. I wouldn’t live there if you paid me. It does have the highest crime rate in Cambridgeshire per head of population.

Advocodo · 21/11/2025 09:30

CinnamonToastie · 20/11/2025 10:14

I don't quite understand why, if you're quite young, you are against getting a mortgage. Can you explain?

Are you still hoping to have a family?

Are you both doctors/ medical? You said in your other posts you'd had 1 hour sleep in 72 hours which suggests you're a Dr. (Though I hope not as that isn't great for patients!)

Having £750K+ as cash is out of most people's dream when they are in their 30s, so adding on another £200K with a mortgage would give you more options.

Bear in mind the cost of a commute, parking at the station, running a car or two and time spent on a train/ tube. You might be better off putting that money into a property closer to London, like St Albans, rather than spending ££££s on fares.

I think you need to be more flexible. Consider a mortgage, get your priorities sorted and be realistic. You can't always get a forever home at 39. Plenty of time to move upwards.

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I totally agree with this post. Madness not to get a mortgage even a small one.

Advocodo · 21/11/2025 09:31

Bumblebee72 · 20/11/2025 18:13

New builds are like cars they lose value the day you buy them. The premium is for it being a new build. But keep perspective you are very far from "fucked".

Where I live lots of new builds have sold for more even 1/2 years down the line! Generally though I agree it can be difficult to get more than you paid for it.

Bambamhoohoo · 21/11/2025 10:17

Advocodo · 21/11/2025 09:31

Where I live lots of new builds have sold for more even 1/2 years down the line! Generally though I agree it can be difficult to get more than you paid for it.

Agreed. In many areas it’s so hard to buy a house that these things ideas aren’t relevant.

my new build has tripled in the 20 years since it was built and the first sale, 3 years in, was for 43% more than original purchase price.

part of that is because areas become established and desirable, particularly in the wider context of one of the most expensive or desirable parts of the uk (st Albans) I’m not sure it’s the same near Bedford but I also think it does happen quite commonly.

Zonder · 21/11/2025 12:05

Bambamhoohoo · 20/11/2025 17:26

as a poster said above you’re referring to geographical technicalities, we were just saying that generally if someone says eg “Im from south east England” people would maybe assume- I dunno, anything south of the Cotswolds and east of Wiltshire, rather then referring to maps or tv regions to define the regions.

People assume all sorts. Doesn't mean they're right. Visit South East England assume something different.

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