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Yemelade · 14/01/2025 18:00

Some of you might remember me from my house sprucing (low level, manageable DIY) thread where I was preparing to sell up my old house.

That purchase is now complete, and we are now semi-regretful owners of a run down fixer upper.

I dillegently made a spreadsheet and researched possible prices of work needed. New roof, kitchen, bathrooms, windows. Its essentially a money pit. IIinitially, prior to purchase, thought we had a healthy budget at 62k, but have quickly realised this is nowhere near enough.

Please join me in rants, woes, discoveries and doom. It would be good to hear from anyone in a similar boat so that my colleagues are no longer plagued by this regularly! I am in North East UK.

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Summer2025 · 16/04/2025 16:47

mugglewump · 16/04/2025 13:36

Just spent £14k on a tiny bathroom and it took six weeks!

Where are you? London?

Yemelade · 16/04/2025 18:11

Geneticsbunny · 15/04/2025 16:38

Luckily/unluckily, our house was empty for ages before we moved in and had a mains water leak on an outside wall and at some point the roof had leaked quite badly so the paper was pretty much just hanging off. I have had to remove woodchip in another house though and it was awful.

Small wins! 😂

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Yemelade · 16/04/2025 18:17

NonParloItaliano · 15/04/2025 16:55

Oh this is helpful @Yemelade are you having a new toilet put in?

We haven’t bought ours yet, but we’re in the process of buying what we thought was a liveable-off-the-bat house but the survey (and subsequent specialist surveys) have thrown up all kinds of things so will probably end up having new floors downstairs amongst other things. My dream of putting in a new downstairs toilet might have to be paused while we pay for all that instead 😬

Yes! Well, splitting the old kitchen into a utility and shower room. We actually ended up finding an even cheaper way of doing things. I.e. me filling in all the building control forms myself (and becoming best friends with the local council admin team in the process, I'm sure!) And a builder who we pay on day rate to do all the ground works and internal works. We acquired all our bathroom stuff for approximately £1000 buying ex display, which has saved us a small fortune. In total for building a whole new bathroom that didnt exist before, stud walls, plumbing, new soil stack, building control and tiles, it's coming in about £2400. Seems a lot, but I have a colleague who just paid 10k for a bathroom with everything staying in the same place!

Hopefully you can do something similar so your dream doesn't need to stay on hold for too long!

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Yemelade · 16/04/2025 18:21

Reachoutreachout · 16/04/2025 09:06

We’ve just put our fixer upper back on the market after four years of ever increasing quotes and each time having to scurry about wondering where the money will come from. We’ve had an offer accepted on a place that has been done up. I’m so relieved I could cry.

BUT two viewings last weekend and feedback is “it needs too much work”. I just don’t think it is financially sustainable to gut a house anymore unless you will do most of the work yourself.

I absolutely agree. Or you have the luxury of friends in trades, or decent capacity for storage so you can buy things at budget prices in advance. We have done a fair portion of work ourselves, but have paid the professionals for jobs like electrics and plumbing. We also did extensive research before buying into green energy schemes via our local council. Because of our EPC and postcode, we managed to get free solar panels and insulation which would have otherwise cost us over 10k together! The scheme we used unfortunately is now closed, but was called the HUG2 scheme.

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Yemelade · 16/04/2025 18:30

CrazyCatMam · 16/04/2025 09:22

We’re 3 years into our renovation. Estimates have rocketed in that time. Initial budget was £100K. When we got to £200K I gave up counting. Had to remortgage and take out a loan, and we still don’t have enough.

It’s the 3rd house we’ve renovated. Previous ones took 6 months, to a year. But this one is the gift that keeps on giving! Current mood is ‘Why, just why? What the fuck were we thinking?’.

Our first house was a new build. If we still lived there we would be mortgage free. But no, we got sucked into the period property trap, so we must live a modest life style in a house that’s never finished, with lots and lots of dust.

Oh, and our teenagers hate us for doing this to them. They long for the new build. Our house is ‘so embarrassing’ and they’re annoyed that we can’t afford to go anywhere or do anything ‘until the house is finished’ which is never.

The saddest thing of all is that our garden has been like a building site for 3 years and is unusable - I feel sorry for my kids and my dog!

Reading this made me frustrated on your behalf. Thats such a lot of money to ultimately feel like part of your household hates it anyway. I am hoping/would hazard a guess that your home has at least some redeeming features, or is in a great location? Will you be staying for the foreseeable?

How do you feel/what's your capacity for DIY? It took us 2 summers but we managed to knock down a garage that we took to the tip in about 1000 journeys and bags, levelled ground, planted grass seed and built planters that we filled with flowers. We used reclaimed decking, which we also then used to make a seating area. I hadn't heard of wood reclamation yards and wood recycling, but we got 10m2 of decking for £100. All in all, the garden work plus a garden set in great condition from facebook market place cost us less than £500 and we loved it! I'm not going to include the £500 it cost us to sort the suspension on the car after taking 2 tonnes of bricks to the tip.

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Yemelade · 16/04/2025 18:39

Tupster · 16/04/2025 09:39

I'll join too. Mine's only approx 20 year old house so although it had been treated badly in that time and I bought eyes open as a "project", I keep finding new things that are broken in ways I didn't know what possible and things that hurtling up the to-do list. The biggest unexpected expense was the boiler that I thought I could eke out for a year or two was actually in need of immediate replacement, and interior doors that are carboardy and ugly but I thought I could live with while other stuff got done, but door handles have obviously been wrenched on and off so many times, there's no repairing them and I'm scared to shut any doors in case I get trapped in a room - so new doors throughout are going to cost me. Although some things aren't as bad as I thought - I've got things that were just filthy rather than damaged. It's a lot of work though and I feel quite trapped in the house working at the moment rather than going out and exploring and enjoying my new area.

It is so hard not to feel bogged down when the to do list keeps growing.

We found out from neighbours that the previous owner kept getting raw sewage up through the kitchen sink. We discovered this after ripping out the kitchen, discovering an uneven floor, caused by what we thought was a water leak. Once we peeled back the flooring, it was clear from the stench that bodily excretions had leached into the floor causing it to warp. Underground pipes and manholes had to be rectified. Luckily that's all sorted now but of course was an unanticipated challenge and cost! It was an actual shit show for several weeks.

Will this be your forever home?

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Yemelade · 16/04/2025 18:46

Summer2025 · 16/04/2025 12:01

Genuine question as even though I owned a flat for 6 years I have hardly any experience in diy. I bought a spruced up flat from an ex landlord so new carpets, new (cheap) paint and only a small 2 bed so we lived in it. We have only painted bathroom ceiling and replaced boiler plus appliances since moving in.

I see a marginally larger flat (2 bedrooms and 20 sq m larger) in my area on a nicer road which is 150k more expensive but looks like a probate property. Service charges similar to my flat and like my flat is residents managed. Old carpets tired kitchen, looks like old lady lived in it for 20 years and never redecorated.

Previously I would have thought it cosmetic but it seems any work is expensive these days! Is it worth it or just better to stay and improve as I would save on stamp duty and bigger mortgage and moving costs.

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Gosh, everything is so expensive these days. Even paints and brushes etc havd at least doubled compared to 5 years back.

The question of "is it worth it" I'm afraid can only be answered by you!

Do you feel the extra space and possible potential in this new property justifies the substantial additional cost (and I'm assuming your mortgage payments)? What will you gain by moving there if it is already very local to you? Do those things make it feel worth it?

I think it's not just a £ investment, it's about your time too. My husband spends a lot more time physically doing things, but I spend a lot of time searching for budget items online, keeping a check on spreadsheets. And, time is money!

I think if its your perfect or forever home, you can't really put a price on that and therefore the time, money and energy you invest won't matter. But if it's not, I would think carefully about buying. Its a lot to give up or sacrifice for something that you aren't 💯 about.

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Tupster · 16/04/2025 21:03

Definitely forever home for me. Which kind of makes it harder to manage in some ways because I feel like I want to make the investment in the good quality long-term choices rather than doing cheaper short term quick fixes

Walkthelakes · 17/04/2025 00:16

I’ve found my people. 3 years in. Been an absolute roller coaster but feel like I’m turning a corner. Awful builder (who had done our last house, so we trusted) made the first year living here so bad. We lost loads of money as had to redo work. It was awful. We’ve live here the whole time and have small children so it’s been tough. However just before Xmas we moved into our new kitchen extension and it feels like a game changer. We’ve now done kitchen /diner, 4 bedrooms, are currently doing thr snug. We’ll just have the landing/hallway to do and then a spruce up of existing bathrooms. It’s been harder than I thought; especially in the dark days of dodgy builders but is worth it now. We have a house we could t have afforded. I’m ready to finish for a while this summer and concentrate on something other then that house for a while

NonParloItaliano · 17/04/2025 01:30

Geneticsbunny · 15/04/2025 16:38

Luckily/unluckily, our house was empty for ages before we moved in and had a mains water leak on an outside wall and at some point the roof had leaked quite badly so the paper was pretty much just hanging off. I have had to remove woodchip in another house though and it was awful.

Ooh do you mind if I ask about your leak, @Geneticsbunny? In fact you may have helped me on another thread when I had a different name, but I’ll ask again in case! The house we’re buying may have a leak underground, which has made a wall damp and rotted the floor joists. Did you have something similar?

HellsBalls · 17/04/2025 07:04

@NonParloItaliano Had or has a leak? That needs fixing first.
Floor joists are not a difficult thing to replace, though pulling up the floor boards can often ruin them. It’s a good opportunity to insulate under the floor, reinforce or alter the dwarf wall, or even install deeper joists. New joists usually need their ends covered in a suitable plastic to prevent damp penetration again.
You could even change from traditional wood to an I-joist.

whirlyhead · 17/04/2025 07:43

I live in Spain and recently had to have an entire rewire of my not very big single storey 3 bed house which cost about €16k. It was going to burn down if I didn’t do it so not much choice!

we’ve renovated the entire house over two years and it’s cost about €170k with no extensions (pretty much impossible to extend in Spain as your land has a maximum build space you can have)

if you think the UK is expensive, try doing it over here!

Geneticsbunny · 17/04/2025 08:59

@NonParloItaliano I think I remember your other thread. We don't have joists in the room which was affected. We have a stone floor with a vaulted brick cellar underneath, so everything was wet but nothing had rotted through. Once the mains water was stopped, the wall dried out, we replastered in lime plaster and haven't had any problems since.

We still have an ongoing damp issue in another bit of the house by that's a whole other story. (Leaky gutter but it's wood and so difficult to repair and might actually be the downpipe which is causing the problem).

Yemelade · 12/08/2025 15:51

I did not do very well with keeping this thread active! How are we all doing?

So far, we've had the below completed:

  • Full house rewire
  • Under floor heating to most of downstairs, new radiators throughout upstairs (very lucky to have met neighbours who are heating engineers which helped cut costs massively!)
  • New screed floor downstairs
  • Structural works: knocking down structural walls, creating door ways out of windows, and splitting the main bathroom into an ensuite and main bathroom
  • ripped out a spiral staircase and replaced/moved direction for straight staircase
  • creating a utility room and adding downstairs bathroom out of the old kitchen
  • changing soil stacks and moving drainage
  • some plastering
  • solar and insulation (via government scheme).
  • brand new kitchen, appliances and worktops (not yet fitted)
  • 1 full bathroom suite and tiling (still have 2 empty and stripped out bathrooms to do though...)

We have a small amount of budget left, which we've ring fenced for bifold doors for the kitchen to make it water tight before winter, a couple windows, and the the supply and fit of flooring. After that, we have nothing left in the purse. We still need approx 7k to do the rest of the windows, about 2k to get a nice balustrade and bannister added to stairs, about 3-4k for carpets, about 8k for bathrooms, and about 4k for a fireplace. We've done a lot of work ourselves. All of this other stuff we'll just have to save and buy as we go. I'd also love new furniture. However, I am elated with how much we managed to achieve on about 60k! We aren't in a hurry to finish as it's our forever home, so we'll just save and do at our leisure.

I got very stressed with finances throughout. But i think that forced us to be frugal and creative. We did things like save the copper pipe that was stripped out of the house, to take to a scrap yard which gave us a few hundred ££ and paid for the staircase. We also repurposed an old kitchen carcass and just replaced the door for our utility room, rather than spending thousands extra for it to match our new kitchen. We also sold the very antiquated (but out of place) fireplace which bought flooring for the utility and worktop, door, sink and tap for utility. We also bought our whole downstairs bathroom suite for under 1k by buying ex display. Hoping we can do that again for our ensuite and main bathroom!

Costs are crazy though. And some quotes we received were down right bizarre throughout. But there is light at the end of the tunnel now! I'll see if I can attach some pictures just as a general update!

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MH0084 · 12/08/2025 16:03

After I spent £30k in a bathroom last year (rotten joists, uneven walls, etc etc), I realise anything house wise goes in multiples of £15k.kkkrying

Yemelade · 12/08/2025 16:04

I'm not sure this is going to work because it seems I am limited to one photo (even though it says up to 5!) But I can share the insta I have been using to share images with family, if anyone is interested.

Crazy quotes? Regretting buying your fixer upper? Join me in home renovation rants!
Crazy quotes? Regretting buying your fixer upper? Join me in home renovation rants!
Crazy quotes? Regretting buying your fixer upper? Join me in home renovation rants!
Crazy quotes? Regretting buying your fixer upper? Join me in home renovation rants!
Crazy quotes? Regretting buying your fixer upper? Join me in home renovation rants!
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HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 12/08/2025 16:05

@Yemelade I'm looking at nothing near as ambitious but I am very worried about what I am getting into - not had survey done yet but so far I know house needs a new bathroom suite, new carpets upstairs, 3 rear windows done (units are blown) a new boiler and ideally a kitchen re-fit so new doors on the units, new oven and white goods. I also posted here a while back as its got 1970s "floating" stairs that need to be stripped painted and re-carpeted. No idea about wiring.

I've probably got £5k in cash to spend on all that after which I can only draw on my pension fund. I'm thinking this isn't going to work - I'm on my own, early 60s, got a nervous dog and even basic painting is a challenge (because I am incapable not because of any age related medical condition!) (unless you count delusions of available finances).

I did get a 3 bed semi refurbished about 8 years ago, spent maybe £30k but it was much more work than what I've listed above so I am thinking that's lulled me into a false sense of security ...

Yemelade · 12/08/2025 16:11

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 12/08/2025 16:05

@Yemelade I'm looking at nothing near as ambitious but I am very worried about what I am getting into - not had survey done yet but so far I know house needs a new bathroom suite, new carpets upstairs, 3 rear windows done (units are blown) a new boiler and ideally a kitchen re-fit so new doors on the units, new oven and white goods. I also posted here a while back as its got 1970s "floating" stairs that need to be stripped painted and re-carpeted. No idea about wiring.

I've probably got £5k in cash to spend on all that after which I can only draw on my pension fund. I'm thinking this isn't going to work - I'm on my own, early 60s, got a nervous dog and even basic painting is a challenge (because I am incapable not because of any age related medical condition!) (unless you count delusions of available finances).

I did get a 3 bed semi refurbished about 8 years ago, spent maybe £30k but it was much more work than what I've listed above so I am thinking that's lulled me into a false sense of security ...

That's a very ambitious budget! Are you able to prioritise and take it in stages? Perhaps live with the bathroom suite just for now? I don't think anything is impossible, but my gosh the price of everything these days (not including the price of labourer and tradie time) is astronomical.

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housethatbuiltme · 12/08/2025 18:48

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 12/08/2025 16:05

@Yemelade I'm looking at nothing near as ambitious but I am very worried about what I am getting into - not had survey done yet but so far I know house needs a new bathroom suite, new carpets upstairs, 3 rear windows done (units are blown) a new boiler and ideally a kitchen re-fit so new doors on the units, new oven and white goods. I also posted here a while back as its got 1970s "floating" stairs that need to be stripped painted and re-carpeted. No idea about wiring.

I've probably got £5k in cash to spend on all that after which I can only draw on my pension fund. I'm thinking this isn't going to work - I'm on my own, early 60s, got a nervous dog and even basic painting is a challenge (because I am incapable not because of any age related medical condition!) (unless you count delusions of available finances).

I did get a 3 bed semi refurbished about 8 years ago, spent maybe £30k but it was much more work than what I've listed above so I am thinking that's lulled me into a false sense of security ...

Sorry, have I misread... are you trying to do all that on £5k?

I'm in the north east so cheaper area of UK and you would be looking at around:

£4,000+ for a new basic bathroom
£300+ cheap carpets & underlay (more for fitting or if its big rooms)
£1,800+ for windows
£3,000-ish for a new boiler

Kitchen harder to budget as jobs are unique but our refit is costing £6,000 not including the £2,470 for the kitchen rewire and fuse board and another £1,000 for white goods.

We have spent over £1,000 on the products need just to DIY strip walls, fix cracks and damage, prime and paint.

I usually think amounts mumsnet post can be a bit insane (especially london prices) but honestly you will be lucky to do 1 or 2 things on your long list for £5k. If you had £30k thats more do-able, work done years ago was MUCH cheaper with brexit and COL materials have gone up greatly in price.

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 13/08/2025 00:15

@housethatbuiltme - I need to do as much as I can initially with the £5k - bathroom and carpets would be a priority. It's a very solid house - if I had to I could live with all of it as it is, but I wouldn't like to. Bathroom has no shower so really I'd be kidding myself that I can cope with that, and I'd prefer new bedroom carpets. Just don't know if it's sensible at all to spend that then have to live with the rest for another 5 years.

disappointedconfused · 13/08/2025 06:12

You’ve made a lot of progress but genuinely ….you seem to be jumping about rooms / projects ….why didn’t you prioritise getting all the windows and bifold in so the place was watertight and then can take your time inside?

Yellowbirdcage · 13/08/2025 07:02

These prices are horrendous! Really hoping some savvy politicians will do something to help young people into trades. Everyone seems to be a uni graduate looking for a well paid hybrid desk job but there must be some great careers in trades if only there were good apprenticeships available.

I have a family member who is an excellent builder/joiner and he could be booked out for decades. Instead he got together with another family member and they have spent the last few years renovating houses in tourist areas and Airbnb ing them. They have three now and are doing very well.

I bought a modern house because of costs. Even so there’s always something to do. Just had some joinery work done for £4k. It took one man one week of 5 hr days. The materials were well under £1k. I feel lucky to have found that tradesmen as well! Why is labour so so expensive?

Yemelade · 13/08/2025 07:52

disappointedconfused · 13/08/2025 06:12

You’ve made a lot of progress but genuinely ….you seem to be jumping about rooms / projects ….why didn’t you prioritise getting all the windows and bifold in so the place was watertight and then can take your time inside?

Thanks, we're really happy with the progress.

We are jumping from room to room because we are working in priority order, or we need to work with the availability of other trades and services. Some windows in the house are fine and we are upgrading for aesthetic reasons only, so the "aesthetic" window replacements can wait, we are in no hurry. Our windows and bifolds were the cheapest but best quality we could find. But that's because the company don't keep a stock of windows and make all windows to order, so there was a substantial wait. We also could not get the exact measurement for the bifolds, until we completed the structural work, e.g. cutting the hole for the doorway where the bifolds will sit. But because we had a builder over the course of a specific amount of time, we booked him in to do multiple structural jobs together to save money. Asking him to come back to complete this work separately would have costed several thousands more. It may not make sense to you, but from a project and budget management point of view it's worked for us. I'm not interested in trying to tick off a full "job" in totality from my list if it means sacrificing budget, or not getting other work done that is cheaper when done in combination with other jobs.

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Yemelade · 13/08/2025 08:16

Yellowbirdcage · 13/08/2025 07:02

These prices are horrendous! Really hoping some savvy politicians will do something to help young people into trades. Everyone seems to be a uni graduate looking for a well paid hybrid desk job but there must be some great careers in trades if only there were good apprenticeships available.

I have a family member who is an excellent builder/joiner and he could be booked out for decades. Instead he got together with another family member and they have spent the last few years renovating houses in tourist areas and Airbnb ing them. They have three now and are doing very well.

I bought a modern house because of costs. Even so there’s always something to do. Just had some joinery work done for £4k. It took one man one week of 5 hr days. The materials were well under £1k. I feel lucky to have found that tradesmen as well! Why is labour so so expensive?

All of the trades we've been working with, so this is builders, electricians, roofing companies, heating/gas engineers etc have similar stories of apprentices starting work, but quickly leaving because they didn't realise how "hard" or long the days would be. All left with either no further job option lined up, or in pursuit of desk jobs. I don't really blame young people for seeking an arguably more sedentary and predictable desk job because that's exactly the type of job I myself have. But because of that, good tradespeople are harder and harder to find and the ones that remain are able to charge a fortune because they are in demand. The ones that dont charge a fortune are booked for years. Materials are only going up too, but I doubt anything will make that change, everything from groceries to fuel is also up too!

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Tradescanti · 13/08/2025 09:38

Everything is so expensive now I was surprised to see on this thread that a new boiler and radiators for a four bedroomed house had cost £3500.

Assuming that includes installation is that not an exceptionally low price?

I live in an area where housing is cheap (although trades not so cheap) but am pretty sure I'd have to pay quite a bit more than that.

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