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Tax avoidance? Parent buying house for child on loan.

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emmalinewre · 15/12/2024 08:48

Hi!
A few year ago my dad gave me and my sibling £200k each to buy a house each - on the condition that we sign a contract with him paying him back £600 per month on an ongoing basis.
Friends at the time were pleased for us, we're very lucky to be on the propery ladder - I appreciate all that.
However, it has become rather a burden as that is a lot of money a month to find, and I suspect this is some sort of way my dad can avoid tax - as he refers to these monthly payments he gets from us as his 'income.'
He also has around ten different savings accounts, some in the UAE, which seems a bit shifty.
Can anyone with knowledge of tax/similar advise as to how he may be benefitting from this arrangement?
My sibling thinks its all great and he's just a wonderful parent, but myself and husband feel rather locked in and controlled financially by the situation - and with no way out as its not as if we can buy out of it.

Thanks!

OP posts:
anotherside · 15/12/2024 13:57

So you took out what is effectively a 30 year loan/mortgage from your dad - and you’re not allowed to sell/move as per the contract? And you state that he’s a bit of a psychopath? That doesn't sound like a good move in any respect.

Your first concern should be getting a solicitor to check over that contract and advise you whether it’s legally enforceable and what, if any, would be the actual consequences of you breaking it.

Herewegoagain84 · 15/12/2024 13:58

You also make out you’re helpless re selling the house. If it was in the contract, you knew that was part of the deal (that clearly you didn’t think through because you wanted the money). Whose name is the house in? You are free to dispose of your own property however you’d like, and if his loan isn’t a registered charge against it he would have trouble enforcing this. But just remember - you agreed to all this upfront. Just because you don’t like it now isn’t a good idea to start accusing your dad of dodgy financial behaviour.

LoremIpsumCici · 15/12/2024 13:58

minceyminceypies · 15/12/2024 13:43

What do you mean?

It's quite common to pay uni costs and also give a house deposit amongst my social circle. No brokers needed. Children arrange their own mortgage and parents provide a deposit with proof for the solicitor that it's not 'illegal' money.

I mean in MN posts as that is what you were referring to? Not your social circle.
And OP has this loan plus a mortgage, so my comment applied to her situation, not your social circle.

HappiestSleeping · 15/12/2024 14:00

WinterBird24 · 15/12/2024 11:33

Youre conflating different rules - IHT isn’t applicable to a loan.

I know, that was my original point.

alwaysontheloo · 15/12/2024 14:00

Of course it's his income he loaned you £200k to buy a house and tbh you got a great deal out of it. You sounds so ungrateful. Or did you think he should just give it to you? 🙄
I wonder if you'd be so bothered about tax if your dad had done just that and you didn't have to give it back?
Why don't you report him to the HMRC if you're so concerned and have done with it...

Harshtruth1111 · 15/12/2024 14:00

Hey
How about you sell the property With the addition equity he gained on it .

Save your own deposit. And buy your own house. You'll be paying over £500pm just for interest the first ten years or and that's if you buy a small house waaaay outside of London.

Your rent will be £1300plus.

Sell the house and start from scratch.

What a joke!!!!

LoremIpsumCici · 15/12/2024 14:02

Youre conflating different rules - IHT isn’t applicable to a loan.

The outstanding balance of a family loan owed to the deceased is in fact included in their estate for IHT calculations.

Editing to add a blog post on this by a law firm- easy read
https://www.bdo.co.uk/en-gb/insights/tax/private-client/making-a-family-loan-watch-out-for-the-tax-issues

alwaysontheloo · 15/12/2024 14:03

And he can't stop you selling the house. If you're so bothered then sell it anyway and just pay him the £600 a month until the £200k is repaid.
You decided to get a mortgage on top of the £200k so that's on you, not sure why you keep bringing it up like nobody else here has a mortgage ffs.

MoodEnhancer · 15/12/2024 14:08

If the house is in your name, then he can’t stop you from selling it. And you can either pay him back in full, or put it in an account, set up a standing order to pay him back £600 a month.

Yalta · 15/12/2024 14:19

emmalinewre · 15/12/2024 10:31

We already have a mortgage on the house aswell and it says in his contract we can't sell and pay him back - he wants the money each month. I won't be getting any inheritance. I saw a solicitor at the beginning of all this and they said it all looked really suspicious but I couldn't afford to engage them to look into it.

What happens if you can’t pay your mortgage and the house gets repossessed?

No solicitor would think this was an airtight contract

Surely you don’t have to live there. turn the whole thing into a btl with a btl mortgage and start again in a different house

Just wondering how you filled out the mortgage application because the whole thing sounds dodgy

Whatsnmynameagain9 · 15/12/2024 14:20

Who owns the house.

Yalta · 15/12/2024 14:20

What exactly would happen if you did sell and just kept paying him

bouncydog · 15/12/2024 14:29

Sounds as if the father “gave” them £200k towards the house purchase and said it was a gift so they could then get a mortgage for the balance. The “loan agreement” then sat outside of that and was not declared to the mortgage lender. This enabled the OP to purchase a property that they couldn’t really afford and now for whatever reason, they are struggling to repay the unofficial loan. When gifting to children for house deposits the bank through which any mortgage is being arranged requires a letter from the gifter stating that the funds are not a loan and that there is no expectation of repayment.

As there is a signed agreement in place then I suspect it is entirely possible that if the OP decided to stop paying the dad could effectively employ legal means to get the balance of his money back.

Thelittleweasel · 15/12/2024 14:30

@emmalinewre

The "good news" is that you signed a contract with him.

If you are worried speak to a solicitor. The payments are not "income" to him

Mrsbloggz · 15/12/2024 14:30

@emmalinewre
It all sounds a bit strange and I can't see that the part about you not selling the house is enforceable.

Dealingwithatrexrightnow · 15/12/2024 14:35

OttersAreMySpiritAnimal · 15/12/2024 10:36

So he'd sue you for breach of contract if you sold up? Can't imagine that would stand up in court.
If it's unaffordable for you either renegotiate the monthly payment with him or tell him you are selling up. And moving to somewhere more affordable and he can have his money back, early repayment of the loan.

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Ellie1015 · 15/12/2024 14:40

200k of your debt for your house is interest free. You are benefiting out of this arrangement.

If the monthly outgoing of £600 plus mortgage is too much then sell and downsize reducing the mortgage on your house but continuing the £600 to dad.

samarrange · 15/12/2024 14:46

emmalinewre · 15/12/2024 10:33

He wont let us sell it - its in the contract he wants the money every month. We have a mortgage on it as well.

@emmalinewre Can we just clear up the conditions of the loan?

So far all we know is that he advanced you £200,000 and you pay him £600 every month.

After one year, having paid him £7,200, how much did you still owe him? Possible answers could be:

  • £192,800: Equivalent to an interest-free loan
  • £194,770: Equivalent to a loan with 1% annual interest, compounded monthly
  • £196,758: Equivalent to a loan with 2% annual interest, compounded monthly
  • £198,765: Equivalent to a loan with 3% annual interest, compounded monthly
  • £200,000, version 1: Equivalent to a loan with 3.61% annual interest, compounded monthly (i.e., your £600 exactly covers the interest
  • £200,000, version 2: Some weird "loan" with no explicit interest rate, but you never pay back, and you're tied into paying your Dad £600 for ever because he did you the £200,000 favour.

Especially if the answer is the last of those (£200,000 version 2), the next question is: When does this contract stop? When your Dad dies? When you die? Never (the contract ties in "all of your heirs and successors in perpetuity")?

Depending on the answers, this could be anywhere from the best to the worst deal ever, but the devil is in those details.

RockOrAHardplace · 15/12/2024 14:47

You'd have to give more detail on this for anyone to be able to ascertain the true situation. How long are you pay £600 per month for? Until we know this we can't tell if he is charging you interest? Does the debt get written off if he dies and how old is your Dad now?

So to repay an interest free loan of £200K at £600pm would take approx 27years. If that is the deal, you are onto a winner as the house is accumulating value and you have had an interest free loan.

In this scenario if you kept the house for say 10 years then sold it and repaid your Dad the £200K, you are are quids in.

Sounds to me like an inheritance tax dodge but need more info to ascertain.

mumedu · 15/12/2024 14:50

You are ridiculous. You owe him money and now you are considering it unfair that you should pay it back. The tax thing is irrelevant. Stick to the deal. If you're not happy, sell up, pay him what you owe and get a house without his help.

PomPomSugar · 15/12/2024 15:17

minceyminceypies · 15/12/2024 13:43

What do you mean?

It's quite common to pay uni costs and also give a house deposit amongst my social circle. No brokers needed. Children arrange their own mortgage and parents provide a deposit with proof for the solicitor that it's not 'illegal' money.

Agreed.

But this isn’t a gift. It’s a loan. So entirely different.

minceyminceypies · 15/12/2024 15:28

LoremIpsumCici · 15/12/2024 13:56

“He’s basically rid himself of a 400 grand lump sum (probably to avoid paying tax on it) by giving it to you, but wants it back in a tax free way (who knows how, he’s probably either not declaring it or has arranged his affairs to make use of allowances) over the rest of his lifetime. He’s using you and if you don’t do what he’s set up, he’s going to be in trouble. He’s not controlling you so much as using you - it feels like control because of his tight grip on this situation which he needs for his own benefit. Nothing to do with you.”

OP is benefitting way more than he is. She gets the leverage of the lump sum invested in a more expensive property and gets to keep 100% of the increase in equity. Her dad is getting zero return on his funds presuming it’s a zero interest loan on the basis that OP hasn’t mentioned interest and given she thinks she is being taken advantage of she most probably would have mentioned interest as an issue if he were charging any.

Have you missed the point that he may be only able to offer her the money by tax evasion or avoidance and she is being manipulated in order to facilitate his lies?

Nothing else matters.

minceyminceypies · 15/12/2024 15:30

PomPomSugar · 15/12/2024 15:17

Agreed.

But this isn’t a gift. It’s a loan. So entirely different.

I was replying to another poster who said that parents give money for houses in lieu of uni costs. I said it's possible to do both. He had to HAVE the money in the first place to loan it!

minceyminceypies · 15/12/2024 15:33

@emmalinewre you need to separate out two thing here.

1 you can't afford the £600 plus the mortgage. That's bad planning from you. If you sell up you will presumably down size or maybe rent.

2 How your dad got the money isn't clear. what difference does it make finding that out? Is this so you can 'breach; the contract and 'blackmail' him with your knowledge of dodgy tax affairs?

3 He can't stop you selling up unless he takes you to court for breach of contract.

NoWordForFluffy · 15/12/2024 15:34

minceyminceypies · 15/12/2024 15:28

Have you missed the point that he may be only able to offer her the money by tax evasion or avoidance and she is being manipulated in order to facilitate his lies?

Nothing else matters.

Rubbish!

She willingly signed up for the terms of the loan, so she was complicit in whatever dodgy dealings (if any) there were in providing that money to her.

She's only 'concerned' about the source now she's apparently finding it to be a financial burden. I call bullshit on her concern.

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